[PeterJohnsonRichards]

Has anyone here ever succeeded in having two or more girlfriends at the same time while they are both attached emotionally and know about it? to the point you can call them up at the same time?

Anyone can learn game and spend the time and energy to manage multiple girlfriends just by lying saying they are single or whatever, but i find it exhausting and unconscionable with "good girls", whose company i prefer, id rather just persuade them to accept more than one if it's possible
(yes i know there is no such thing as "good girls" but there are women when compared to average are better, the illusion makes it seem like they are good)

This above strategy is easy since when you don't reply to one girl they think you are busy and alpha while you are in reality talking to another one, so they end up all liking you more for being too busy with others for them, it is so easy not to be a beta and reply quick to texts when you have 3 others at the same time to manage

Women don't seem to care about a man's notch count, in fact they feel more special since you have so many notches and chose them

is it possible to get them to love you at the same time if they know about other lovers? or are "good" women simply too monogamous or jealous for this to work?

Do they think its more alpha being in your presence while you are fucking another? and make them more attached? Does it make them jealous? Can it work? tell me about your experience


A fit intelligent man can get a girlfriend.. further a fit intelligent man can lie and say he is single and get another one, and continue on getting as many as he has time for however.,,,


You need to get them to like you so much they will both fuck with you at the same time while still maintaining exclusive access. Is this not realistic?

You can get two to fall in love but how do you connect them together? that seems like brain surgery or something

I do not mean with sluts, women you like

of course, men with the lying strategy do not want to tell their girlfriends they have another and risk losing both.


If you have had success with this, how does the dynamic work?

Do they accept at first then hate eachother and get jelous? is it a disaster? Is it too much risk letting them know?

Let me know if you have achieved this or if it's a waste of time to try?

[Onto]

No harm in trying, but the desire for/to be The One is a major obstacle.

The Mormons appear to be successful with it though.

[General Stalin]

There are plenty of fat ugly feminist types who believe in "polyamory" so I suppose its not too faretched... but getting a couple broads to be cool sharing you and not dating other people themselves would be a difficult task in the West. You'd have to be in some sort of fetish situation maybe where two girls get off on being cuckolded in a way. Some sort of master-slave relationship. Culturally it's just not there. Hell, having one dedicated woman in the West is nigh impossible enough as it is.

This is easier to do with fuckbuddies as the score is understood that it's just a casual thing so them knowing you are seeing other people may get them more into you - but thats only with the goal of getting you to commit to them and not have the other girls in your life.

This is something that would need to be done abroad in cultures where it's accepted. Where men have multiple wives and the wives have to be loyal to the one man.

[Rhyme or Reason]

Study cult leaders.

[Asterion]

I've been in a near polyamorous relationship before. Tons of work. My LTR and I essentially dated her (21 HB8) and that went on for about 6 months or so.

We only ever hooked up together, not that that's a bad thing. But the emotional build up became too much for my LTR in the end

Definitely worth a shot, the rewards are great, but don't let the effort distract you