Alright, this thread is all about using overt verbal communication in order to get girls so hot and bothered that they basically drag you to the bedroom.
How do you do that?
Really quite simple.
1. Gather available and attractive women in a comfortable and relaxed setting where conversation flows freely. Perhaps add in some alcohol to loosen them up.
2. Keep the mood light hearted and fun. Introduce sex topics either by telling a story with sexual undertones, or build on top of an innuendo. There should be plenty of those anyway.
Sex is a taboo topic in a lot of cultures, so one of the challenges here is keeping things on topic. Girls might want to change the topic or avoid the topic all together because they know it gets them all hot and bothered and they get uncomfortable sitting there like that. Or they're afraid of being judged and what everyone else thinks.
The key is to make them feel safe and not like they're being judged. If they feel any judgement they might be more resistant later on. Gotta make them feel good.
When it comes to telling stories, make sure you use the opportunity to tell stories that are intriguing, that make them wish they were a part of them, or just any story that paints you in a good light. The more stories the better.
At some point, since sex is on everyone's mind all you have to do is make an invitation and then boom. Say goodbye to LMR. The hard work has already been done. You just have to push it forward.
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There's a lot of talk on this forum about day game and nightclub game and this and that. For some guys that's great. For others like myself, we're looking for a different style of game that can take away a lot of the bullshit and just make things easier.
The above works best when it's at yours or a friend's house with a group of people, at a hostel, or somewhere else where logistics lead to things progressing towards sex.
Of course, you still need to find a group of girls who are down for this. Assuming you're a traveler though, shouldn't be too difficult. There's always traveler girls who are looking to have fun with experienced guys, and local girls who want to play with the interesting and well to do foreign guys.
Nothing revolutionary or groundbreaking about this thread. Nothing in game really is. Just a reminder that there are options outside of what is traditionally talked about and that things can be simple if you let them be.
For context, this is what happened last night, except for the sex part. I'm in the middle of nowhere and I met three French girls at a restaurant. I sat down at their table and we chatted for several hours. They're traveling together and are friends from college and quite young. 19 and 21. There was clear interest coming from all three of them. Where I messed up was not making the banter super sexualized and trying to get a 4-some going on. Who knows. It could've happened if the right mood was created.
Anway, the above post is essentially what I wished I'd read before I went out last night. Hope it's helpful for someone.
How do you do that?
Really quite simple.
1. Gather available and attractive women in a comfortable and relaxed setting where conversation flows freely. Perhaps add in some alcohol to loosen them up.
2. Keep the mood light hearted and fun. Introduce sex topics either by telling a story with sexual undertones, or build on top of an innuendo. There should be plenty of those anyway.
Sex is a taboo topic in a lot of cultures, so one of the challenges here is keeping things on topic. Girls might want to change the topic or avoid the topic all together because they know it gets them all hot and bothered and they get uncomfortable sitting there like that. Or they're afraid of being judged and what everyone else thinks.
The key is to make them feel safe and not like they're being judged. If they feel any judgement they might be more resistant later on. Gotta make them feel good.
When it comes to telling stories, make sure you use the opportunity to tell stories that are intriguing, that make them wish they were a part of them, or just any story that paints you in a good light. The more stories the better.
At some point, since sex is on everyone's mind all you have to do is make an invitation and then boom. Say goodbye to LMR. The hard work has already been done. You just have to push it forward.
---
There's a lot of talk on this forum about day game and nightclub game and this and that. For some guys that's great. For others like myself, we're looking for a different style of game that can take away a lot of the bullshit and just make things easier.
The above works best when it's at yours or a friend's house with a group of people, at a hostel, or somewhere else where logistics lead to things progressing towards sex.
Of course, you still need to find a group of girls who are down for this. Assuming you're a traveler though, shouldn't be too difficult. There's always traveler girls who are looking to have fun with experienced guys, and local girls who want to play with the interesting and well to do foreign guys.
Nothing revolutionary or groundbreaking about this thread. Nothing in game really is. Just a reminder that there are options outside of what is traditionally talked about and that things can be simple if you let them be.
For context, this is what happened last night, except for the sex part. I'm in the middle of nowhere and I met three French girls at a restaurant. I sat down at their table and we chatted for several hours. They're traveling together and are friends from college and quite young. 19 and 21. There was clear interest coming from all three of them. Where I messed up was not making the banter super sexualized and trying to get a 4-some going on. Who knows. It could've happened if the right mood was created.
Anway, the above post is essentially what I wished I'd read before I went out last night. Hope it's helpful for someone.
