Dear Gents,
I wanted to get a bigger picture of how being a minority in America affects game so I'd like to pose a question. How does your ethnicity affect your desirability to different subgroups of girls. I'm curious what common themes emerge and to see if I'm missing any goldmines.
My experience so far. I'm Asian, 6' athletic, decent looking, with improving game, and live in east coast city with mostly black/white population. In the following notes I'll be talking about bars/parties etc.. short term encounters as long-term encounters are entirely different and race plays less of a role.
Asian Full/Half/Quarter all very similar
-Born in America. Highest success. % is very high as there isn't much competition.
-FOB. Will get more love as less competition.
-White washed with ethnicity issues. Very hard, probably one of the hardest categories to crack.
White
-Southern belle/Sorority girl/Club ho/Lower class. Absolutely No Love. Half the time I'm talking they have a look as if I was a homeless person asking for change even as a mutual friend is introducing us.
-Born in middle of nowhere (Dakota/Iowa,etc..). More receptive.. Others have confirmed this as well.
-4-6's I get occasionally hit on by the average/subpar looking american white girl.
-all others. Pretty damn random and I can't segregate into further categories. But in general it is much harder and the margin of error is much smaller.
Black
- I wish I had more experience but the places I frequent are mostly white and my town lacks a lot of classy black girls. I do get stare downs from cute black girls on occasion.
Indian subcontinent
- Not enough data. Although they do seem more open than the avg american
Foreign
- FOB Doesn't seem to matter where Europe/SAmerica. I've found them to be more receptive. In fact I find foreign girls hit on me more frequently than locals.
- Local Born. If they are 2nd gen fair skin from europe/Latin America and have been americanized then they behave like normal white girls.
If I were to bluntly rank the categories and attach a percent of decent looking women open to initial dates when I first meet them just so you get an idea of my experiences so far.
Asian(80%)>Foreign(33%)>White(7.5%)
Other categories I need more data.
Of course the things I find that will *mostly eliminate race as a factor are long term familiarity (taking classes, doing sports with each other on a regular basis), if you both belong to same small niche (overeducation), and status.
Notes
I'm curious as to what the experience is for black guys. I suspect its bipolar. The girls that are down are really down whereas the others wont go near.
The vibe I get from an asian crowd/mixed crowd/white crowd is very different and palpable. It's odd.
I'm starting to think the discrepancy can largely be explained by similarities in culture, stereotypes, and perceived status of race.
I wanted to get a bigger picture of how being a minority in America affects game so I'd like to pose a question. How does your ethnicity affect your desirability to different subgroups of girls. I'm curious what common themes emerge and to see if I'm missing any goldmines.
My experience so far. I'm Asian, 6' athletic, decent looking, with improving game, and live in east coast city with mostly black/white population. In the following notes I'll be talking about bars/parties etc.. short term encounters as long-term encounters are entirely different and race plays less of a role.
Asian Full/Half/Quarter all very similar
-Born in America. Highest success. % is very high as there isn't much competition.
-FOB. Will get more love as less competition.
-White washed with ethnicity issues. Very hard, probably one of the hardest categories to crack.
White
-Southern belle/Sorority girl/Club ho/Lower class. Absolutely No Love. Half the time I'm talking they have a look as if I was a homeless person asking for change even as a mutual friend is introducing us.
-Born in middle of nowhere (Dakota/Iowa,etc..). More receptive.. Others have confirmed this as well.
-4-6's I get occasionally hit on by the average/subpar looking american white girl.
-all others. Pretty damn random and I can't segregate into further categories. But in general it is much harder and the margin of error is much smaller.
Black
- I wish I had more experience but the places I frequent are mostly white and my town lacks a lot of classy black girls. I do get stare downs from cute black girls on occasion.
Indian subcontinent
- Not enough data. Although they do seem more open than the avg american
Foreign
- FOB Doesn't seem to matter where Europe/SAmerica. I've found them to be more receptive. In fact I find foreign girls hit on me more frequently than locals.
- Local Born. If they are 2nd gen fair skin from europe/Latin America and have been americanized then they behave like normal white girls.
If I were to bluntly rank the categories and attach a percent of decent looking women open to initial dates when I first meet them just so you get an idea of my experiences so far.
Asian(80%)>Foreign(33%)>White(7.5%)
Other categories I need more data.
Of course the things I find that will *mostly eliminate race as a factor are long term familiarity (taking classes, doing sports with each other on a regular basis), if you both belong to same small niche (overeducation), and status.
Notes
I'm curious as to what the experience is for black guys. I suspect its bipolar. The girls that are down are really down whereas the others wont go near.
The vibe I get from an asian crowd/mixed crowd/white crowd is very different and palpable. It's odd.
I'm starting to think the discrepancy can largely be explained by similarities in culture, stereotypes, and perceived status of race.