Sadly my time in Lima has come to an end. Getting to know Cr33pin and Vinny was a highlight of the trip for sure . Awesome dudes, too bad they're gay lovers
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Sorry guys, it's time the forum knew.
Vinny was awesome enough to share with me a lot of his game knowledge, and I think that the simple act of seeing him do his thing in person was the most helpful thing I've ever had for my game. He has the right combination of an analytical, methodical mind plus the ability to be creative and spontaneous that makes him a great teacher. First he explained to me his philosophies on gaming, and then I got to see him actually do it successfully with very attractive women; just those two things made approaching seem very easy and natural. I've always been the guy who gets stuck in his own head and is very good at coming up with a hundred excuses to not approach, but just a little bit of time approaching with Vinny changed all that. Not that I don't still get nervous, I do, but it's now easy to overcome all the excuses and "just do it", which is a life changer for me. For example today I'm back in my hometown and there was a cute girl pumping gas next to me and I just automatically went up and approached and had a good conversation, she ended up being from Paraguay and looked even better up close. Before I would have just talked myself out of approaching and then spent the rest of the day regretting it.
I'm also now a huge believer in the Instagram method. I was never one to do social media (only had a FB account with 2 pictures on it). But seeing how Vinny works it, I have to say that it's
genius. There is a whole thread already so I won't repeat too much, but there is one thing which I've noticed that I don't remember if it's been mentioned. Using the Instagram as a way to close
makes day gaming significantly easier psychologically, because I know that all I have to do is get a girl willing to trade Instagram info (much easier than getting a phone number), and then the Instagram will do the work for me. The point being that for guys like me who have found it difficult to approach, using the Instagram is a lot less of a mountain to climb than knowing that in some 5 minute conversation in the middle of the day I'm going to have to show off how cool of a guy I am, without being a bragging douche, enough so that she's willing to continue the interaction and go out with me despite all the distractions coming at her from all directions. Now with the Instagram, I am the distraction. But without much effort on my part. And now when I approach I know that I don't have to pull off this magical feat of gaming or be completely wasting my time, all I have to do is get the Instagram and the "value showing" will already be done for me.
If anyone from here gets a chance to share a place with either of these guys then go for it, you won't be disappointed, unless you like your steaks grilled properly because they still need a little practice with that.