[Riker]

Hey guys... I watched a youtube video like a month ago saying to putting up an ad on Craigslist to meet girls... I didn't expect anything but I just got this from a girl (3 days ago but just checked that email today)

Subject : Hi there

I am a bit older than you, but I am moving to Vicente Lopez at the end of the month.
To be honest with you, I always lived in Capital and all my friends are from there.
Maybe we could meet up sometimes for a cup of coffee sometime?

Maria


I was skeptical that she said she was older but I looked up the email on Facebook and she is cute in the profile pic. My email is not the one I use on facebook so she won't be able to do the same.

I don't know what to do... just message back asking for her cell phone to set up the date that way? Setup the date by email? Ask a couple questions about her first so it doesn't seem like I'm super eager to meet? haha wish i hadn't checked her pic out, I would have better game.


Something like "Hey Maria, sure lets grab a beer sometime, should be fun. Give me your number and we'll set it up."


The other problem I have is that I don't know which ad she answered, the more casual hooking up one or the more I'm looking for a girl to date one. I made both but can't find the part that tells me which one she is responding to. My ads are way different too ha.....

[MiXX]

Before you ever set up a face-to-face with a girl you meet online; take strong consideration in getting her on webcam FIRST! this guarantees what you see, is what you get and not some whale with a fake Facebook profile.

It's foolish to think that any cute girl on Facebook does not have a hundred or more beta orbiters ready to jump in her pants and begging for her attention.

If she tells you she does not have a webcam; call bullshit immediately and throw the penalty flag or yellow card if you are a soccer fan. A woman without a webcam (especially if she's hot) is like a woman without a Facebook account in 2011...they exist, but extremely rare to hear about.



Create a Skype account separate from your normal one for this purpose.

It sounds too good to be true.

Mixx

[Dash Global]

I have fucked two girls off craiglist.

I put up a ad in the sexual encounters section saying i just moved here work alot dont have time to meet and date women yada and just looking for a friends with benefits deal at the moment.

I dont use my actual picture, I use this one dude that looks ALOT like me with a weird angle to where she wont notice anything to major if we meet in person.

first chick was a solid 6 latina with a huge rack.

the nxt was a 7 short haired brunette that was friends with a grl I knew! lol

Havent messed with it since. This was like 6 months ago.....

[Bronan the Barbarian!]

@Riker - I've banged two girls that I met on CL. One of them was straight fucking crazy. The other one was the most awesome girl I've ever dated. Both were 7.5 - 8 looks-wise. I've also dated/made out with (but failed to bang due to my pre-game beta days) two 9s that I met on Craigslist. This was all from the "M4W" section. In my area, the "Casual Encounters" section doesn't work and only nets floods of spam. Craigslist isn't always a fat trap, but you do need to be able to recognize a Secret Internet Fattie when you see one. A big tell is the size of her arms. If she refuses to send a full-body pic, she's probably a huge tub 'o guts.

Exchange a few emails before jumping straight into getting her number. It builds comfort/rapport (hat tip: Gmac) and it'll make you look less desperate. Throw out some qualifiers just like in regular face-to-face game (can she cook, is she crazy religious, etc).

Don't worry too much about the simultaneous ad. You'll still need to game the girl regardless of which one she answered.

@Dash - Never thought of the similar but fake picture idea. Sounds solid.

[Riker]

Dang I already sent this

Hey Maria, sure lets grab a beer sometime, should be fun. Whats your schedule like? Better yet give me your number and we'll set it up that way.

Christian

The 4 month dry spell is making me desperate haha. I don't think she'll be a fatty cause this is buenos aires. Should have done some back and forth.... just feel like meeting up for 30 to 60 minutes for a drink to see whatsup will be easier to get everything over with then to go back and forth and then meet her to find out we don't connect or that her pics make her look way better than in real life.

[PDX]

^ That's the best strategy for meeting someone online. A quick, time-constrained ("I only have time for a quick drink.") meet let's you escape gracefully if she's a munter. And if not, you can switch gears for a longer evening or just set up the next meet for a couple of days later.

[JofSuperman]

(08-17-2011 01:54 PM)Riker Wrote:  

Hey guys... I watched a youtube video like a month ago saying to putting up an ad on Craigslist to meet girls... I didn't expect anything but I just got this from a girl (3 days ago but just checked that email today)

Subject : Hi there

I am a bit older than you, but I am moving to Vicente Lopez at the end of the month.
To be honest with you, I always lived in Capital and all my friends are from there.
Maybe we could meet up sometimes for a cup of coffee sometime?

Maria


I was skeptical that she said she was older but I looked up the email on Facebook and she is cute in the profile pic. My email is not the one I use on facebook so she won't be able to do the same.

I don't know what to do... just message back asking for her cell phone to set up the date that way? Setup the date by email? Ask a couple questions about her first so it doesn't seem like I'm super eager to meet? haha wish i hadn't checked her pic out, I would have better game.


Something like "Hey Maria, sure lets grab a beer sometime, should be fun. Give me your number and we'll set it up."


The other problem I have is that I don't know which ad she answered, the more casual hooking up one or the more I'm looking for a girl to date one. I made both but can't find the part that tells me which one she is responding to. My ads are way different too ha.....

haha you watched the AFC Adam video for craigslist. I did it as well, I got lots of responses but was wary of them being spammers or gay dudes so I never responded to any...maybe I missed out haha

[mangadooza]

You made a thread asking for advice with respect to a single girl. You already lost. You're far too invested in the outcome.

My real advice: Stop thinking, and just do. You need to become desensitized to beauty, and the only way to do that is to continually interact with chicks when you don't give a fuck one way or the other. Only then will you attain the pinnacle of aloofness that is the key to everything related to girls.

[Riker]

Oh shit she replied and really well! lol I'm kinda paranoid, theres bitches here that will put shit in your drink and when you pass out take all your shit... probably should go to a love hotel instead of my place if she's down. She might also be a pro?

Maybe she is just a girl that meets random guys on Craigslist without even wanting to see a pic first?


Hi Christian,

To be hones, not much scheduled at the moment
Are you out and about Palermo at all?
My number is 15 xxxxxxxxxx

Maria


So she's argie from the spelling mistake of honest.... the smiley face makes me suspicious lol


This is the pic I found when searching her email in facebook. She said she is a bit older, and the weird coloring of the pic might mask a girl thats 50 something.... but who knows.


I was going out to palermo tonight anyways so I'll text her to meet up for a drink.

[Riker]

Oh man I just texted her (in spanish)

"Hey Maria, I'm going to be in Palermo tonight, what do you say we go for a beer at X bar at 11"

she replies

"See you there!"


Oh shit!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[pitt]

So many beautiful women in buenos aires and that is the women you going to meet..come on man

[Riker]

dude its a 4 month dry spell... I'm doing what I can. My game is not that tight obviously, and Argy girls aren't the easiest in the world as you may have heard.

[Smitty]

I say pound that pussy into oblivion.
And then regroup, raise your standards back up, and get back on a steady stream of lays.