Quote: (12-14-2016 08:14 AM)MANic Wrote:
What style do ladies in their 20s and 30s prefer?
confidence. your frame. that is the key.
i'm mid 40s and slightly overweight but my posture, body language, clothing, etc. signal status/leader of men, etc. some of this you can fake - clothing, posture, - and some of which you have to internalize - have a don't care attitude, attitude of abundance, etc.
a man in his 20s has youth. a man in his 30s and 40s has quiet confidence. yes, they have some material things and can afford nicer clothes, cars, apartments. but i increasingly shun those things because they bring little joy to my life. i get more IOIs now and get them when I'm not even well groomed, let alone haven't worked out for years.
in the book the Game, Straus talked about Tom Cruise, a good looking but very small guy. Cruise would study how confident men walked and spoke and then practiced emulating them.
so the answer to your question is easy, but implementing it takes years.