[maddog84]

About a year and a half ago, I was dumped by a LTR when I had a serious case of oneitis and no sense of game. Found out about this forum, but only started practicing game about 10 months ago. It's been successful. I've gone from a 23 year old with 2 bangs, to almost 30 in less than a year. I used to be the worst joe beta I've ever met and I cringe looking back at what i did. Anyways, wanted to thank everyone here for all the advice, and knowledge I've been able to gain.

Had a couple questions, though. First being is keeping girls around for FWB. Most of my lays have been one night stands.. now I'm completely fine with this for the most part, but a couple of these girls I wouldn't mind keeping around for easy pussy in the future. I'm generally pretty aloof and non caring after we hookup, and it seems like most girls want to go either into a full fledged relationship (which I'm not interested in at all) or just keep it as a ONS. What are you guys' tips and tricks for walking that line and keeping girls around without getting too serious? I banged a virgin (really cute girl, submissive, literally drives over two hours just to get laid, etc) and I just play the "we live too far away to be in a relationship" card. But other than that it seems like it's all or nothing.

Secondly, what do you guys say when you get the line "is this a date." whether by text or in person, a lot of my approaches end up asking me this when i suggest drinks/activity. I feel like this is a shit test of someway, and I for the life of me have not been able to turn it into a positive. I feel like i lose some power when I get that question.

Cheers, gentleman. This forum has been a goldmine of info for me, not only just game, but my entire lifestyle has changed in the past year.

[Begriff]

First, stay busy, what ever it is your doing, do it well. Work, school gym, what ever make that your priority. Fuck, always be making money, learning / acquiring new skills, and staying fit. Now that your busy, you don't need to figure out when to text them BS, your moving forward.

If you wanna keep one on the hook 1-2X a week as the women begin to develop those emotions and when those emotions get fired up shit gets interesting.

Now there's 2 ways about dealing with the womans emotions.

1. You can keep it really real with them, tell them you don't want something serious, just having fun seeing other girls etc.... This will do 2 things
A. If she's a girl with some self esteem, not crazy she will push for monogamy or leave (we are aware of both options here)
B. She's cool with being a little bang piece which is nice but... You'll be double dipping, a little experiance never hurt no body.

2. You game: you say what ever you want to say. Now.... You leave all the feelings at the door. You tell them what they want to hear you can go as far as you want. This will do 2 things
a. You game well, the panties drop at your command, they make you dinner and breakfast, all based on thing you may or may not follow through with..... Her feelings might get hurt are you okay with that?
b. Your game is week, they see through your BS emotions fly all over the place, there's crying, explaining things, back pedaling..... Your not that good at game, are you okay with that?