Since "discovering" the community circa 2011, I can say that I can obtain same night lays (SNLs) with girls with ease. Definitely not regularly taking home bombshells, but mostly 7's and 8's with the occasional bombshells here and there when fortune decides to smile upon me that night. A few of you might remember me from my recent 100-notch thread where I "celebrated" that milestone. I want to give the background that I'm "decently good" at this pickup stuff before I ask my question so it can be framed somewhat appropriately for me and my skill level.
Now here is my (somewhat embarrassing) issue: I can't make these girls stick around.
Not only can I not make them stick around and incorporate them into the harem that I am trying to build, it goes as far as I can sometimes be completely ghosted. Or left in the spot where I talk to them on snapchat and they expend the bare minimum amount of energy to reply back. Any attempt I made to see them again results in a super lame excuse or the "yeah maybe haha" purgatory. This is the shit I dealt with when getting weak daygame numbers when I was 17 years old and new to all this stuff. I have no idea why I'm getting this with girls I picked up from the club and banged.
I am whining a little bit and there are girls that do stick around and get clingy and whatnot, but they are definitely the exception, not the norm. I'm probably around 120+ in notch count and I'm very quickly getting diminishing returns in my pleasure from these. I really want the hot ones (8's and 9's) to stick around and actually have like a mini-fling or mini-relationship with me.
Also, purely for the sake of discussion, can we assume I am having "good sex" with them? Just to pre-emptively rule out the replies that might say "you just gotta fuck them right bro!! leave their pussy sore and they'll be begging you for more!!" I fully realize and appreciate the power of fucking a girl properly and knocking the doors off her pussy, but I think my issue may lie a little deeper beyond that.
So can any of your veterans chime in on this? Is this a stage that you have been through yourself? High notch count and easy pulls with very little to no retention? Is this a phase through the journey that I'm going through and must overcome? Or is this simply a sign that I'm making some huge mistakes somewhere and I'm going down the wrong path?
Cheers
Now here is my (somewhat embarrassing) issue: I can't make these girls stick around.
Not only can I not make them stick around and incorporate them into the harem that I am trying to build, it goes as far as I can sometimes be completely ghosted. Or left in the spot where I talk to them on snapchat and they expend the bare minimum amount of energy to reply back. Any attempt I made to see them again results in a super lame excuse or the "yeah maybe haha" purgatory. This is the shit I dealt with when getting weak daygame numbers when I was 17 years old and new to all this stuff. I have no idea why I'm getting this with girls I picked up from the club and banged.
I am whining a little bit and there are girls that do stick around and get clingy and whatnot, but they are definitely the exception, not the norm. I'm probably around 120+ in notch count and I'm very quickly getting diminishing returns in my pleasure from these. I really want the hot ones (8's and 9's) to stick around and actually have like a mini-fling or mini-relationship with me.
Also, purely for the sake of discussion, can we assume I am having "good sex" with them? Just to pre-emptively rule out the replies that might say "you just gotta fuck them right bro!! leave their pussy sore and they'll be begging you for more!!" I fully realize and appreciate the power of fucking a girl properly and knocking the doors off her pussy, but I think my issue may lie a little deeper beyond that.
So can any of your veterans chime in on this? Is this a stage that you have been through yourself? High notch count and easy pulls with very little to no retention? Is this a phase through the journey that I'm going through and must overcome? Or is this simply a sign that I'm making some huge mistakes somewhere and I'm going down the wrong path?
Cheers
Grant me serenity to accept the things I cannot change,
The courage to change the things I can,
And the wisdom to know the difference