Firstly, I just want to say how scarily effective the information on this website actually is. I don't post as much as I lurk but I really wanted to ask you guys about this. There generally tends to be two types of girls that freak me out or pissese off.
The type that freaks me out are the girls that legitimately make eye contact from the instant the escalation stage starts all the way until she starts grilling you with questions after the sex. These girls give a total "I own you" feeling after having sex. I do not have any clue as to why it seems as if they can look into people s souls with that stare. All of them become super possessive after the sex and now I don't even bother with these starers. You always get clingy questions such as:
"What are you thinking about right now?"
"When are you going to see me again?"
"Did you like that?"
What the hell? Of course I liked it did you not literally just see me blow my load a millisecond ago? Why ask? Eye contact is great for establishing a connection but this connection feels like a one-sided hyper possessive type. I really had to work on my "aloof, dgaf demeanour" for them to get the hint and back off. However, still interested in the psychological reason for this death stare sex ritual some girls love doing.
Now on the contrary the type that pisses me off is the type that makes zero eye contact unless you grab their head and turn it towards you. These girls usually have had so much penis in their past they don't care about establishing any kind of connection. Diplomacy is for politicians, not sluts. They avoid eye contact in a almost defiant way.
Thing is, when you force eye contact with them, and hold it, (so I have literally just became the possessive in this case) they usually become more docile and feminine.
So I've developed my own uncomfortable (by my standards) ways of dealing with these two types of girls butam still curious at am intellectual level as to the reasoning for their behaviour. I've been trying to ignore this problem (only less than half of girls I have been with do it) but it still bothers me from time to time. I'm not sure if anyone pays attention to this kind of stuff but it's worth a shot.
Thanks rvf for any input.
The type that freaks me out are the girls that legitimately make eye contact from the instant the escalation stage starts all the way until she starts grilling you with questions after the sex. These girls give a total "I own you" feeling after having sex. I do not have any clue as to why it seems as if they can look into people s souls with that stare. All of them become super possessive after the sex and now I don't even bother with these starers. You always get clingy questions such as:
"What are you thinking about right now?"
"When are you going to see me again?"
"Did you like that?"
What the hell? Of course I liked it did you not literally just see me blow my load a millisecond ago? Why ask? Eye contact is great for establishing a connection but this connection feels like a one-sided hyper possessive type. I really had to work on my "aloof, dgaf demeanour" for them to get the hint and back off. However, still interested in the psychological reason for this death stare sex ritual some girls love doing.
Now on the contrary the type that pisses me off is the type that makes zero eye contact unless you grab their head and turn it towards you. These girls usually have had so much penis in their past they don't care about establishing any kind of connection. Diplomacy is for politicians, not sluts. They avoid eye contact in a almost defiant way.
Thing is, when you force eye contact with them, and hold it, (so I have literally just became the possessive in this case) they usually become more docile and feminine.
So I've developed my own uncomfortable (by my standards) ways of dealing with these two types of girls butam still curious at am intellectual level as to the reasoning for their behaviour. I've been trying to ignore this problem (only less than half of girls I have been with do it) but it still bothers me from time to time. I'm not sure if anyone pays attention to this kind of stuff but it's worth a shot.
Thanks rvf for any input.