[Paideia]

I posted earlier about a particular chick I ran across online - we went out for a few drinks, made out and I'd rate the date a good 3 out of 5 - I did plenty of DHVing, but I subtract 1 point for no bang, and one more point for letting the date last too long and holes in my otherwise decent game.

After a couple of days of no activity, I decided to hit her up:

”hey you there what´s up”

“not much, you?”

“busy week. Can’t remember what you said so I got curious as to whether you were playing hard-to-get again ”

“not playing hard-to-get, just not the needy type can’t remember what I said, there was certainly plenty of alchohol in my blood-stream ”

“Bla bla – well, nice. I think we should wait at least another couple of years before we hang out again so no one comes across as needy ”

“Haha.. bla bla. Hell yeah, good idea “

I am not trying to impart any lessons or ask for SPECIFIC advice (I agree that's hopeless).

But in this instance I decided the best response was no response. She's not asking any questions, I had to hit her up, and while amiable, my gut feeling (which I trust) was the train had left the station, she had the upper hand, so i should just drop it - this girl is probably a solid 8.5 or more. She's used to guys chasing her. She even admitted by not accepting her friend request on FB before our date I'd piqued her interest.

I could spend all day trying to get her to show interest by humoring her (responding) so I am going to try a new tactic and just not respond to her last.

For the rest of you guys out there - is there a moment or time where the best response simply becomes NO response?

[Moma]

(08-12-2011 08:47 AM)Paideia Wrote:  

For the rest of you guys out there - is there a moment or time where the best response simply becomes NO response?

I kind of touched that with my 'Lizard Hygiene' post.

I have a lot of lizards that are just 'wasting time' in my phone book so I am about to delete them.

You can give her an ultimatum and shut her down or send her the 'Amour Fou' text as a closer.

In terms of moment or time, you can use your instincts to feel it out.

If a lizard is dilly dallying, she often has dyck on the side. Make your bid and go out and bag another reptile. I know it sounds easier than it is but there is no other method I can think of.

Try and have at least three active lizards on your roster (that you are dating) and another three on standby. When a lizard sees that you are busy, she will either step up or step off.

Remember, as a man, your value continues to increase whereas they decline steadily. Those that don't act right will be by the sides bitter while you age (an Athlone Mcginnis quote) like fine wine.

[Paideia]

(08-12-2011 09:08 AM)Moma Wrote:  

I kind of touched that with my 'Lizard Hygiene' post.

I have a lot of lizards that are just 'wasting time' in my phone book so I am about to delete them.

You can give her an ultimatum and shut her down or send her the 'Amour Fou' text as a closer.

In terms of moment or time, you can use your instincts to feel it out.

If a lizard is dilly dallying, she often has dyck on the side. Make your bid and go out and bag another reptile. I know it sounds easier than it is but there is no other method I can think of.

Try and have at least three active lizards on your roster (that you are dating) and another three on standby. When a lizard sees that you are busy, she will either step up or step off.

Remember, as a man, your value continues to increase whereas they decline steadily. Those that don't act right will be by the sides bitter while you age (an Athlone Mcginnis quote) like fine wine.

Other dycks should not even ENTER my thought process but I have to admit the above are my thoughts EXACTLY.

I'm working on getting some dairy cows into the barn - min. requirements are 7 (I'm tired of 6's) or if she's a six, then a pair of artificial fun bags and/or nice ass.

From Roissy:
Texting a girl after a difficult date is approval-seeking. It won’t help, and it could hurt your future chances with her. If you want to know how well a date went (as perceived by the girl, which, hate to say, is the perception that matters for getting laid), see if she texts you first. Girls who feel good after dates will often, in fact almost always, text you soon after the date has ended. They can’t help themselves. It’s like they want to shout their tingles from the top of a mountain.

My gut feeligns, too.


Paideia Maxim #1
Always keep a first date under 2 hours (1 is fine, too) unless you're spending the extra time fucking.

[Gmac]

(08-12-2011 09:15 AM)Paideia Wrote:  

Paideia Maxim #1
Always keep a first date under 2 hours (1 is fine, too) unless you're spending the extra time fucking.

I completely disagree, especially if you are going for the notch. 2 hours is fine at the first venue, but 4 hours from meeting to bedroom is a general rule of thumb for getting the bang... unless you already know she's DTF the chances are slim.

I usually spend 1-2 hours at the first spot (a bar) and move to another bar, darker, dive-ier, and usually with live music.