I just turned 31 years old and am in excellent physical shape. I am in fit athletic condition, have decent bulk to my average frame. People tell me I closely resemble the UFC fighter, Jorge St. Pierre (I do). This concerns a 19 year old co-worker (I know, it's a joke short term job I will be quitting in a month or two's time, surrounded by young hotties, several of them are dating co-workers who they met on the job, it's not frowned upon). This girl is about to quit to leave for college for early August, so she'll be gone regardless.
She had been giving me some IOI's for a little while (looking at me as a guy to bang rather than BF material, imo, just raw primitive attraction, it seems), loves feigning feinting so I may catch her. Let's me touch her whenever. She hasn't had a boyfriend for a year. She's attractive, and taller than me (she's obviously uncomfortable about it).
A week ago, I was wearing a tank top one day off shift when she told me, "you have to stop wearing tank tops here..." I asked, "why?" She replied, "because you look hott." So, I went ahead and got her number. We started texting here and there and I haven't pushed it with her much at all. She seemed to be mostly interested in attention rather than me, and I stopped texting. Finally, she initiated a minor little text yesterday. I responded, and then left it at that. Cold shoulder. Last night, I barely talked to her.
I am very rusty as far as experience goes with women (long story, been years, sadly to say, was in a situation where I was isolated and away from society at large, which has taken a lot of my confidence away, naturally). I'm viewed as being "cute" by a lot of the girls there.
Last night she remarked about how we're not going to see one another after these next few couple of days. Last thing she said before she left was remarking about how she shops for underwear a lot (bringing up sexual topics I guess?). I figure I should try to meet with her and go for the bang to break the destructive cycle in which I've been trapped for years. Would be a major, major boost to my confidence with women. To get any reasonably attractive woman to break that cycle. Yes, I overthink everything, horribly. Since I learned the basic tenets of Game I can't help myself but to obsess and over-analyze everything I say and do (very OCD) when interacting with women instead of just letting myself go and interacting with them, try to follow scripts of what to say, avoid letting off any sign of perceived weakness/neediness/etc. In the past, women would chase after me once they got to know me (especially once I had a girlfriend, all their friends would chase me, hunt me, it was blissful while it lasted); as a result, I suck at actually trying to pull women in.
Where I am at right now is I am contemplating sending her a joke text about taking her to a foam-themed orgy, rush into sex, stream online, then to a nice hotel wrapping ourselves in bed linen discussing our place in the Universe. Right afterwards then say "just kidding" and make the real proposition. The intention is keeping her on her toes, spin the rationalization hamster, and keep her guessing, along with some aloofness (Julien Blanc inspired sub-communication emotional communication thing, implanting sexualized thoughts in her head, etc). Downside is she doesn't seem to get or at least appreciate my sense of humor (most people think I'm hilarious, one of the main reasons women have liked me a lot in the past). I only have 4 days left to try and make something happen before I go out of town for 2 weeks.
Any input/advice would be appreciated, naturally. Trying to KISS. I've already fucked myself over with some of the girls, especially the one who I really like (who was minorly chasing me for a couple of weeks, but I put it off too long, too much of an asshole, and she went cold, auto-rejection hell). Thanks guys.
She had been giving me some IOI's for a little while (looking at me as a guy to bang rather than BF material, imo, just raw primitive attraction, it seems), loves feigning feinting so I may catch her. Let's me touch her whenever. She hasn't had a boyfriend for a year. She's attractive, and taller than me (she's obviously uncomfortable about it).
A week ago, I was wearing a tank top one day off shift when she told me, "you have to stop wearing tank tops here..." I asked, "why?" She replied, "because you look hott." So, I went ahead and got her number. We started texting here and there and I haven't pushed it with her much at all. She seemed to be mostly interested in attention rather than me, and I stopped texting. Finally, she initiated a minor little text yesterday. I responded, and then left it at that. Cold shoulder. Last night, I barely talked to her.
I am very rusty as far as experience goes with women (long story, been years, sadly to say, was in a situation where I was isolated and away from society at large, which has taken a lot of my confidence away, naturally). I'm viewed as being "cute" by a lot of the girls there.
Last night she remarked about how we're not going to see one another after these next few couple of days. Last thing she said before she left was remarking about how she shops for underwear a lot (bringing up sexual topics I guess?). I figure I should try to meet with her and go for the bang to break the destructive cycle in which I've been trapped for years. Would be a major, major boost to my confidence with women. To get any reasonably attractive woman to break that cycle. Yes, I overthink everything, horribly. Since I learned the basic tenets of Game I can't help myself but to obsess and over-analyze everything I say and do (very OCD) when interacting with women instead of just letting myself go and interacting with them, try to follow scripts of what to say, avoid letting off any sign of perceived weakness/neediness/etc. In the past, women would chase after me once they got to know me (especially once I had a girlfriend, all their friends would chase me, hunt me, it was blissful while it lasted); as a result, I suck at actually trying to pull women in.
Where I am at right now is I am contemplating sending her a joke text about taking her to a foam-themed orgy, rush into sex, stream online, then to a nice hotel wrapping ourselves in bed linen discussing our place in the Universe. Right afterwards then say "just kidding" and make the real proposition. The intention is keeping her on her toes, spin the rationalization hamster, and keep her guessing, along with some aloofness (Julien Blanc inspired sub-communication emotional communication thing, implanting sexualized thoughts in her head, etc). Downside is she doesn't seem to get or at least appreciate my sense of humor (most people think I'm hilarious, one of the main reasons women have liked me a lot in the past). I only have 4 days left to try and make something happen before I go out of town for 2 weeks.
Any input/advice would be appreciated, naturally. Trying to KISS. I've already fucked myself over with some of the girls, especially the one who I really like (who was minorly chasing me for a couple of weeks, but I put it off too long, too much of an asshole, and she went cold, auto-rejection hell). Thanks guys.