[easternwomenrule]

I did a search on ROK and Rooshv forum but I couldn't find any information regarding a girl that runs back to her ex then you "boomerang girl' when you are suppose to be in a serious relationship.

I reckon it would make a GREAT article on ROK!

I found some great stories here http://forum.bodybuilding.com/showthread...=139864153

My stories:
I fell in love with a boomerang girl back in my beta days. She keep saying she loves me but was with her ex, I took her back many times and so did her ex (fight to win her over kicks in), etc... 2 years later, I had to move away cause I couldn't say no to her. Totally killed my confidence and self-esteem for years. I was in my young 20s and didn't know any better.

I'm in the east and just meet a boomerang girl where after 2 weeks I kicked her out. To many red flags where my friends couldn't contact her for a week (thought she done something stupid) but we found out that she went to her ex the next day. Next thing I notice is that I had feelings for her (now I know it was only cause I was reliving my painful past). We met up and talked so she leaves her ex but I found out through a friend she was banging him still and me for the next week. Cause I had some feelings for her, it did my head in for the next couple days. She goes "I only want to be with you and I'm over my ex" etc... bullshit. I didn't believe it cause her body language wasn't correct with her words. I only wanted to bang her but I have a rule, once I develop any kind of feelings for a fuck buddy, I'll let her go.

These type of women are very insecure and I believe they can't be alone and always need a man around.

Any information or stories would be good if anyone cares to share and warning signs...

[PapayaTapper]

(09-01-2015 12:15 PM)easternwomenrule Wrote:  

I did a search on ROK and Rooshv forum but I couldn't find any information regarding a girl that runs back to her ex then you "boomerang girl' when you are suppose to be in a serious relationship.

I reckon it would make a GREAT article on ROK!

I found some great stories here http://forum.bodybuilding.com/showthread...=139864153

My stories:
I fell in love with a boomerang girl back in my beta days. She keep saying she loves me but was with her ex, I took her back many times and so did her ex (fight to win her over kicks in), etc... 2 years later, I had to move away cause I couldn't say no to her. Totally killed my confidence and self-esteem for years. I was in my young 20s and didn't know any better.

I'm in the east and just meet a boomerang girl where after 2 weeks I kicked her out. To many red flags where my friends couldn't contact her for a week (thought she done something stupid) but we found out that she went to her ex the next day. Next thing I notice is that I had feelings for her (now I know it was only cause I was reliving my painful past). We met up and talked so she leaves her ex but I found out through a friend she was banging him still and me for the next week. Cause I had some feelings for her, it did my head in for the next couple days. She goes "I only want to be with you and I'm over my ex" etc... bullshit. I didn't believe it cause her body language wasn't correct with her words. I only wanted to bang her but I have a rule, once I develop any kind of feelings for a fuck buddy, I'll let her go.

These type of women are very insecure and I believe they can't be alone and always need a man around.

Any information or stories would be good if anyone cares to share and warning signs...

Not sure why you'd put up with this kind of bs but it reminds me of a song

The good news is that if you spend enough time around this forum you'll learn to make the changes I think youre looking for. You came to the right place

[Exquirenoir]

NEXT!!!! Don't waste your time and resources on a woman who has heart/poosy is set else where

[Gmac]

Female players exhibit this behavior. By constantly "breaking up" and getting back together with other men it is their way of rationalizing the hypergamy and to avoid public slut shaming. Often they aren't getting what they want from one man so they string a few along and call them "exes" or whatever fits. Just like male players do with women, except they're a harem.

These hoes deserve none of your attention or time. "Next" is right.

[Captain Gh]

If you feel youe inner game is up for it keep playing her emotions and get some Bangs out of her. If you feel emotionally vulnerable (nothing wrong with that) then next her as she might hurt your confidence. It takes a bit of time in the game to block out your emotions toward a chick so no worries if you ain't there yet

[easternwomenrule]

Do girls always keep running back to their exs??

I read in the media in the east that 60% of relationship breakups are due to Facebook (talking to exs) where it makes me think, there is no point to a relationship anymore.

[Gmac]

Not all girls go back to exes. The reason they often do it is because it's "easy", "familiar", someone they trust (or trusted). They don't have to bother getting to know someone new and they still often have residual feelings and emotions that get reignited with dialogue and some memory jogging. Men in most cases aren't going to say no to an ex unless there was some major deal-breaker, they are readers/members of this forum, or they have a natural abundance mentality. It's usually not the beta boyfriends that get called back up, let's put it that way.

[PapayaTapper]

Sometimes the next branch just happens to be one that they grabbed before.

[amusedmastery]

Attention whoring to the extreme. Eliminate all contact and re-establish your frame by FORGETTING her ASAP. Focus on work, hobbies, school, weightlifting, and most importantly other women! She's playing this little slut hypergamous attention game because she knows you have no other options and have leaned so far into her frame of existence that you're practically owned.

Stop thinking about LTR's with women until you're in your mid thirties. It's an utter waste of time and possibly disastrous. You think I'm kidding? Look around at guys that marry young and get detonated by women like this. Do not walk, RUN from this nightmare feral cat.

[Kilgo]

Once you've banged a girl, you've earned a spot on her lifetime list.

Many women are conscious about the number of guys who have fucked them. Boomeranging to an ex lets them get some physical (and emotional) thrill without adding another name to the list.

I've been on both sides of it. Not fun to discover you've been boomeranged, but the proper play there is to cut ties immediately and permanently. I've also had a woman who I was hooking up with get engaged to some guy in another city. Found out after the fact that, at the *exact* moment the guy posted news of the engagement on Facebook, I was having sex with her.

(09-01-2015 12:15 PM)easternwomenrule Wrote:  

She goes "I only want to be with you and I'm over my ex" etc... bullshit. I didn't believe it cause her body language wasn't correct with her words.

Trust your instinct and judgment when it comes to reading non-verbal cues. Not just in game, but in life in general.

[John_Galt]

Meanwhile, in another thread, men of this very forum are praising the virtues of sluts.....

The irony is beautiful.

[Unchained]

A girl I was casually sleeping with told me she was talking to her ex again. I went no contact cuz I legit didn't care. I knew she'd be back as soon as her ex fucked something up.

A few weeks later I get horny and text her and she says she's not down to chill. I don't respond at all. She texts me a few hours later saying she can't chill with me cuz we can't just be friends and we'll end up fucking. I laughed and didn't respond cuz I knew she'd be back.

Like clockwork the next week she calls me at 11pm and comes over and we fuck then while we're out walking her "ex" calls her and they argue on the phone with her telling him he needs to act better. I laughed out loud.

She occasionally hits me up late at night to get fucked by me but I'm pretty sure she's still dating this guy. Last time she hit me up she texted me out of nowhere "i want you to fuck me senseless". So I did.

Honestly the answer in the western world is to stop being emotionally invested in the women you're fucking. She doesn't raise your kids, she doesn't keep your home, she doesn't have your last name. She's not yours and never will be. It's simply your turn. Be the guy she's calling late at night to fuck her in the ass, don't be the guy calling her pouring his heart out while she wipes another guy's cum from her chin.

[LeoneVolpe]

^ Well said. Never take a woman seriously until she's proven herself worthy of getting serious about. Even then, exercise caution.

[XPQ22]

(11-03-2016 06:55 PM)John_Galt Wrote:  

Meanwhile, in another thread, men of this very forum are praising the virtues of sluts.....

The irony is beautiful.

Tigers seem pretty cool. But the way I figure it, it's not really the tiger's fault if the zookeeper decides the appropriate "standard of care" for such a beast is to treat it like a kitten. Unfortunately, it's probably a mistake we've all made at one point or another, but so long as you're not putting Mufasa in a wedding gown, you don't usually get eaten.

(11-05-2016 04:50 PM)Unchained Wrote:  

Like clockwork the next week she calls me at 11pm and comes over and we fuck then while we're out walking her "ex" calls her and they argue on the phone with her telling him he needs to act better.

One thing I'm fairly sure about the girls I've dated regularly over the past year, slut or no, is that they know hitting me with a statement resembling "you need to act better" would be a move insane to the point of lunacy. They might pout and grump from time to time, but calling me on the carpet like I was an employee up for review would be a sure-fire way to get me to eject on them forever. And they know it...which I guess is why so far it's never happened. I guess that's what they call "setting the frame."

It's simply stunning to me that there are men who would play it any differently, and apparently a large number who do.

DO NOT ARGUE WITH A WOMAN you're dating. If you are, you've kinda already lost. The only debate you should be having is with yourself over whether it's a soft next or a hard.

[John_Galt]

(11-06-2016 01:15 AM)XPQ22 Wrote:  

DO NOT ARGUE WITH A WOMAN you're dating. If you are, you've kinda already lost. The only debate you should be having is with yourself over whether it's a soft next or a hard.

Every RVF member needs to print this out and stick it on their bathroom mirror.

[XPQ22]

(11-06-2016 01:23 AM)John_Galt Wrote:  

Every RVF member needs to print this out and stick it on their bathroom mirror.

If we're honest though, I think we have to admit that it's an ideal that can probably never be met completely, as we're all imperfect people operating in an imperfect world. More of a guideline for frame, I guess, a reminder that nobody has any intrinsic right to your time or attention if they're making you uncomfortable, not even your girl. But women have had long experience in knowing just what to say to push men's "buttons", and despite our best efforts none of us are saints or Zen masters.

If she'd had an issue she wants to discuss, she can present it in a calm manner like a normal person. A girl who says "you need to do BETTER!" is looking for a fight and coming out swinging. I try not to do fights. Very unpleasant.

That being said, what are the chances that at some point in the future I'll find myself in another argument with a woman? Well, probably about 100%...

[Rawmeo]

FFS, next her. She was with him, needed some alpha dick, and came back to him after. He's now a cuck, and you should enjoy the notch you had. You have nothing to do anymore.

"The happier you will be with women depends entirely on your ability to not give a fuck"