[tedwaltmuf]

How do you get a girl to commit and set a date for something? I have this problem with quite a few girls I know. They will suggest something or I'll suggest something and say it's a great idea. Then when I try to work them into my schedule they are always "busy", I'll suggest a day and they will always have something else going on that day.

For example, before I ever knew what pick up was and had no idea what I was doing this girl asked me over to her house for drinks, her not me. I, of course, said yes and told her to text me and she never did. I wrote it off as a loss and moved on. Then a week and a half ago she texted me out of the blue and we chatted for a few minutes and caught up and I asked her to tell me all about something that she's been working on, she said I don't want to be a bother and I said no go for it. I eventually said something like you know you still owe me that beer why don't you get me some and I'll come over and listen so you don't have to type as much. She said yes and I asked what time worked for her. She said not this weekend but maybe next weekend. I said ok Saturday or Sunday and she hasn't replied back in over a week.

How do you force a girl to commit to a time? This happens with quite a few girls I know and even with ones I'm not involved with sexually. They will ask to be tutored and offer to pay me. I'll say great when do you want to meet and they say let me check my schedule and never get back to me.

[RatInTheWoods]

Increase your value. Raise your SMV.

They will chase you if you do that.

[polymath]

Your mentality is logistical.

Think more emotionally.

It sounds like you depend a little upon pushing a girl to do what's desired of her. "You owe me that beer" is an example. What I try to do is either lead the situation by example, or create a vacuum where she feels like she has to pursue a little.

Arousing intrigue doesn't have to be sexual. "I want to check out this lounge that just opened up, I hear it's really hot" is intriguing without being forward at all.

Girls will take a day off work to spend time with you, if they are interested. If they are not interested, they'll keep talking to you because they enjoy the attention, but never actually appear in person. So you have two tasks.

First, do what RatinTheWoods suggested and up your status a little.

Second, filter through these girls to see who is wasting your time and who isn't. Ignore the time wasters. Don't try to achieve a breakthrough with one difficult girl. Instead, talk to several and don't get into a pursuer-resister situation with any of them.

[jselysianeagle]

(02-20-2017 09:47 PM)tedwaltmuf Wrote:  

How do you force a girl to commit to a time? This happens with quite a few girls I know and even with ones I'm not involved with sexually. They will ask to be tutored and offer to pay me. I'll say great when do you want to meet and they say let me check my schedule and never get back to me.

Say wut? LOL. Women flake, it's what they do. Unless you've already fucked a chic really good, she can very easily change her mind about you - and even then, there's really no guarantee how long it'll last.

These women that are blowing you off just don't see you in the way you'd like them to see you. It's OK, it happens to everybody from time to time - it's not for nothin that game requires tough skin.

Just pipeline as many women as you can, keep learning, and forget the ones that don't get back to you. In time you won't even remember them.

Good luck.

[crispytaco]

The problem is that some girls flake, because are attention seekers. Others because they ran into these emotional cycles, unlike man.
A month ago this girl was very interested in going out. Then she went silent. And today, she started sending nude pictures, completely horny.

[Vill@in]

I close on girls that flake by nexting them.

YOU are the prize, not them. Your time if too valuable to waste on those attention vampires.