[Kid Twist]

I'm talking about USA now, I've wondered this from both a cultural (if you seek traditional mentality which usually is more feminine) and straight up attractiveness (physical) point of view. It was recently suggested to me that if you are in "older" city as opposed to a younger one, the fall off a cliff phenomenon doesn't as much exist. 30 doesn't matter as much ... and even if it did, the suggestion was that you could just move on to the next one

The interesting part of this analysis was also that I recognized that this guy was saying the "younger" cities were South and West.

Basically, they were away from big blue old cities, where you get neo-feminism and if not outright, enough to infect the existing culture that already snapped up any attractive, traditional ones a long time ago.

Any thoughts on this?

[Leonard Bernstein]

Obviously location is a huge factor in what you will be pulling. Not just USA, this applies everywhere. Your game will optimize your results, but ultimately the market is the biggest deciding factor. All else equal, you'll be pulling hotter girls in, say, Russia, than in Peru. Just a fact of life. And you'll be pulling a greater quantity of girls in SEA than you would in Saudi Arabia.

[WeekendCasanova]

A bit off topic maybe, but I've noticed that European women age horrible. A Ukrainian/German woman in her 50s will dry up like a raisin. Conversely, I've seen a lot of MILFs in Canada/America in their 50s.

There are obviously exceptions, but I've yet to see too many European women hold a reasonable standard of looks past their 40s. Whilst in NA I see it more and more (although plastic surgery is an obvious exogenous factor).

[Cr33pin]

Location is key

[The_e_man]

WeekendCasanova, what province are you in? I'm in Edmonton, Alberta and I must say we have a plethora of beautiful young slutty (I mean, "sexually liberated") women. I wonder if other parts of Canada are the same.

[WeekendCasanova]

(05-17-2016 05:45 PM)The_e_man Wrote:  

WeekendCasanova, what province are you in? I'm in Edmonton, Alberta and I must say we have a plethora of beautiful young slutty (I mean, "sexually liberated") women. I wonder if other parts of Canada are the same.

I live where men go to die - Toronto.

Edit: Women in Calgary have a special place in my heart. I spent a memorable week there once during the Stampede.

[EDantes]

I'm sure location plays a big part of it for a variety of reasons.

In smaller, more conservative parts of the country such as where I'm at there isn't much of a clubbing/bar scene at all; from what I can tell many of the younger people who didn't graduate college and find a job out of the area tend to stay in relationships they started at a younger age.

While this isn't a totally bad thing from a sociocultural perspective it means the "game scene" is tougher to crack into; some nights at the venues here I would be lucky to spot even one woman who wasn't there with another man (on the flip side the competition is also sparser; as plenty of nights when I was spitting game I was one of the only guys at the place actually trying it, while other guys were just sitting around having their drinks and oogling at all of the women in the venue but not bothering to make game). I suppose you could think of it as "higher/risk, higher reward" than in a larger city with an abundance of females.

Online dating/hookup scene is also practically nonexistent, save a handful of fatties which I don't bother with. This can tend to make a guy develop a "scarcity" mindset and get cold feet when he finally runs into an attractive single girl, so the main trick here is to keep the abundance mindset up at all times even when feeling a dry spell coming on.

(Thankfully through sheer tenacity I've managed to luck out with quite a few attractive girls simply by the use of casual game, even including female bartenders and waitresses on occasion; my game is also a lot better than it was even a year ago so when I return to the scene I'll probably have even better odds).

Obesity also seems to be more of a problem in younger women (here in the South anyway) so the pickings are slimmer; no pun intended.

[Kid Twist]

Social avenues seem critical for you, EDantes.

What's Dallas like, or Texas in general, gentlemen?

[beta_plus]

Location matters. But game does also. It's about finding a balance, but assuming that balance is possible. From my personal experience and this forum, in Toronto-Occupied-Ontario and Denmark, that balance is simply not realistically possible for most men. DC, while awful, will allow some balance but only with good earning power and enormous energy.

[beta_plus]

(05-19-2016 12:59 PM)Kid Twist Wrote:  

Social avenues seem critical for you, EDantes.

What's Dallas like, or Texas in general, gentlemen?

It's no Poosy Paradise, but parts aren't shaby.

[stefpdt]

Dallas can be poosy paradise! (Seriously). Ratios are good for the most part in Uptown. Girls of all races everywhere. The vibe of the city is a lot more formal than somewhere like Austin though. There's a weird & unnatural front that people put on here for some reason. I think people get really invested in social competition almost like in LA...except this isn't Hollywood so it's strange.