There are LOTS...
You'd have to do some digging OR find diamond in the rough locally while sifting for ones you CLICK WITH...
IMO a few EASY RED-FLAGS...
- Guy does more marketing than actual living (My internet marketer boys have mentioned guys killing it $$ wise in this niche who have wife/kids, has zero social/sexual skills BUT is a great marketer)
- Youtubers...Anyone who talks talks talks and never shows BEHIND THE SCENES simiply scale back your expectations as it's just a FACADE (This era guys are more focused on male validation)
- No Lifestyle...The guys killing it who have no lifestyle are TOO BUSY to give advice as game & work consumes them. They work to buy time to GAME MORE. Most don't associate with community and usually only met through friend of a friend. (I know 3 guys like this) However, 90% suck & have no lifestyle so it's usually easy to spot
There are select few who are atleast HONEST about their results which aren't PRETTY but they're better than flat out liars. There aren't too many guys who are AMAZING.
Also...If you look at the guys who live in 1-city...If they're NOT a plug, it's another red flag. There is no reason a so called GUY GOOD WITH WOMEN should have no insight/connects within their city.
RSD is a major red flag for that. RSD Luke was kind of used for that along with them trying to align with guys like elliot hulse or tai lopez BUT those are DUDES. Why are they not connected to GIRLS???
RSD Luke has some connections due to the other community dude he was connected with in vegas. However, promoter-angle isn't a GOOD angle but LOOKS BETTER than the average PUA type. On FB we had mutual friends with staff members of clubs. (As my connections made in NY reaches as far as LA, LV, MIA, Milan, London...Anywhere that has a high end scene)
In the early days...One community promoter friend used to get RSD bootcamps in the club. Lets just say he started calling them "gay" as they actually wouldnt do anything. An ex-instructor who was out on a slow night simply sat around bored out his mind. Which brings me to another red flag...
If a guy can't do a night of ONLY mixed groups...Then he's probably shit. He's heavily restricted and would never do well in a cliquish type environment.
In my early years I met over 100 community dudes and MOST were "meh". Even guys considered GOOD with decent sex lives in my mind are "meh".
It comes down to personal power and ability to facilitate things. If you teleported the character to a city would he be able to hit the ground running?
That is the benchmark because most guys LEARNING are essentially starting from nothing. Most will never be willing to self-discover as alot of PUA content is fear & ego based along with shitty perspectives.
I remember back in tinder days, lets just say mainstream articles of tinder texts MANY were from FB groups of guys trying to use tinder. It was as if guys were more focused on BEING TROLLS than actually having a sex life.
I condone self-discovery BUT NOT being an annoying parasite. Many guys learning & teaching need a major detox or wakeup call because they go about this the wrong way.
Very few get good from traditional PUA viewpoints and even then it's either the sacrfice of alot of time OR not that great despite 3, 5, 10+ years at this.
Sex should reach a point where it's like turning on a facuet because you've grown internally into a guy who women simply want to fuck...I've had situations where infront of my parents apr smoking 130am, chick sees me dancing to music on my headphones and asks if she can come upstairs to keep me company. (I had gf at time so just laughed BUT such situations were quite common for years now that it's no longer shocking)
Many times you're better off finding non-community dudes are simply "game" aware dudes who just does them and take aspects of wisdom or potential to self-explore for yourself.
One of my FAV youtube videos related to this realm isn't even from a PUA type, it's from a prankster. This is one of the best depiction of "my style" of bringing women into your life...
Because at end of day all a chick has to do is observe & be in my presence...If she makes the cut maybe I'll select. Most guys never would replicate the video because they're going on dates and/or "working their numbers" trying to get a date then fuck...In my mind all a waste of time and large investment for a random chick you don't even know you'd like other than "she was cute".
One of 1st thing a 50+ year old club owner once said
- "Without people like us, no one would have anywhere social to go"
- "I'm a social curator, I bring people together to socialize"