[BlueMark]

This is a thread to consolidate lessons that newbies have learned on their journeys into a single place, so that future newbies can read it when starting out.

Stick to posting lessons you have learned as a newbie. If you have field reports or requests for advice, post them in another thread.

I'll start...

This just occurred to me after a few days of contemplating a recent failure. When you have been rejected by a woman or have otherwise blown it (as I had), you feel bad about it. But you're really just back to where you were the day before you met her. You didn't lose your job, health, etc. Nothing has changed except a blow to your ego. You weren't as good as you thought you were. That's it. Nothing of substance is any different than the day before. Learn from it, pick yourself up, and move on as a better man.

I chuckled and felt better as I walked down the street thinking about it.

[lonewolf1992]

PERSISTENCE!

I had to be persistent with a couple of girls I was dancing with after being rejected 4 times in my first 'solo' night. They chatted me up a bit at first, but shortly after I felt like they were not giving me enough kino, and the hottest one was kind of ignoring me even though I was being cocky and funny. I kept dancing, and dancing, and dancing, and thought about leaving after while. Then, their comfort towards me started to grow and they opened up. I kept frame and a cool vibe throughout the dancing. I ended up making out with the hottest girl I've pulled up in my life 20 minutes later. Dirty dancing, grabbed my dick, got the most erotic dancing I've ever gotten but lost the bang due to poor logistics.

[Conclusion013]

Be dominant. The last few girls I've pulled have all commented on how they appreciate me not being indecisive. After a text stating our plans the response was "ugh your dominance so sexy".

[Chiosboy90]

It doesn't matter when she flakes. Do not get angry. It's normal in our society. I always give girls a 2nd chance but after that, block and delete. Maybe I lost some fucks because of that but my mental health is way more important than some hoes.

and second biggest mistakes I made with tons of women:

"If you feel doing something physical, you just do it".

If you feel like to kiss her do it. Holding her hands? Just do it BUT learn to calibrate. If she blocked your hands on her pants, don't push it. Respect it. Since I do this, the girls even will grab your dick later on the night/day at her own pace. If it's not the kiss (in my experience, you can try again later when she blocked you for kissing...hell you have to!) but when it gets sexual, don't over push it. Lost good looking women like this. *sigh*.

Oh and:
Do not talk about game, red pill and other stuff related to it with women in general.