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Surprise girl or let her know you're coming in advance?
05-18-2016, 11:10 PM
Fairly recently moved back home after living in another country for a bit, and towards the end of my time in that country, I more or less started dating this girl there (more or less because it was only for a couple weeks), who I still keep in touch with quite frequently. I still like this girl a lot and I'm pretty sure she feels the same, and we'd definitely be dating if we lived in the same city.
In any case I planned a trip with some friends who haven't been to this country before, and I'm wondering if I should I tell her I'm coming, or surprise her somehow when I get there? Obviously I'm gonna have a good time with my friends regardless, and I have plenty other girls in this country that I've kept in touch with as well, but I'd be lying if I said that I wouldn't be pretty disappointed if I showed up there only to find she's gone on vacation for the weekend.
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05-18-2016, 11:36 PM
Don't surprise her. It never works out well. Let her know and give her time to build anticipation.
Let us know what you do and how it works out.
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05-19-2016, 01:27 AM
Was not expecting a travel question based on thread title but for future purposes first reply is solid advice
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05-19-2016, 01:45 AM
The consensus is correct. Not only could it present a logistical problem if you don't mention it, but it will come across as beta. Planned suprises are always beta.
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05-19-2016, 06:28 PM
Be yourself... kidding.
-Smile. It helps.
-Dumb yourself down meaning talk about random stuff like this traffic sucks, why is it so hot, I love coffee, etc.. Make statements (not questions) but make them simple like this. Don't let your mind fuck you over by complicating simplicity.
-Do not talk too much. Enjoy silences. Let her talk.
-Do not ask too many questions. If you make a statement, if she likes you enough, she'll respond. If not, she may not be interested.
-Keep going until she asks a question. That's big.
Edit: I'm sorry I realized I'm way too off topic but don't want to delete the post.
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05-19-2016, 07:34 PM
Don't surprise her, there's probably a 99.9% chance she's getting dicked by someone else as I write this. At least giving her some heads up gives her a chance to wash her face and wash out her mouth.
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05-19-2016, 08:17 PM
Real players never just show up. Its like asking a women questions about her sexual history. Its rarely a good surprise.
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Surprise girl or let her know you're coming in advance?
05-24-2016, 11:35 PM
So much wisdom in this thread.
I concur to give her the heads up to give her time to hose herself out.
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Surprise girl or let her know you're coming in advance?
05-25-2016, 06:33 AM
I read this as the actual physical act of ejaculating. I've been on this website for way too long.
I will be checking my PMs weekly, so you can catch me there. I will not be posting.