Quote: (07-21-2017 08:10 PM)sonoran_ Wrote:
It is crazy to think how someone who had the money, fame and everything that comes with it, things that all people want a taste of, wont satisfy.
Some sober words from Ecclesiastes:
What do people gain from all their labors at which they toil under the sun? Generations come and generations go.....I denied myself nothing my eyes desired; I refused my heart no pleasure.My heart took delight in all my labor, and this was the reward for all my toil.
11 Yet when I surveyed all that my hands had done and what I had toiled to achieve,everything was meaningless, a chasing after the wind; nothing was gained under the sun...... Enjoy life with your wife, whom you love, all the days of this meaningless life that God has given you under the sun—all your meaningless days. For this is your lot in life and in your toilsome labor under the sun.
I've read through Ecclesiastes numerous times, trying to understand the wisdom there. I feel like my life has no meaning, or at least, I have felt this way. I find I'm not able to simply say it outright as I initially typed it.
I'm somewhat bitter towards God, yet I still believe. I was not able to father children, so I have no descendants. I lived far too long as a blue pill man, and now my youth is behind me. The version of America and Western Civilization that I grew up in is gone and rejected by a huge percentage of the current population. I have no cause to devote myself to. All I can do is distract myself and engage in hedonism until I get old and die.
While I've considered life in these terms, it's obviously a poor way to look at things. To even follow the line of thought above demands that I figure out something more substantive to live for.
First of all, while I never had children, I do have loved ones in my life, who make me happy to spend time with, and who I care deeply about. Some actual family, some I've bonded with to where I feel they have become family, and some that are high quality long term friends. I also have a very interesting job, and a great circle of co-workers. So, while my life has not been perfect, and I still have some issues, I'm actually quite blessed.
Also, I think one of the answers is to reject this introspective notion that you have to have some kind of narrative "meaning" to your life. Life is messy. You can't understand or explain everything. As the saying goes, "Life is for living". It's better to live in the moment. Involve yourself in interesting things. Take in beauty, from nature and art. Enjoy pleasant company. Have sex, do drugs, listen to music, travel to exotic places.
Count your blessings, don't dwell on life's difficulties, and live each day as well as you can. I think this is very similar to the conclusions in Ecclesiastes.
Finally, I'd like to mention that this forum and the brotherhood I feel here is one of the great positives in my life. I love you guys!