The majority of this post is the full story as to how how we met and how I hooked up with her. The important part is in blue. Im an 18 year old high school student describing my expeirence with another 18 year old highschool student if anyone is wondering.
I got 'approached' by this girl in a touristy entertainment area by the beach I frequent just about every day and after having a couple conversations over the course of slightly more than a week she gives me her number without me asking.
I schedule a date for monday to hangout on the beach and then friday night she hits me up to hang out on saturday. We hit the beach that day and it starts raining so we head to my crib. At my house when I said "Im gonna play some music" She said something to the effect of "You dont need to do that" and we just keep talking. Eventually she's sitting on a sofa chair next to my bed and im sitting on my bed; she falls of the sofa chair arm into the chair so i pick her up and throw her into my bed. She starts repeatedly calling herself a smart ass (inside joke from earlier) so I just give her a little peck on the lips. After that we started making out and I got her out of the bikini and smashed...no hesitation at all on her part. She didn't tell me to use a condom and has an iud (Birth control) so midway through I trashed the condom and she said felt so much better. I went for like 20 minutes and stopped because i got exhausted from thrusting. We sat around outside and talked for about 20 minutes and I walk her 10 minutes up the street to the touristy beach area and we part ways.
Despite me being a virgin she said shit like you must have been with a lot of girls and said i was the most aggressive guy she's been with. I believe the aggressive part but i had trouble finding the whole and staying in so i figured it was obvious I wasnt experienced. She did say that we needed to improve my kissing though and seemed to see it has part of her mission to teach me how to kiss better. After the sex we stayed pretty intimate and we were a lot warmer with each other.
Everything is all good and I really had a crush on this girl until during our post bang convo outside she tells me that she's had sex with 24 or 23 guys including me. I thought nothing of this in the moment but afterwards now in combination with a bunch of other red flags(Nipple piercings,cigarettes,refusing to wear sunscreen,telling me about fights she's been before,saying shes not concerned with the price of weed because he never pays for it,not checking her phone and keeping it face down the whole date,getting nails done at walmart,etc) realized this girl is a straight hoe who i will not be in a long term relationship with but I want to keep her around to hang out with and be fuck buddies.
TLDR: I text a girl a couple hours after a first date bang to confirm our second date because before i expressed i might not be able to hang if i have a day shift on monday. She doesn't text me back so monday 2 hours before the date i tell her where to meet me at and she says "Im not there right now" so I respond "Wont you be there at 2" and she responds with some excuse about having to bring her bosses car into the shop once she gets there......even though she doesn't even have her license. She didn't apologize so i just haven't responded. I've heard on this forum that usually girls wont flake after the bang but is this an exception? Banging me on the first date dead sober implies she likes me so could it just be a shit test?
I got 'approached' by this girl in a touristy entertainment area by the beach I frequent just about every day and after having a couple conversations over the course of slightly more than a week she gives me her number without me asking.
I schedule a date for monday to hangout on the beach and then friday night she hits me up to hang out on saturday. We hit the beach that day and it starts raining so we head to my crib. At my house when I said "Im gonna play some music" She said something to the effect of "You dont need to do that" and we just keep talking. Eventually she's sitting on a sofa chair next to my bed and im sitting on my bed; she falls of the sofa chair arm into the chair so i pick her up and throw her into my bed. She starts repeatedly calling herself a smart ass (inside joke from earlier) so I just give her a little peck on the lips. After that we started making out and I got her out of the bikini and smashed...no hesitation at all on her part. She didn't tell me to use a condom and has an iud (Birth control) so midway through I trashed the condom and she said felt so much better. I went for like 20 minutes and stopped because i got exhausted from thrusting. We sat around outside and talked for about 20 minutes and I walk her 10 minutes up the street to the touristy beach area and we part ways.
Despite me being a virgin she said shit like you must have been with a lot of girls and said i was the most aggressive guy she's been with. I believe the aggressive part but i had trouble finding the whole and staying in so i figured it was obvious I wasnt experienced. She did say that we needed to improve my kissing though and seemed to see it has part of her mission to teach me how to kiss better. After the sex we stayed pretty intimate and we were a lot warmer with each other.
Everything is all good and I really had a crush on this girl until during our post bang convo outside she tells me that she's had sex with 24 or 23 guys including me. I thought nothing of this in the moment but afterwards now in combination with a bunch of other red flags(Nipple piercings,cigarettes,refusing to wear sunscreen,telling me about fights she's been before,saying shes not concerned with the price of weed because he never pays for it,not checking her phone and keeping it face down the whole date,getting nails done at walmart,etc) realized this girl is a straight hoe who i will not be in a long term relationship with but I want to keep her around to hang out with and be fuck buddies.
TLDR: I text a girl a couple hours after a first date bang to confirm our second date because before i expressed i might not be able to hang if i have a day shift on monday. She doesn't text me back so monday 2 hours before the date i tell her where to meet me at and she says "Im not there right now" so I respond "Wont you be there at 2" and she responds with some excuse about having to bring her bosses car into the shop once she gets there......even though she doesn't even have her license. She didn't apologize so i just haven't responded. I've heard on this forum that usually girls wont flake after the bang but is this an exception? Banging me on the first date dead sober implies she likes me so could it just be a shit test?