Quote: (08-02-2018 02:39 AM)HankMoody Wrote:
Quote: (08-02-2018 12:31 AM)Fortis Wrote:
Hobbies and books make you smarter and more successful. I've never met a successful man who didn't read books or have hobbies.
Being successful is pussy dynamite.
Ehhhhh...
Look at Anthony Bourdain. Educated, well traveled, wealthy, interesting... and he had a lot of issues with women cucking him.
I know a lot of doctors, lawyers, architects, accountants, engineers, professors, and businessmen who are awful with women. In contrast, I know a lot of "internet CEOs", bartenders, and DJs who clean up. Candidly, I've found the latter does better on the whole.
There are a lot of issues here...
- The most successful men spend their time mostly around other men. My clientele is about 90% men, as are other lawyers who make it in this profession for ten years.
- Most women don't want to actually be intellectually challenged, nor do they have an interest. For the most part, your "smart, independent" women just post stuff about Trump on Facebook and wear pussy hats to protests. Rah rah, abortion good, Trump bad, love trumps hate! Put a picture of us protesting on Instagram! So intellectual.
- Women want excitement and passion. "I drafted these sweet documents" or "I closed a big deal today" just isn't "sexy." "I wrote a new song on my guitar, lets smoke some weed and I'll sing it to you" is.
- Given the amount of variety out there and rise of swipe apps, Instagram, etc., women are favoring good looks over success and well rounded interests. "Wow, he has a good job" isn't as important as how cool his Instagram is. This isn't a complaint, it's simply an observation. Most of my attractive female friends are "industry", and they date other industry guys (with some exceptions).
Roosh put it very well when he said getting women comes down to being a modern day clown. This article pretty much sums it up:
http://www.rooshv.com/how-to-be-a-good-clown
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"What women want from men is excitement, entertainment, and passion—the things that hit her most primal buttons. Being well-read with philosophy or history doesn’t make her wet, but teasing does. Being a prudent businessman who can close important deals doesn’t turn a girl on, but making her laugh does. Being a balanced human being without any mental disorders won’t get you laid, but having the skill to cold approach random women and display dark triad traits will."
Bourdain is not a great counterexample because he was in a position to get laid way more easily than over 99% of guys his age and from a wide range of women. His problems were arguably more a result of his taste in women (or lack thereof). If he really cared about fidelity he would have just dated a good girl fan rather than a tatted up feminazi poster girl for "me too". Regardless, his level of world fame is way too much of a confounding variable to draw any meaningful conclusions about how being worldly affects your love life.