Hey all,
A quick question on a female work colleague who is into me but I'm not into her. (She's a feminist, drinks heavy and sluts it up...amongst other issues.) She's much younger than me as I'm 43 and shes 25, but she provides access to a whole load of young, available friends. Of course she also gets me more attention and openings with random chicks while were out.
Recently I've had boundaries with her due to various dramas most young females these days bring with them. (I only go out with her when other colleagues are present and exit early.) However, I feel I am missing out on the opportunities her circle of friends bring me and use as a female pivot while out. Any useful suggestions for managing her as a pivot without sending her into massive rejection and messing up my work-life?
Cheers,
Floyd
A quick question on a female work colleague who is into me but I'm not into her. (She's a feminist, drinks heavy and sluts it up...amongst other issues.) She's much younger than me as I'm 43 and shes 25, but she provides access to a whole load of young, available friends. Of course she also gets me more attention and openings with random chicks while were out.
Recently I've had boundaries with her due to various dramas most young females these days bring with them. (I only go out with her when other colleagues are present and exit early.) However, I feel I am missing out on the opportunities her circle of friends bring me and use as a female pivot while out. Any useful suggestions for managing her as a pivot without sending her into massive rejection and messing up my work-life?
Cheers,
Floyd