[scrambled]

(10-05-2016 02:05 AM)Mushroom Wrote:  

(10-05-2016 01:39 AM)david.garrett84 Wrote:  

34 IS BIG. Remember, too, women have slimmer waists than men by design.

A 34 inch waist on any woman is nothing short of mimicking the body of a refrigerator.

[C-Note]

Yes, they probably will try to dox this guy and get him publicly fired. When men openly say stuff like this it directly threatens the feminine imperative so they pull out all the stops to try to shut it down before it spreads.

[El Padrone]

Funny thing is a fellow 'man' will out him soon.

[joost]

(10-05-2016 03:48 AM)Latan Wrote:  

Unfortunately, these websites only work because women are there.
If the moderators didn't treat them like special snowflakes, they'd simply leave.
No woman --> no man --> no money --> website shut down.

It's a simple law of business, sadly.

And those desperate are the ones who pay membership.

I registered at OKC and oh my, 90% fatties.

[Private Man]

(10-05-2016 08:06 AM)El Padrone Wrote:  

Funny thing is a fellow 'man' will out him soon.

You are very right. The irony is that the fellow doing the doxing will be a total loser who is completely invisible to women despite his efforts at white knighting.

[DamienCasanova]

If they banned all the chicks on POF who said they didn't date white men, black men, old men, out of shape men, etc..., there would be no women left on there at all!

And they always follow it up with, SORRY, it's just THE WAY I FEEL! It's my Preference!

I guess we aren't allowed to have preferences though. You will be forced to fornicate with that hambeast and LIKE IT!

[Hell_Is_Like_Newark]

Back in my single days, early in the internet era, I tried the online dating & introduction sites. I see from this thread, nothing has changed. The women fell into two categories (sometimes both):

1. Fat
2. A list of emotional, physical, and financial requirements that damn few men could ever meet. Sweetie.. how many guys 24 - 27 years of age make "at least $120k a year" in the mid 1990s?

[Phoenix]

Whenever POF comes up I always feel compelled to remind everyone:
A man single-handedly made that site with no investors and sold it for $500M

POF may very well be a ticket to sticking your dick in some sweaty rolls as a user, but to the builder it was a ticket to being able to stick his dick in bulk hot sluts. Can you imagine when he was running it? Not only are you filthy rich, but you have full control of an online dating platform used by thousands of women. You don't think he tweaked the display rates of a few local hotties he was interested in, pushed them to the bottom of search results, tailored his profile to match the highest response rates, then sent them a message to their mailboxes in which the other 99% of emails were from the least attractive men on the site? That man is basically the Ghenghis Khan of internet dating.

[kaotic]

All this is complicated as fuck.

If a fat chick ever messages you online, block and delete her.

Why bother sending her a long winded message, tell her she isn't your type.

There's alot of ego stroking going on by that dude.


If he claims to be so good looking, in shape, and has a six figure salart - why the hell is he on fucking POF ?

I'm calling bullshit.

[fenetre]

I just deleted this app after reading this story. The girls on it are disgusting anyway.

[Buck Wild]

(10-05-2016 11:01 AM)kaotic Wrote:  

All this is complicated as fuck.

If a fat chick ever messages you online, block and delete her.

Why bother sending her a long winded message, tell her she isn't your type.

There's alot of ego stroking going on by that dude.


If he claims to be so good looking, in shape, and has a six figure salart - why the hell is he on fucking POF ?

I'm calling bullshit.

I agree completely.

I will never understand guys who go to war like this. Men are much, much better off voting with their feet than doing shit like this.

Simply do not respond to fat women on dating site under any circumstances. In real life, I don't have any fat friends and don't interact with fat women at all really.

The best way to fight back is to live a good life and date hot women--not waste time trying to reason with people who perceive no incentive whatsoever to change their behaviors.

[Game_Started]

POF (and to some extent OKC) is mostly filled with old hags, young fatties, and young moms using their pre-baby pics.

[Brother Abdul Majeed]

(10-05-2016 11:01 AM)kaotic Wrote:  

All this is complicated as fuck.

If a fat chick ever messages you online, block and delete her.

Why bother sending her a long winded message, tell her she isn't your type.

There's alot of ego stroking going on by that dude.


If he claims to be so good looking, in shape, and has a six figure salart - why the hell is he on fucking POF ?

I'm calling bullshit.

I think some guys just look for the headaches in life. Of course it's his right to be as picky as he wants, doesn't mean he has to advertise it.

[XPQ22]

I remember seeing another thread about POF a while back, I think it's pretty well known that the CEO is a huge white knight so this is hardly unexpected; they banned men over a certain age from contacting women some-cutoff number of years younger than them, regardless of the woman's preferences and where the cutoff is something ridiculous like being over 30 means you can't talk to women younger than 24, ages ago.

I got one lay from POF last year, but it was a single mom naturally and she wasn't the best looking so it felt bad. Other than that fluke the site has pretty much consistently been garbage, some of the girls are better looking than the average OKC fatty feminist blue hair but response rates are absolutely dismal compared to OKC and even Tinder in this area. Looks like most of the good looking girls on the app are just using it as a validation engine, they throw up some of their sluttiest pics and then write a one sentence "profile" consisting of something like "just ask me" or "ugh, you guys are losers. don't talk to me" and then let it sit there.

[N°6]

I thought the age restriction was +/- 14 years (however I have somehow received messages from women over 14 years my senior). If the age restriction is against any man talking to someone younger than 24 (therefore banning the traditional (age/2)+7 rule), then things are really bad.

POF is the online dating mainstream and the prevailing current is towards the older and more rotund woman. This internet mainstream will become the real life mainstream. You have been warned. The shaming and doxing of men refusing the attentions of the obese and nigh-infertile will continue. I was attacked by white-knights on the forum when I said that I would not date single others owing to the "rétro-actif" cuckoldry.

How many times do we read profiles of women like this, "PLEASE RESPECT MY PREFERENCES! I am tired of men who can't read my profile. I prefer professional, generous (£$), tall men over 6' who still have their hair. If this is not you, do not contact me."

Who else has read, "I work out a lot and I place a lot of importance in fitness and education. If you are out of shape and have less education than me, DO NOT CONTACT ME!"

During a somber period on POF, I contrasted my Favourite List with my Favourited List and the variance of age and quality was shocking. The average age of women who contacted me or favourited my was 5 years older and much bigger. That was when I deleted my account before I went MGTOW.

One day men, are blamed at having no standards (right-swiping) more than women then doxed for actually having standards.

[XPQ22]

(10-05-2016 01:05 PM)N°6 Wrote:  

How many times do we read profiles of women like this, "PLEASE RESPECT MY PREFERENCES! I am tired of men who can't read my profile. I prefer professional, generous (£$), tall men over 6' who still have their hair. If this is not you, do not contact me."

Who else has read, "I work out a lot and I place a lot of importance in fitness and education. If you are out of shape and have less education than me, DO NOT CONTACT ME!"

On OKCupid around here you're more likely to see something like: "ATTENTION CIS STRAIGHT WHITE MALES: I have noticed you guys constantly 'visiting' my profile and sending me messages fifty times a day. I must inform you that I find the majority of you grotesquely unattractive, and as you are all tools of the patriarchal oppressor I am EXTREMELY selective about which of you I choose to date.

For the rest of you, please note that I am currently in a loving non-monogamous relationship with a primary partner, two secondary partners, and six tertiary partners. So I find myself rather poly-saturated at the moment, but please feel free to contact me if you think I might appreciate your company as a friend."

then the pic just be some regular bitch who's 34 and a 6 on a good day.

Edit: if you managed to meet up with her when her friends weren't around, and you were a cis white oppressor 6' feet tall with muscles and good game she'd be droppin' those panties in 25 min guaranteed

[AneroidOcean]

(10-05-2016 12:21 PM)Game_Started Wrote:  

POF (and to some extent OKC) is mostly filled with old hags, young fatties, and young moms using their pre-baby pics.

I thought this too as I haven't used that site in many years, but then I went on there, searched by my criteria and found a few damn good looking young girls on there. Sure some percent might be fake, but it's not looking bad compared to the last time I used it.

If I wasn't in a LTR I'd be hunting on there as well as elsewhere, but then I always had a good profile/pics and got plenty of good responses on there. I kind of miss POF. I picked up a merely cute, but very feminine and sweet plate on there almost the first time I used it.

[fugly1000]

Lol, some members say he should've blocked her. Maybe she was so disgusting and delusional he had to say something. I wonder what the beast that "set him off" looks like.

[Rhyme or Reason]

(10-05-2016 02:10 PM)XPQ22 Wrote:  

I find myself rather poly-saturated at the moment...

Oh they're saturated alright.

[XPQ22]

(10-05-2016 03:39 PM)Red_Pillage Wrote:  

Oh they're saturated alright.

Haha, I mean I'd certainly bang out one of these "poly" girls if she were down after an hour at the bar, I have before, but why any man would sign on to be her plate among many others in the long-term saturation support crew is simply beyond me.

My hypothesis is that it's pretty clear chicks like this suffer from some fashion of personality disorder, and the men who sign up to be cucked have some type of narcissistic-codependent savior mentality, where they get off on fueling the bizarre whims of a looney tune.

[zoom]

Seriously though, I don't understand what this guys expects from POF. The site is full of 30+ overweight women.

[Germanicus]

(10-05-2016 12:35 PM)XPQ22 Wrote:  

I remember seeing another thread about POF a while back, I think it's pretty well known that the CEO is a huge white knight so this is hardly unexpected; they banned men over a certain age from contacting women some-cutoff number of years younger than them, regardless of the woman's preferences and where the cutoff is something ridiculous like being over 30 means you can't talk to women younger than 24, ages ago.

I was 31 the last time I seriously used POF. It wouldn't allow me to search for girls younger than 22. Even when you searched by username and tried to contact some decent looking 18-21 year old the system would auto block your message and it would tell you that you should look for more "age appropriate" women. Even if she had no age restrictions on her profile settings. Fuck you, POF. I think it's up to the 21 year old to decided for herself if I'm too old for her, not your white knighting algorithm. There was no upper age limit for searches or messages. A chick friend of mine using it told me there were no search restrictions like that for her.

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I got one lay from POF last year, but it was a single mom naturally and she wasn't the best looking so it felt bad. Other than that fluke the site has pretty much consistently been garbage, some of the girls are better looking than the average OKC fatty feminist blue hair but response rates are absolutely dismal compared to OKC and even Tinder in this area. Looks like most of the good looking girls on the app are just using it as a validation engine, they throw up some of their sluttiest pics and then write a one sentence "profile" consisting of something like "just ask me" or "ugh, you guys are losers. don't talk to me" and then let it sit there.

I used POF off and on from 2007 - 2014 and racked up a couple dozen quality notches from it despite living in mostly horrible locations and occasionally having poor logistics in away cities. As time wore on, the quality dropped and chicks' behavior got worse. More flaking, more diva bullshit, more pre or post first date ghosting or out of the blue radio silence on texting. I decided to cut my losses and concentrate on approaching the old fashioned way.

I have a look on the website now and then just to see if it's worth going back and I pay attention to the words of the guys I know who are still using it. I do believe there is still some quality trim on POF, but not as much as 5-10 years ago. But even so the flaking and the ghosting is through the roof.

I think in my neck of the woods Tinder is the app of choice for a girl looking for some cock (quality may vary), OK Cupid seems to be the urban professional and SJW/ polyamorous dating app (unsure if legit or just attention seeking in either case), and POF is either for washed up single moms or sloots cock-teasing for attention and validation. My friends and I, circa 2009, used to talk of the decent pussy we plundered or the cool chicks we dated from POF, now guys using it seem to only admit to intermittent one nighters and the occasional short flings with lower quality women.

Signs of the sexual market place times reflected in the situation online.

[eatthishomie]

POF's owner is a gay ass white knight.

Hark! We must protect those innocent virginal 22 year olds from the eeeeevil predatory 30 year olds!

Meanwhile I get hit up by women pushing 50 on that site even though my preferred age range is 18-32.

[Leonard D Neubache]

Maybe guys need to start coding their responses.

"I'm flattered by your message but you are Unfortunately Really Far Away Though."

[MKDAWUSS]

Because God forbid you have preferences.