I suspect that there's nothing I can really do about it. It's possible that my personality is simply not "attractive". I naturally tend towards being quiet and somewhat serious, unless I'm drinking and/or hanging out with friends. Probably born of experience and facing the challenges of life with a certain degree of stoic resignation.
I do think that "Game" can change things around the edges but a lot of personality is determined by the physical structure of your brain and you can't change it too radically. It's a bit like how you can install a new OS on an old processor but it will still run fairly slow. I don't have a problem talking to girls I meet but I'm pretty sure I can tell that there's no interest.
Limiting false beliefs or realism?
I do think that "Game" can change things around the edges but a lot of personality is determined by the physical structure of your brain and you can't change it too radically. It's a bit like how you can install a new OS on an old processor but it will still run fairly slow. I don't have a problem talking to girls I meet but I'm pretty sure I can tell that there's no interest.
Limiting false beliefs or realism?
If only you knew how bad things really are.