[TheSinfulKing]

Hey guys,

So Im 17, in highschool senior year, and I'm here to stop being beta. So I'm going to the gym starting next week as soon as this snow clears up. I've been doing NoFap for past 19 days cause I thought that would help, and I don't really know if it will and has but for the time being I quit masturbating, was wasting all my damn time anyways surfing porn. I've been expanding my social circle slowly but steadily (couple more girls). I prefer not to game girls at my school currently due to my already flimsy reputation.

But my energy is ravenous (partly from NoFap I think)
I want to cold approach and care very little if i get denied, I just want to get better. I was able to do that a bit when football was in season by going to other schools fb games.

So my question is where is the best place to game at 17? I can drive, and have free weekends. So whats the move?

[puckerman]

You spend about 30 hours a week there. Pussy is everywhere and expects to be approached. It's a place where you can approach with very few consequences--miniscule compared to elsewhere. And this is the place where most successful men learn game.

If you aren't willing to game girls in school, then just give up now. If you think gaming girls in school is tough, then just wait until you go anywhere else in life. School puts you into contact with lots and lots of single people.

Get out there and start gaming girls in school right now. If you aren't willing to fail, then you don't deserve to succeed.

If you have a bad reputation with girls your age, then go two or three years younger. Stop feeling for yourself though. High school is a pussy paradise, and you won't ever find anything better.

[Remington]

17 year old doing No Fap...

When I was that age, it wasn't possible to No Fap and be happy. I beat my dick like it owes me money.

If not troll, I guess I'll play along. Continue with social circle expansion, lift weights like a fiend and build testosterone, and talk to every vagina in your high school. Doesn't matter if freshman or senior, get that approach anxiety out of the way so you can have the balls to approach in the future.

I know a guy that was in high school who racked in pussy like he was selling beer to an alcoholic. His strategy was to nuke everyone. Every woman he encountered, he always asked "hey, would you like to come back to my house?" If she said "no," off to the next one. If "yes," she would follow him back to his farm house and bang the hell out of her.

Your personality defines the roll. You either have to own it, or become every other guy in your high school. The choice is yours.

[Isaac Jordan]

(01-23-2016 08:53 PM)puckerman Wrote:  

High school is a pussy paradise, and you won't ever find anything better.

That might have been the case for you, but I doubt it's true for a kid who just discovered game and considers himself a beta with a less-than-stellar reputation.

I agree that the best way for him to improve is to approach a lot of women, and not let the inevitable rejections get to him. Rejection is the badge of pride worn by all successful womanizers, after all, and the OP himself acknowledges he'll have to push through the pain in order to get better.

But the last thing he needs is the added stress and social ostricization that would accompany the inevitable rejections from girls in his social circle. Every failed attempt will make the next even more difficult, as no girl wants to be seen dating a guy that her friend(s) rejected.

OP needs to put himself in a place where he can shake off rejection, not have it follow him around like a scarlet letter. To that effect, I would recommend:

-A mall, if there's one nearby. Target-rich, plenty of opportunities for situational openers, and if he's rejected all he'll need to do is walk to another part of the building.

-Away games. OP had the right idea by gaming chicks from other schools, where his reputation won't hold him back and his new, game-aware identity won't come off as incongruent. Much easier to "fake-it-till-you-make-it" when the girl you're gaming hasn't known you your entire life.

-Church

-Nearby parks

-Concerts, festivals, farmers markets, other local events

Puckerman did have a good point about dating girls in younger grades than you. Your peers might not think much of you, but freshman and sophomore girls will consider you higher status simply due to your age.

Good luck, OP. Keep reading and searching through the forum when you're not approaching. You have no idea of the wealth of knowledge you've just found.

[PapayaTapper]

(01-23-2016 08:00 PM)TheSinfulKing Wrote:  

I prefer not to game girls at my school currently due to my already flimsy reputation.

One thing you will learn as you get older is that no one thinks more about you than ....you.

Example. Have you ever slipped and fallen or done something similarly embarrassing in public or in front of others? Pretty mortifying wasn't it? Of course it was...that's why you remember it.

Ever seen someone else slip and fall or commit a similarly embarrasing faux pas? Of course you have. But do you remember it? You probably chuckled and forgot about it 20 seconds later.

See my point?

I don't know why you perceive yourself to have a "flimsy reputation" (perhaps you can elaborate) but one of the most important things to start working on (in addition to your external efforts) is improving your internal dialogue. How you communicate with yourself about yourself is a very very important skill to improve on

(01-23-2016 08:00 PM)TheSinfulKing Wrote:  

I want to cold approach and care very little if i get denied, I just want to get better. I was able to do that a bit when football was in season by going to other schools fb games.

So my question is where is the best place to game at 17? I can drive, and have free weekends. So whats the move?

While most social groups /cliques are already establish by the time your in 11/12th grade don't be afraid to approach chicks at your own school. You'll be surprised how insecure girls really are. If you really "care very little if" you get denied then you have little to lose and everything to gain.

Good luck!

[Silver_Tube]

Always
Be
Closing

But really, excellent advice from everyone so far. And there's always time to turn around one's reputation.

[Stimulus]

I think Isaac Jordan nailed it regarding gaming at your own school, your homeground. Teenagers are brutal and a gossip starting at the right side of the building will reach the left side before you do, no matter if you're taking a sprint.

I can image TS doesn't want to take his chances on his hometurf because of that and the possible enormous social concequenses. High school can very well be a very hostile environment.

Practice elsewhere and when you get better you will subconciously use more game in your 'regular life' to get ready and kill it when you're in college.

[MiscBrah]

Lots of great advice in this thread.

Man you're a senior with only 6 months left of high school?

Do whatever the fuck you want to do man.

Everything changes after high school and everyone goes there separate ways

Go approach the hottest girls in your school, make some enemies, push boundaries, live on the edge (don't get in trouble with Johnny Law)

No one will remember or care

Go for it bro, you'll be happy you did

[TheSinfulKing]

I appreciate all of the advice
I will approach at school, it is true I have six months left. Why not?
But first, this Saturday I'm going to Richmond for a college interview. I will be a good enough distance that it is highly unlikely for me to recognize anyone or vice versa. That will be my spot, maybe around the Carytown area. I'll have the whole day ahead of me after 11 am when the interview is over, and I will definitely get some approaches done.