[klopzoid]

Basically, I met this girl a week ago after class. I indirectly opened her asking her a question about some homework, and she seemed interested. She asked questions and I got her number, and she has seeked me out after class to do some homework. I have mentioned multiple times that i am attracted to her and she continually mentions how she is down to have me over to study or make dinner Well she is coming over tomorrow to "study" on some easy math stuff and I am 90% sure I can get a bang out of this.

The thing is, I am really nervous and would just like some ideas as to how I can escalate or get into my room without it being extremely obvious or weird. I was planning on sitting on a two-seat couch in the living room and doing some homework together, and after about 40 minutes to an hour attempting to transition into my room.

[Thrill Jackson]

Just study with her and make sure to stay within reaching distance. Kino effectively and you should be fine. Stidy in your bedroom as well to increase your chances.

[Turnus]

What kind of "bait" do you have in your room? Cool guitar? Awesome TV? Fun pictures of your summer vacation? Work whatever bait you have in your room early in the conversation and then transition a little later "You got to see this COOL AWESOME THING I have, follow me"

[Pointer]

Bringing her to your room is not complicated. You just tell her that you have something cool to show her: a souvenir, a picture, some gadget, can be anything really. You then tell her the story behind the object (ideally one that demonstrates higher value), make a joke about it, let her play with it etc then go for the kiss. If the homework is done (no excuse to leave the room) and you played your cards right while doing it (light touching, teasing, kissing if she's giving IOI) then you should have no problem sealing the deal.

[aeroektar]

Sounds like a layup, don't over complicate things. Just start making out with her on the couch, at that point you can fuck her on the couch or bring her to the room.

[klopzoid]

Okay guys so here is an update on the study thing. We studied for a little while, then in the middle of transitioning to watching some tv show I went for a kiss, didnt think too much about it because I had my arm around her for while and she was responding well. I do admit i took a little long to go in for it but we still had about 30 minutes until she had to leave. When I went in for the kiss though she stopped me and said something about a boyfriend. I was really just sumbfounded, but I think i did well in hiding my shock and continuing to act as if nothing happened. Anyways, I didnt make any other overt moves simoly because I wasnt sure how to proceed and what was going on here. After she left she sent a long message about how she is unsure of what her and her bf are because theyre going theough things, and its just too soon. But she still wants to talk and hang out w/ me. Then the next day she sent a oicture of a steamy mirror, her wearing a shirt with no bra, and her shoulder pretty purposelly exposed. Any ideas on how to continue with this girl or am i just being used for attention?

[Chauncey]

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After she left she sent a long message about how she is unsure of what her and her bf are because theyre going theough things, and its just too soon. But she still wants to talk and hang out w/ me. Then the next day she sent a oicture of a steamy mirror, her wearing a shirt with no bra, and her shoulder pretty purposelly exposed

Invite her over to study again. Whip your dick out. She is begging for it. Post update in the "just got a new notch" thread.

Damn I miss college.

You got this Klopzoid!

[jcrew247]

I'm not really sure why you are nervous - are you nervous because she is too hot or are you nervous because you've never had a girl come over to study?

You don't want to over-power her or make assumptions that she wants to immediately sleep with you. But the worse thing would be to be full of nerves/scared and indecisive.

Act like a secure and seductive man who knows how to flirt and work up the levels of seduction. She seems to be very interested. Her boyfriend is probably a commitment-phobe who is cheating on her with other girls. She wouldn't come over just to make herself feel better, she's coming over because she wants a reason to dump him and start dating a new guy.

Most girls won't dump their boyfriends until they have a replacement boyfriend ready. Call it insecurity, but most girls don't want to be alone and prefer always having a boyfriend. Its called serial monogamy.

Talk to her about her feelings, talk about whether she has feelings for you. There should be some verbal indication that she actually likes you romantically. Also, a lot of girls aren't going to rush into sex and one night stands - could be that she just wants more dates with you before sleeping with you.

[CJ_W]

(09-08-2016 03:00 PM)klopzoid Wrote:  

Okay guys so here is an update on the study thing. We studied for a little while, then in the middle of transitioning to watching some tv show I went for a kiss, didnt think too much about it because I had my arm around her for while and she was responding well. I do admit i took a little long to go in for it but we still had about 30 minutes until she had to leave. When I went in for the kiss though she stopped me and said something about a boyfriend?

That reminds me of this:

Jokes aside, things you can do when you hear the bf line:

I dont want to be your bf *smile and wink*

`cool` - back off a bit and try again later

You got a what? How long ya had that problem? *smile and wink*

nothing - if shes pushing you away, back off a bit then escalate again go for a neck kiss first.

rinse and repeat.

[Sooth]

I have so many text books sitting in my old project car from girls who tried to tutor me in shit I didn't want to know about.

Fuck I was dumb back then. I could have been getting hella pussy.

I was so dumb dude.

[klopzoid]

Yeah now I'm getting nude snapchat videos, so I'm going to try and invite her over again in a few days and proceed from there

[Off The Reservation]

Cha-Ching!

[General Stalin]

Sounds like you're in the edge of dicking her down or being her attention faucet. Don't be the guy she just sends teasing pics to and flirts with via text. Make plans with her again and get that pussy. If she is dodgy/flakey on plans then she is just wasting your time and looking for attention. In that scenario you freeze her out until she decides she is ready to see you.

[SamuelBRoberts]

I don't have any useful advice here, because I was total loser for most of my college years, but it's impossible to read this post and not want to cheer you on. Keep us updated, and hope you get the bang!

[Euphoria]

Just record everthing with your phone. Dont involve unnecessary accusations of rape..