[wonderer1]

I see positives in both approaches, but in your experience what works best? Youre potentially going back to a country and you have leads, do you tell her early on that youre going back and on a specific date - this will keep her motivated to talk to you. Or do you not tell her, and keep a scarcity mindset, she is scared of losing you.

[Cobra]

Dude next time post in the Game Newbie section not Travel. On top of that instead of creating new threads and clogging the forum, post in one of the forum or player lounge threads for such questions.

We have rules here. Read rhem.

[Fortis]

I'll bite. If you're traveling to a new country don't tell her anything. I like to make it seem whimsical and cool. I Just decided to bust out a trip to Shibuya last week. Deal with it.

Take photos of you at cool spots and send em to her, but don't talk a lot. Just send photos and build up her interesting.

Then invite for drinks when you're back. Also bring her back a cheap trinket or sorts. Bitches like trinkets.