[Nelson254]

Hey guys long time lurker here lol.

I would like to explain a bit about me before I begin telling my journey as this is my first post.

I am 30, white, English, athletic build once the weight has been lost, wear glasses, 5ft 9/10 unsure which, dark brown hair, hazel eyes and live at home too. (My hairdresser said I am going bald but it doesn't show at the moment) I have decided to except it and have my hair cut short if that is the case or commit suicide but am not going to do that lol.

I have been overweight for the last 11 years which has definitely destroyed my confidence. When I did get drunk I never approached the hot girls and even then I wouldn't have succeeded. I have chased many girls away with my neediness which pissed me off.

I first registered with Roosh a couple of years ago but never actually took any notice until my trip to Portsmouth in August 2016 with my father because I wanted to get out of London for a bit.

I read a few datasheets from the roosh forum including the recent Croatian report and the Toronto data sheet and that finally was the catalyst that spurred me into action. I looked into the mirror and said, You're a fat asshole never going to get laid, you have to change or will die an unhappy man. I have also decided to reject feminism and multiculturalism and will be the real man that expresses his view point without worrying what other people think. (I will not discuss politics with women on dates of course because that could be a deal breaker as I'm just getting started)

I decided to go to the gym to shed the pounds and update my wardrobe. I have to report that I have been going to the gym for the last 7/8 months 4-6 days a week and have seen my body beginning to take shape and have updated my wardrobe. I am also going to learn Salsa too as I know the basics but wish to expand on that.

I admit that I struggle with women because I have nothing interesting to tell them. I decided to delete all my porn stash and decided to stop fapping a few weeks ago, I have not missed it.

I love England but I have always wanted to travel the world so have decided to travel to Europe this year. I have booked 2 trips with two tour operators in May and June travelling to France, Andorra and Spain as well as Germany, Austria and Czech Republic to gain an experience and meet new people. I am really excited too.

I am learning Spanish too but that's going at a snails pace. I feel that I have potential into becoming a great player but at the moment my confidence is locked in a chest with a lock which I am trying to break.

Any advice would be welcome. I would like to meet fellow Roosh members in London too and am willing to take one for the team in speaking to a whale if need be while you get the number of the other girl lol.

That's about it really. I feel the change inside me and can't wait for my first trip on 5th May this year.

I'd like to thank all of you for inspiring me to change my ways and look forward to bringing more value to the forum once I am more successful. (PS under my username it says Male Feminist, I am NOT and would like some help deleting that and change it too recovering beta or something else)

[Vill@in]

(04-04-2017 02:37 PM)Nelson254 Wrote:  

(PS under my username it says Male Feminist, I am NOT and would like some help deleting that and change it too recovering beta or something else)

You can't change it until you post more. It will automatically change as your post count goes up.

Good luck on your journey. Remember, only you are responsible for changing your life. You know what to do.

[Robtormar]

You've already taken the right steps. Your confidence will increase over time, just like your gym progress. However you still gotta approach them honeys so approach approach approach

Good job and keep going!

[Mig Picante]

All sounds like good changes so far, keep it up.

Ps. approach, start talking to people!

[Zanardi]

(04-04-2017 02:37 PM)Nelson254 Wrote:  

I decided to go to the gym to shed the pounds and update my wardrobe. I have to report that I have been going to the gym for the last 7/8 months 4-6 days a week

I think it's too much 4-6 times a week. You'll likely overtrain and drain your hormonal level

(04-04-2017 02:37 PM)Nelson254 Wrote:  

I admit that I struggle with women because I have nothing interesting to tell them.

At 30, I think you actually need to be more talkative. I think you have enough experiences to talk about, unless you're a WW2 veteran in Call of Duty.

Good luck, chap!

[Nelson254]

Hey man

I have become more extroverted at work and people have noticed that but there are still some hot girls at work which I would like to talk to but something is keeping me back. I am also listening to music and reading about other topics so I have more to discuss with them if needed.

What do you mean I will drain my hormonal level? I do weights every other day so I do cardio for 44 minutes on the cross trainer too. So it's Mon, Wed, Fri and Sunday weight lifting, then the next week would be Tuesday, Thursday and Saturday.

How many days should I go to the gym?? I need to get rid of the fat somehow and by cutting back on food is the other thing I am doing.

Thanks for the advice, much appreciated.

[Topsdown]

We don't know OPs workout routine. He may be doing some sort of light intensity workout. I have faith that the OP will have interesting things to say.