Up until about 4 months ago I was a night game savage. I could pull one night stands from night game fairly easy inside and outside of the United States. It's been my sole source of vagina most of my life and I became very good at it.
Recently however I began to experience fairly serious health issues that are suspected to be from drinking too much over the years while hunting girls during the night (wrote about it in another thread). I will most likely not be able to drink anymore without risk to my health.
When these problems first hit me I stopped going out at night for 3.5 months and have just recently started to poke around with nightlife again while sober.
I've been finding it extremely difficult to get to that same mental state where it is fairly easy for me to pull girls from clubs/bars. When sober I feel stiff, bored, awkward and a bad dj bothers me way more. This however is not the case when I do day game sober, I am actually pretty good at day game (never had a same day lay) when I rarely decide to do some and do not feel any sort of awkwardness.
Tonight I tried to force myself to make something happen at the club/bar I generally have lots of success at. I opened a girl and was dancing with her for about 45 minutes before she eventually disappeared on a trip to the bathroom. The whole time I felt like I was not connecting with her. I felt super self conscious and awkward of every move I was making even my facial expressions. It was not like me at all and usually while drinking everything flows super natural and I'm able to connect on that level with girls in the bar. I feel like alcohol is mainly responsible for creating that savage mentality and sex drive that gets me laid the same night from clubs and bars and without it I am an awkward little bitch with no sex drive.
My friend even told me multiple times that he sees a dramatic difference in me in the club and in my desire to go out at all. It's a struggle for me to even get myself to go out on the weekends now to a club or bar, I'm simply not even interested in doing it because I can't drink. Another crazy thing is while I'm talking to girls in a bar or club while sober I feel less interested in a one night stand. I begin to feel nervous about the thought of even bringing them home at all.
Basically all of this shit is really fucking me up because nightlife and night game was a huge part of my life and until recently it was nothing for me to bring home a girl same night and bang her brains out.
I want to know if anyone goes out on the regular while sober and successfully pulls one night stands? I'm not talking about getting numbers and following up another day but about sober one night stands from the bar or club. Is this your preferred method of getting laid? Is this just a mental hump I need to get over? Or should I just dump night game and focus on day game from now on?
Any advice, strategies or insight is welcomed. Please don't advise if you don't actually have any experience trying to get laid same night sober from a bar or club. If you drink regularly when you go out it's easy to speculate what you can do sober but until you've tried it you don't really know what it's like.
Thanks
Recently however I began to experience fairly serious health issues that are suspected to be from drinking too much over the years while hunting girls during the night (wrote about it in another thread). I will most likely not be able to drink anymore without risk to my health.
When these problems first hit me I stopped going out at night for 3.5 months and have just recently started to poke around with nightlife again while sober.
I've been finding it extremely difficult to get to that same mental state where it is fairly easy for me to pull girls from clubs/bars. When sober I feel stiff, bored, awkward and a bad dj bothers me way more. This however is not the case when I do day game sober, I am actually pretty good at day game (never had a same day lay) when I rarely decide to do some and do not feel any sort of awkwardness.
Tonight I tried to force myself to make something happen at the club/bar I generally have lots of success at. I opened a girl and was dancing with her for about 45 minutes before she eventually disappeared on a trip to the bathroom. The whole time I felt like I was not connecting with her. I felt super self conscious and awkward of every move I was making even my facial expressions. It was not like me at all and usually while drinking everything flows super natural and I'm able to connect on that level with girls in the bar. I feel like alcohol is mainly responsible for creating that savage mentality and sex drive that gets me laid the same night from clubs and bars and without it I am an awkward little bitch with no sex drive.
My friend even told me multiple times that he sees a dramatic difference in me in the club and in my desire to go out at all. It's a struggle for me to even get myself to go out on the weekends now to a club or bar, I'm simply not even interested in doing it because I can't drink. Another crazy thing is while I'm talking to girls in a bar or club while sober I feel less interested in a one night stand. I begin to feel nervous about the thought of even bringing them home at all.
Basically all of this shit is really fucking me up because nightlife and night game was a huge part of my life and until recently it was nothing for me to bring home a girl same night and bang her brains out.
I want to know if anyone goes out on the regular while sober and successfully pulls one night stands? I'm not talking about getting numbers and following up another day but about sober one night stands from the bar or club. Is this your preferred method of getting laid? Is this just a mental hump I need to get over? Or should I just dump night game and focus on day game from now on?
Any advice, strategies or insight is welcomed. Please don't advise if you don't actually have any experience trying to get laid same night sober from a bar or club. If you drink regularly when you go out it's easy to speculate what you can do sober but until you've tried it you don't really know what it's like.
Thanks