Hey forum;
Been a while. Happy to be coming back with some positive developments. If anyone here is familiar with my previous threads, you know that I'm coming out of a pretty long & severe recovery process.
I had a troubled youth filled with insecurity which led to a pretty hardcore beta personality. It put me in a pretty terrible rut later in life.
I managed to hook up with some beautiful girls along the way in my 20s, but struggled a lot in between relationships. Had just one that lasted a few years. Then I moved to a different city and went several years without dating or banging anyone.
Had a female best friend who I fell in love with, and that was a horrible ordeal that brought a couple consecutive years of turmoil. I had started learning about game and red pill philosophy around that time, and i began a lot of self development and self-improvement work.
Unfortunately my progress was interrupted when I ran to some health complications that temporarily killed my sex drive set me back for a long period; metabolic syndrome.
So it's been a tough journey, but things are going quite a bit better now. I dated the hottest woman at work who everyone wants to bang. It only ended up lasting a few months because she's a little too much of an asshole to tolerate. Very very hot though. It was a great dry spell breaker. Fun while it lasted and great for my self-esteem.
I did some video editing for a renowned PUA, who is now a friend. I spent three days on the field with him doing cold approaches. I filmed his, and he filmed some of mine and gave thorough feedback. We spent a lot of time getting to know each other and it was a tremendous learning experience. I'm able to Skype or teleconference with him anytime. It's a great resource.
Around the same time I hit on a very cute 20yo college girl outside of a club, and we started seeing each other casually - nsa, but it's since escalated into more of a relationship. She turned 21 in dec. I turn 35 next week. It's been about 3.5mo since we started dating.
This girl is sexy, kinky, even funny and cool. It's pretty ideal. She lives and goes to school about an hour out of town, so I get the space I need, and I'm even allowed to game (which I sadly don't have time for) bc we're not strictly monogamous at this stage. That's great for me.
That said, I have met and stayed with her family now and things are getting more serious. We're definitely becoming a couple and are mostly exclusive. In many ways it's exactly what I was looking for - flexible, fun & low pressure. We have a clear understanding and she has no interest in settling down and having kids. Hallelujah.
To make things even more fun she's very adamant about having a threesome with another chick. And that's where I'm a little bit lacking in experience and can use some advice.
I'm sure there've been tons of posts written on this topic, so I'll do my homework. But I thought I'd hop back on the forum and see what you guys might like to share.
My first mini-effort is going to be inviting as many hot girls as I can to my bday outing next weekend. It's going to be a great gathering, a lot of very sexy talented people, even a couple of famous guests, so it's a good opportunity to show off. I'm especially targeting any that I suspect are poly and/or bi, and not intermingled in any of my close friendships.
I could introduce her to any sexy ladies who show up, or who we meet along the way. But I wonder if I should let her get a feel for them and try to detect their openness, or if I need to lead the process more in some way. Never really approached this before.
So I guess that's my question for the day. Any advice would be appreciated since the party is this coming weekend. But there will be plenty of other opportunities if nothing presents itself this time. I'm also going to do a conference call this week with my PUA coach and see what he has to say.
I'll let you guys know that this is only the 9th chick I've ever banged. Got BJs and stuff from a few others, but my numbers really aren't that high for someone my age. That's mostly because I've been really picky my whole life, only wanting to date 8+ caliber women, but crippling social anxiety and beta habits prevented me from having success for a very long time. I could never settle or lower my stantdards, and I'm glad that I never did.
I feel like this is a significant step in the right direction, so I made Don Draper my new avatar here![[Image: smile.gif]](https://rooshvforum.network/images/smilies/smile.gif)
i'm a huge fan of MM so I like to learn and take cues from Draper.
It was previously suggested that I change my name from epic beta to something a little more masculine to represent my progress and movement away from that part of my pastl. But I couldn't figure out how to change my name. Perhaps admin can help me out?
If not, at least I've got a Draper pic now to show that I'm getting somewhere, and maybe I'll be able to graduate from "beta orbiter" status sooner than later.
Thanks in advance!
EB
Been a while. Happy to be coming back with some positive developments. If anyone here is familiar with my previous threads, you know that I'm coming out of a pretty long & severe recovery process.
I had a troubled youth filled with insecurity which led to a pretty hardcore beta personality. It put me in a pretty terrible rut later in life.
I managed to hook up with some beautiful girls along the way in my 20s, but struggled a lot in between relationships. Had just one that lasted a few years. Then I moved to a different city and went several years without dating or banging anyone.
Had a female best friend who I fell in love with, and that was a horrible ordeal that brought a couple consecutive years of turmoil. I had started learning about game and red pill philosophy around that time, and i began a lot of self development and self-improvement work.
Unfortunately my progress was interrupted when I ran to some health complications that temporarily killed my sex drive set me back for a long period; metabolic syndrome.
So it's been a tough journey, but things are going quite a bit better now. I dated the hottest woman at work who everyone wants to bang. It only ended up lasting a few months because she's a little too much of an asshole to tolerate. Very very hot though. It was a great dry spell breaker. Fun while it lasted and great for my self-esteem.
I did some video editing for a renowned PUA, who is now a friend. I spent three days on the field with him doing cold approaches. I filmed his, and he filmed some of mine and gave thorough feedback. We spent a lot of time getting to know each other and it was a tremendous learning experience. I'm able to Skype or teleconference with him anytime. It's a great resource.
Around the same time I hit on a very cute 20yo college girl outside of a club, and we started seeing each other casually - nsa, but it's since escalated into more of a relationship. She turned 21 in dec. I turn 35 next week. It's been about 3.5mo since we started dating.
This girl is sexy, kinky, even funny and cool. It's pretty ideal. She lives and goes to school about an hour out of town, so I get the space I need, and I'm even allowed to game (which I sadly don't have time for) bc we're not strictly monogamous at this stage. That's great for me.
That said, I have met and stayed with her family now and things are getting more serious. We're definitely becoming a couple and are mostly exclusive. In many ways it's exactly what I was looking for - flexible, fun & low pressure. We have a clear understanding and she has no interest in settling down and having kids. Hallelujah.
To make things even more fun she's very adamant about having a threesome with another chick. And that's where I'm a little bit lacking in experience and can use some advice.
I'm sure there've been tons of posts written on this topic, so I'll do my homework. But I thought I'd hop back on the forum and see what you guys might like to share.
My first mini-effort is going to be inviting as many hot girls as I can to my bday outing next weekend. It's going to be a great gathering, a lot of very sexy talented people, even a couple of famous guests, so it's a good opportunity to show off. I'm especially targeting any that I suspect are poly and/or bi, and not intermingled in any of my close friendships.
I could introduce her to any sexy ladies who show up, or who we meet along the way. But I wonder if I should let her get a feel for them and try to detect their openness, or if I need to lead the process more in some way. Never really approached this before.
So I guess that's my question for the day. Any advice would be appreciated since the party is this coming weekend. But there will be plenty of other opportunities if nothing presents itself this time. I'm also going to do a conference call this week with my PUA coach and see what he has to say.
I'll let you guys know that this is only the 9th chick I've ever banged. Got BJs and stuff from a few others, but my numbers really aren't that high for someone my age. That's mostly because I've been really picky my whole life, only wanting to date 8+ caliber women, but crippling social anxiety and beta habits prevented me from having success for a very long time. I could never settle or lower my stantdards, and I'm glad that I never did.
I feel like this is a significant step in the right direction, so I made Don Draper my new avatar here
i'm a huge fan of MM so I like to learn and take cues from Draper. It was previously suggested that I change my name from epic beta to something a little more masculine to represent my progress and movement away from that part of my pastl. But I couldn't figure out how to change my name. Perhaps admin can help me out?
If not, at least I've got a Draper pic now to show that I'm getting somewhere, and maybe I'll be able to graduate from "beta orbiter" status sooner than later.
Thanks in advance!
EB
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