[ronsaur]

Looking back, I realized the moment after I really started taking the abundance theory (endless supply of hot women) to heart, I stopped being able to remember people's names (usually for women, but sometimes men too).

I used to be really good at remembering names and faces, but now I can't do it for the life of me. Maybe because now at times I am so emotionally detached that every girl that comes along is the same in my mind. I guess it just comes with the territory. Oh well.

[EisenBarde]

This has forced a few girls to qualify themselves to me when they say my name when they greet me and I, either honestly or insidiously, don't remember theirs.

You gotta be careful with this one, though. If you turn up the jerk mode too much right after this I've had quite a few people turn cold on me. There was one incident that my friends told me this one girl was really interested in me showing up to a house party but because my only intention that night was to get hammered with some friends I hadn't seen in awhile, I quite literally got her name wrong after her telling me about half a dozen times.

I ended up humping a toilet that night, I think. Never again will I drink that much tequila.

[WesternCancer]

I think the ideal for the abundance mentality is not "everyone is the same and they suck. I'm not going to remember them because they don't matter there will always be someone else like them" but "I enjoy talking to various people and getting to know them. If it doesn't work out no worries because just around the corner is someone who is completely new and just as fun to get to know"

[Millz]

I usually play a game of my drivers license pic is so horrible show me yours and I'll show you mines always works

[Aliblahba]

I've always been horrible with names period. I hate when bitches call you out on it. Most of the girls in the DR were:

San Fran girl
Bar girl
grocery store girl
Sunshine
Buy me drinkie girl
Big tittie girl
Mall girl

I forgot the chicks name last night. She text it to me, or I'd never have remembered. Trying to keep notes in my phone or on a paper. Recently I was talking to a Jessica, Janice, Jennifer, and Jordan. Too many J's had me all fucked up.

[legend44k]

I open atleast 10-15 sets a night... its almost impossible to remember every girls name especially when im focusing on other things such as if shes even interested or not or dtf. i've literally had girls in the bag and were ready to come back to my place who say, "okay, lets go to your place, but first... what's my name." obviously i don't remember and they peace out. ive had this happen 4 or 5 times and it sucks!

I've asked girls why they get so offended and they say its because you aren't actually listening to what were saying and just want to fuck us.... ummm well duh!

Anyways, this is what i've come up to counter this, I was wondering if anyone has come with anything better.

1.
girl: whats my name?
Me: beautiful (big smile on face and wink)

2.
Girl: whats my name?
me: wow, so how bout that weather, huh (big smile on face)

3.
Girl: whats my name?
me: you even know my name?
girl: yah it's legend
me: nooooo, its legand (or anything that rhymes with your name and just fuck with them)

4.
Girl: whats your name?
me: you never even introduced yourself (even though they did, use reverse psychology to trick them into thinking they didn't)

5.
lastly what you can do is to spit back bullet points of what she said in your conversation to let her know you were paying attention to what she said, but you just happen to forget her name, big deal.

any other suggestions?

[Vincent Chase]

Never had a problem with names, mostly because I don't use their names and frankly don't care what they're called.

I particularly like Number 4 above if you run into a problem.

[eatthishomie]

hell, that's a good thing.

"wait, who are you again?"

[MrXY]

I feign not remembering their names -it's a great way to show your abundance of women and lower their value.

Caution-don't do this after you've banged them.

[MrXY]

delete

[Brodiaga]

My memory often fails me, especially trying to remember girls' names after a few drinks.

I lost a notch because one girl noticed I forgot her name and called me out on it. She was already at my place.

Another girl I already banged, then asked her name for the third time. She got furious and and said to never contact her again.

[cascadecombo]

(08-30-2015 09:22 PM)MrXY Wrote:  

I feign not remembering their names -it's a great way to show your abundance of women and lower their value.

Caution-don't do this after you've banged them.

I've done that before. Picked up some Indian chick so I had no familiarity with the names. She put my number in her phone when we met, but we drank that night I got smashed and took her home.

Woke up the next morning, didn't remember doing her but she was in her birthday suit and said I was too rough so I assume we did it.
Anyway, when I woke up she wanted to talk to me and for some reason she wanted to hear her name. Still being drunk and not caring I made up some super white girl name, and that pissed her off enough to head out the door.

Wanting to fuck with her I looked at my phone and told her, cya later [Name]. Instantly got all mushy, aww you remembered!

Followed by, nope, I just looked at my phone now. She left, but was in my bed again the next week or so.