Hello to everybody
This is my first sign up and post in the forum although i have read the forum as a guest few years ago. This is both a wake-up call and admitting to the game for me. Why? I used to believe that getting a girl is all about treating her well and loving her good. But after constant failure in relationship has waken me up that what i believe in isn't working.
I have respect for the guys here, not as gamers or such but i see you guys as people who have realized the truth to women and the dating game. To how the game should be managed from the side of us guys.
Currently i have an ongoing relationship with a woman that's pretty much ending. Well it all started out well. But i guess i have given in and put her on a pedestal too soon (or rather i shouldn't have ever). No we haven't gotten to the bed yet and i started committing the worst mistake ever: being the nice guy. She begun to distance herself away from me and saying i'm too boring. I believe i have dropped into the much dreaded friend zone. She says i'm nice and everything but she only sees me as a friend or rather a sibling.
Well she still plays nice once in a while. Asking me how i'm doing and stuff and occasionally checks in on me when i went quiet. There are even times when she still dropped hint as if she still hasn't got over me. But once i replied with enthusiasm she starts distancing herself away from me. On my defense i am just being normal and not playing any games. I like her and i would do anything for her. So it's natural i would want to seem like i would always be there and reliable for her. But now i know this could probably be my worst mistake still.
I have much accepted the fact that this is over. But like any other guy (i believe) i couldn't take this laying around i wouldn't want to look back in future and knowing i am responsible for all of this. I hope i would be able to look back knowing i have won the game instead of feeling like an idiot.
So i'll be glad if the seniors can spare me some advice how can i turn the table around? Should i totally walk away and forget about this or is there something i could do?
This is my first sign up and post in the forum although i have read the forum as a guest few years ago. This is both a wake-up call and admitting to the game for me. Why? I used to believe that getting a girl is all about treating her well and loving her good. But after constant failure in relationship has waken me up that what i believe in isn't working.
I have respect for the guys here, not as gamers or such but i see you guys as people who have realized the truth to women and the dating game. To how the game should be managed from the side of us guys.
Currently i have an ongoing relationship with a woman that's pretty much ending. Well it all started out well. But i guess i have given in and put her on a pedestal too soon (or rather i shouldn't have ever). No we haven't gotten to the bed yet and i started committing the worst mistake ever: being the nice guy. She begun to distance herself away from me and saying i'm too boring. I believe i have dropped into the much dreaded friend zone. She says i'm nice and everything but she only sees me as a friend or rather a sibling.
Well she still plays nice once in a while. Asking me how i'm doing and stuff and occasionally checks in on me when i went quiet. There are even times when she still dropped hint as if she still hasn't got over me. But once i replied with enthusiasm she starts distancing herself away from me. On my defense i am just being normal and not playing any games. I like her and i would do anything for her. So it's natural i would want to seem like i would always be there and reliable for her. But now i know this could probably be my worst mistake still.
I have much accepted the fact that this is over. But like any other guy (i believe) i couldn't take this laying around i wouldn't want to look back in future and knowing i am responsible for all of this. I hope i would be able to look back knowing i have won the game instead of feeling like an idiot.
So i'll be glad if the seniors can spare me some advice how can i turn the table around? Should i totally walk away and forget about this or is there something i could do?