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Surprise girl or let her know you're coming in advance?
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Surprise girl or let her know you're coming in advance?

Fairly recently moved back home after living in another country for a bit, and towards the end of my time in that country, I more or less started dating this girl there (more or less because it was only for a couple weeks), who I still keep in touch with quite frequently. I still like this girl a lot and I'm pretty sure she feels the same, and we'd definitely be dating if we lived in the same city.

In any case I planned a trip with some friends who haven't been to this country before, and I'm wondering if I should I tell her I'm coming, or surprise her somehow when I get there? Obviously I'm gonna have a good time with my friends regardless, and I have plenty other girls in this country that I've kept in touch with as well, but I'd be lying if I said that I wouldn't be pretty disappointed if I showed up there only to find she's gone on vacation for the weekend.
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#2

Surprise girl or let her know you're coming in advance?

Don't surprise her. It never works out well. Let her know and give her time to build anticipation.

Let us know what you do and how it works out.
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Surprise girl or let her know you're coming in advance?

Was not expecting a travel question based on thread title but for future purposes first reply is solid advice
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Surprise girl or let her know you're coming in advance?

The consensus is correct. Not only could it present a logistical problem if you don't mention it, but it will come across as beta. Planned suprises are always beta.
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Surprise girl or let her know you're coming in advance?

Be yourself... kidding.

-Smile. It helps.
-Dumb yourself down meaning talk about random stuff like this traffic sucks, why is it so hot, I love coffee, etc.. Make statements (not questions) but make them simple like this. Don't let your mind fuck you over by complicating simplicity.
-Do not talk too much. Enjoy silences. Let her talk.
-Do not ask too many questions. If you make a statement, if she likes you enough, she'll respond. If not, she may not be interested.
-Keep going until she asks a question. That's big.

Edit: I'm sorry I realized I'm way too off topic but don't want to delete the post.
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Surprise girl or let her know you're coming in advance?

Quote: (05-19-2016 01:27 AM)Mistypeaks Wrote:  

Was not expecting a travel question based on thread title but for future purposes first reply is solid advice

Ya I know its more of a travel question but since it was my first post I figured it would go here. In any case, I agree that if I just showed up there it might look a bit desperate, but the fact that I'm going with friends changes things a bit no?
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Surprise girl or let her know you're coming in advance?

Don't surprise her, there's probably a 99.9% chance she's getting dicked by someone else as I write this. At least giving her some heads up gives her a chance to wash her face and wash out her mouth.
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Surprise girl or let her know you're coming in advance?

Real players never just show up. Its like asking a women questions about her sexual history. Its rarely a good surprise.
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#9

Surprise girl or let her know you're coming in advance?

So much wisdom in this thread.

I concur to give her the heads up to give her time to hose herself out.
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Surprise girl or let her know you're coming in advance?

I read this as the actual physical act of ejaculating. I've been on this website for way too long.

I will be checking my PMs weekly, so you can catch me there. I will not be posting.
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