[Suits]

I heard a rumour that Little Dark once went 30 years without female affection.

[I DIDN'T KILL MY WIFE]

Must be the secret source of his alphaness and martial prowess

[Patriarch]

(03-10-2016 05:39 PM)RexImperator Wrote:  

I don't suppose many here can relate to a situation like that, but I'm curious who else has experienced this. How did you get out of it?

I think most "game" advice that gets thrown around probably applies more to guys who are doing mediocre to OK and just want to get better.

Yep, I went a year and a half without so much as kissing a girl after one of my relationships ended. I was so depressed and broken that I never went on a single date in that time. The thing is, I was never really bad with girls. Just tired of the bullshit.

How did I fix it?

I went to Asia, and I realized there was something wrong with them, not me.

[Caractacus Potts]

I felt like I could have written this. Read the post below. It's long. Be prepared for your gut to churn and your emotions to be overwhelming if you identify with it.

https://whoism3.wordpress.com/2012/11/17...med-incel/

[RexImperator]

I've read that blog article before as it's been posted here a few times. I've gone longer than that guy.

[Mess O.]

Hell, that guy could say at least his dry spell ended.

[Gmac]

Years without female affection... yeah most of my life until my mid-20s. Then I discovered game, had a series of epiphanies followed by a lot of risk-taking and hard work... nearly a decade later the people from my past barely recognize me... and in the best way possible. And now women are no longer a prize or obstacle... but mostly more of a chore.

[storm]

To the guys who went through these stunningly long dry spells.

What was the population density of the place you were living?

[RexImperator]

https://www.census.gov/dmd/www/pdf/512popdn.pdf

Most if not all of my time has been in areas shaded red, so technically 250+ per square mile, at the county level.

[cubanlinx]

Woah, I live in a very conservative country, but some guys here have lost their v card only in their 20s. But they've become much better than average through that experience, and that's all that matters.

[Khan]

(03-18-2016 04:55 PM)storm Wrote:  

To the guys who went through these stunningly long dry spells.

What was the population density of the place you were living?

In my case, high. Urban area, over 1000 people/square km. (more than 3000 per square mile). A guy can live in a metropolis, but nowadays that won't help if you're a beta with no social skills.

[Windom Earle]

(03-18-2016 04:55 PM)storm Wrote:  

To the guys who went through these stunningly long dry spells.

What was the population density of the place you were living?

I was living in Melbourne at the time. No shortage of pussy, just a distinct lack of motivation and confidence, compounded by embracing the "I" in my INTJ personality through my focus on weed at the expense of social interaction/integration.

Joining the military changed things up dramatically for the better.

Finding this place 3 years ago was yet another paradigm shift, to where my success with women (after requisite red pill conditioning) very much aligns with my deepest desires.

[Rhyme or Reason]

(03-15-2016 05:17 AM)Suits Wrote:  

I heard a rumour that Little Dark once went 30 years without female affection.

You mean that women went 30 years without his affection.

[Hardy Daytona]

I think I'm going to tell this story now. I don't know why. Maybe it's just because I'm here, maybe because it's the right time, maybe because there isn't anywhere else I could tell it.

I was single up until I was 21. The day I met her was.......well, I don't think I've had a day like it since. She lead by offering to buy me a drink and stroked my face later on. I was so blue pill back then that I had to ask my friends afterwards if that meant she liked me.
We started dating and I thanked God, Fate and Providence every single day for it. The day she called me her boyfriend, I picked her up and span her around I was so elated.
2 things stand out in my mind most from the year that we were together. 3 actually. The first was when I asked her the 'Who would you take on a desert island' question. She answered with me and to this day that remains the single sweetest thing a woman has ever said to me.
The second was when I told her I loved her. And you guys know how it is when you say that for the first time - the sweaty palms, the rapid heartbeat, the butterflies and semi-nauseating dread.
The third is how we never had sex. Not in the whole year we were together. Sure, we got naked, fooled around and did everything but. I broke it off a couple of weeks after our first anniversary.

That was about.....3 years ago, give or take. Since then I haven't had a woman's affection.

In that time I've taken the Red Pill and started lifting, reading more and approaching. Also got my V-card punched thanks to some very logical advice here on the forum.
I've been gradually realizing that I am attractive and that I do possess inherent value with good qualities that are desirable to women, even if they're a little unconventional.

But there's a part of me that knows somehow, deep down that when I get that feeling back, I'm going to try and lock it down like a son of a bitch.
Yet my logical minds commands that I don't get emotionally attached and keep my options open.
It's a real balancing act.

[Mercenary]

I recently made a list of all my dry spells since losing my virginity many years ago.

Before the red pill and game
My 2 longest dry spells were both after LTRs ended.
1 year and 3 months in each case.
....and I was trying really, really hard to get laid, albeit with beta methods,


After the red pill and game
6 months on 2 separate occasions.
Mostly out of laziness, but I wrote about the other reasons for that in this other thread.


Years spent as a virgin

However, the many years I spent as a virgin seem like a real and true CRIME against my happiness and sexuality. I say the word CRIME in the most literal sense. I feel like the whole system or society or way of life needs to be put on trial for making me frustrated and angry and miserable for so many years, and I should be paid compensation for all the years I missed on sexual experiences because I intentionally kept a clueless beta by everyone and everything.

Everyone and everything was conspiring against me getting any sex or female affection, and only teaching me things that were always leading me to failure over and over. I'm talking about movies, television, books, my elders, my parents, teachers, school, university, work colleagues, government legislation, law courts, the police, male friends, and especially girls all giving misleading, totally false and downright dangerous information on interacting with women. I’m not just thinking of myself, but of all you guys here and I’m also thinking of every frustrated virgin who has never been laid, every man who has spent years as an incel, every man who has been cheated on, and every man whose wife left him, destroyed all he built, and took his money and children. If you really think about it, how many male suicides worldwide, or murders across the globe could have been prevented just from teaching men game and getting them laid with some female affection ? Contemplated this way what we have had for the last 50 to 80 years is a crime of epic proportions.

In my grandfathers time every man was guaranteed at least 1 virgin woman in his life and some sex and affection from her provided he got married to her. Back then, even if your if your wife eventually became a total cold bitch or got fat, you still had a family, a home and affection from your children. The men who didn’t get married became monks or priests…this is how old society dealt with the MGTOWS and few gays back in the day. Sluts who had children out of wedlock usually were reformed by making putting them into convents and making them nuns. Society was stable, families were strong, children were plentiful, divorce was rare. Being single and living alone was really frowned upon. The old system ensured that in one way or another, both men and women had some form of company and satisfaction in their lives. Nowadays the only thing keeping men "sane" is endless online porn. Except that it isn't really....it's just keeping them weak and demotivated. In those countries where porn is still banned men act very, very differently.

I wish I could pin the blame on all my sexless years on one group of people or one thing....but the endless cockblocking information was coming from so many different angles and sources that all I can call it is "the system" or "modern society".

I think this is the reason so many of us get deeply political once we start to master game. We see that the way the world around us has been structured since we got our first boners has been always been totally against our happiness and satisfaction, and also taking most of our money in the process. This is the real reason we have the system we have now....it simply produces more much money at the expense of everything else, while keeping most men physically and mentally weak and frustrated & unhappy at the same time.

This is also the reason why today we are considered politically subversive and dangerous by those who want to keep the current system in place at all costs.
If we are ever in real control and the patriarchy returns, many, many people will be out of power forever and all their cash cows will all die at once.


Game makes men feel and act like real men.
Game keeps your body and mind satisfied, healthy and strong

Game saves lives.
Game is power.