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Girl you're dating goes back to her ex boyfriend - rebound girl/boomerang girl
09-01-2015, 12:15 PM
I did a search on ROK and Rooshv forum but I couldn't find any information regarding a girl that runs back to her ex then you "boomerang girl' when you are suppose to be in a serious relationship.
I reckon it would make a GREAT article on ROK!
I found some great stories here
http://forum.bodybuilding.com/showthread...=139864153
My stories:
I fell in love with a boomerang girl back in my beta days. She keep saying she loves me but was with her ex, I took her back many times and so did her ex (fight to win her over kicks in), etc... 2 years later, I had to move away cause I couldn't say no to her. Totally killed my confidence and self-esteem for years. I was in my young 20s and didn't know any better.
I'm in the east and just meet a boomerang girl where after 2 weeks I kicked her out. To many red flags where my friends couldn't contact her for a week (thought she done something stupid) but we found out that she went to her ex the next day. Next thing I notice is that I had feelings for her (now I know it was only cause I was reliving my painful past). We met up and talked so she leaves her ex but I found out through a friend she was banging him still and me for the next week. Cause I had some feelings for her, it did my head in for the next couple days. She goes "I only want to be with you and I'm over my ex" etc... bullshit. I didn't believe it cause her body language wasn't correct with her words. I only wanted to bang her but I have a rule, once I develop any kind of feelings for a fuck buddy, I'll let her go.
These type of women are very insecure and I believe they can't be alone and always need a man around.
Any information or stories would be good if anyone cares to share and warning signs...
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Girl you're dating goes back to her ex boyfriend - rebound girl/boomerang girl
09-01-2015, 12:59 PM
NEXT!!!! Don't waste your time and resources on a woman who has heart/poosy is set else where
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Girl you're dating goes back to her ex boyfriend - rebound girl/boomerang girl
09-01-2015, 01:02 PM
Female players exhibit this behavior. By constantly "breaking up" and getting back together with other men it is their way of rationalizing the hypergamy and to avoid public slut shaming. Often they aren't getting what they want from one man so they string a few along and call them "exes" or whatever fits. Just like male players do with women, except they're a harem.
These hoes deserve none of your attention or time. "Next" is right.
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Girl you're dating goes back to her ex boyfriend - rebound girl/boomerang girl
09-01-2015, 02:06 PM
If you feel youe inner game is up for it keep playing her emotions and get some Bangs out of her. If you feel emotionally vulnerable (nothing wrong with that) then next her as she might hurt your confidence. It takes a bit of time in the game to block out your emotions toward a chick so no worries if you ain't there yet
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Girl you're dating goes back to her ex boyfriend - rebound girl/boomerang girl
09-03-2015, 03:20 PM
Do girls always keep running back to their exs??
I read in the media in the east that 60% of relationship breakups are due to Facebook (talking to exs) where it makes me think, there is no point to a relationship anymore.
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Girl you're dating goes back to her ex boyfriend - rebound girl/boomerang girl
09-03-2015, 03:26 PM
Not all girls go back to exes. The reason they often do it is because it's "easy", "familiar", someone they trust (or trusted). They don't have to bother getting to know someone new and they still often have residual feelings and emotions that get reignited with dialogue and some memory jogging. Men in most cases aren't going to say no to an ex unless there was some major deal-breaker, they are readers/members of this forum, or they have a natural abundance mentality.
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It's usually not the beta boyfriends that get called back up, let's put it that way.
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Girl you're dating goes back to her ex boyfriend - rebound girl/boomerang girl
09-03-2015, 06:06 PM
Attention whoring to the extreme. Eliminate all contact and re-establish your frame by FORGETTING her ASAP. Focus on work, hobbies, school, weightlifting, and most importantly other women! She's playing this little slut hypergamous attention game because she knows you have no other options and have leaned so far into her frame of existence that you're practically owned.
Stop thinking about LTR's with women until you're in your mid thirties. It's an utter waste of time and possibly disastrous. You think I'm kidding? Look around at guys that marry young and get detonated by women like this. Do not walk, RUN from this nightmare feral cat.
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Girl you're dating goes back to her ex boyfriend - rebound girl/boomerang girl
11-03-2016, 06:55 PM
Meanwhile, in another thread, men of this very forum are praising the virtues of sluts.....
The irony is beautiful.
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Girl you're dating goes back to her ex boyfriend - rebound girl/boomerang girl
11-05-2016, 04:50 PM
A girl I was casually sleeping with told me she was talking to her ex again. I went no contact cuz I legit didn't care. I knew she'd be back as soon as her ex fucked something up.
A few weeks later I get horny and text her and she says she's not down to chill. I don't respond at all. She texts me a few hours later saying she can't chill with me cuz we can't just be friends and we'll end up fucking. I laughed and didn't respond cuz I knew she'd be back.
Like clockwork the next week she calls me at 11pm and comes over and we fuck then while we're out walking her "ex" calls her and they argue on the phone with her telling him he needs to act better. I laughed out loud.
She occasionally hits me up late at night to get fucked by me but I'm pretty sure she's still dating this guy. Last time she hit me up she texted me out of nowhere "i want you to fuck me senseless". So I did.
Honestly the answer in the western world is to stop being emotionally invested in the women you're fucking. She doesn't raise your kids, she doesn't keep your home, she doesn't have your last name. She's not yours and never will be. It's simply your turn. Be the guy she's calling late at night to fuck her in the ass, don't be the guy calling her pouring his heart out while she wipes another guy's cum from her chin.
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Girl you're dating goes back to her ex boyfriend - rebound girl/boomerang girl
11-05-2016, 11:47 PM
^ Well said. Never take a woman seriously until she's proven herself worthy of getting serious about. Even then, exercise caution.
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Girl you're dating goes back to her ex boyfriend - rebound girl/boomerang girl
11-06-2016, 01:23 AM
Quote: (11-06-2016 01:15 AM)XPQ22 Wrote:
DO NOT ARGUE WITH A WOMAN you're dating. If you are, you've kinda already lost. The only debate you should be having is with yourself over whether it's a soft next or a hard.
Every RVF member needs to print this out and stick it on their bathroom mirror.
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Girl you're dating goes back to her ex boyfriend - rebound girl/boomerang girl
11-06-2016, 11:48 AM
FFS, next her. She was with him, needed some alpha dick, and came back to him after. He's now a cuck, and you should enjoy the notch you had. You have nothing to do anymore.
"The happier you will be with women depends entirely on your ability to not give a fuck"