[jariel]

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The adulterers website Ashley Madison is expecting a massive 500 percent spike in sign-ups from women on the day after Mother’s Day. According to its data, there was a 442 percent increase in sign-ups (compared to the daily norm) after last year’s holiday, following an upward trend since 2010.

So what drives a woman to commit adultery after spending time with her family on Mother’s Day? Ann, a 42-year-old finance worker from Bergen County, NJ, who asked The Post not to use her last name, tells Jane Ridley her cheating story.

Opening the Mother’s Day card last year from my husband, Derek*, my heart sank. We’d been married for more than 15 years, and I was the mom of his two young children — but he hadn’t even thought to buy me flowers, let alone jewelry.

The whole run-up to Mother’s Day had been depressing. It made me feel old, like I was losing my sexiness. My marriage was stuck in a rut.

We’d gotten hitched when I was in my mid-20s. Things were great at first, but they started to fall apart almost as soon as our kids arrived.

Derek is only 48, but he might as well be in his 70s — he’s always tired and unmotivated. We have sex about once a week, though it’s hardly passionate. I never orgasm and just go through the motions.

So, the day after Mother’s Day, I set up a profile on the cheaters’ website Ashley Madison.

I’d had a bit to drink and was feeling flirtatious, so I wrote how I was a voluptuous brunette looking to have an affair. Within minutes, I had responses from several guys, including a man called Tom with three children. He was 42, worked in the medical field and his marriage was even more dysfunctional than mine. He wasn’t having sex with his wife at all.

I met him less than a week later for lunch, at a restaurant about 40 minutes away from each of our homes. We ended up having a lot of fun drinking wine and getting to know each other.

We first had sex three weeks later, at a Best Western off Route 80. It sounds seedy, but it wasn’t. The sex wasn’t the best thing since sliced bread, just very intimate and passionate. I still wasn’t able to orgasm — in fact, I never have. But it got better as time went on.

Even though it was a big deal for me to cheat on Derek, I didn’t feel guilty. I finally felt alive and sexy again. I didn’t tell a soul — not even my best friends. It felt good having this big secret all to myself.

After that, Tom and I met for sex about once a month for six months, but then he started to flake out on me, canceling our meetings and making excuses. By then, I’d fallen in love with him. I never told him, because I knew deep down that he wanted to keep things casual and not leave his wife and family. To be honest, neither did I. Eventually, we stopped seeing each other.

After that, I met and slept with two other men through Ashley Madison, and I’m currently chatting online with a few guys. Derek and I still have sex about once a week, and I’m afraid to say the sex hasn’t improved. But now that I’ve had my affairs, it doesn’t bother me as much. If there is one thing I’ve learned from the experience, it’s that mothers need to pamper themselves and have fun elsewhere if they don’t feel appreciated at home.

http://nypost.com/2015/05/02/a-miserable...y-husband/

[Hotwheels]

marketing

[Days of Broken Arrows]

Ah, yes. Good old adulterous sex. Liberating and emancipating for a female, but sinful and grounds for divorce for a male.

If you switched the gender to male and ran that version of this same article just before Father's Day, the entire SJW/Twitter/media industrial complex would go into a tantrum-seizure so bad it would make the Baltimore Riots look like the ballet.

That is, if the media would even run such an article. Somehow I doubt a piece headlined "My wife forgot Father's Day ties, so I had sex with someone else" would ever make it to print.

[Hotwheels]

(05-06-2015 03:34 AM)Days of Broken Arrows Wrote:  

Ah, yes. Good old adulterous sex. Liberating and emancipating for a female, but sinful and grounds for divorce for a male.

If you switched the gender to male and ran that version of this same article just before Father's Day, the entire SJW/Twitter/media industrial complex would go into a tantrum-seizure so bad it would make the Baltimore Riots look like the ballet.

That is, if the media would even run such an article. Somehow I doubt a piece headlined "My wife forgot Father's Day ties, so I had sex with someone else" would ever make it to print.

All I know is I need to find a kick ass marketer.

I'll put my sugar site back up in a heartbeat.

*Found enough hotboxes to keep me satiated, but not next level.

I want next level.

[Foolsgo1d]

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We’d gotten hitched when I was in my mid-20s. Things were great at first, but they started to fall apart almost as soon as our kids arrived.

There is the clue.

[KofiKingston]

(05-06-2015 03:02 AM)jariel Wrote:  

Opening the Mother’s Day card last year from my husband, Derek*, my heart sank. We’d been married for more than 15 years, and I was the mom of his two young children — but he hadn’t even thought to buy me flowers, let alone jewelry.

Wtf? Seems like hubby married a crow in human form.

[Simeon_Strangelight]

It would be more of a parody if the reality wasn't exactly like that. The article is basically like one that could have been published in the Onion in the 1990s.

[Sumanguru]

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Opening the Mother’s Day card last year from my husband, Derek*, my heart sank. We’d been married for more than 15 years, and I was the mom of his two young children — but he hadn’t even thought to buy me flowers, let alone jewelry.

In her 40s, and 15 years together with her husband, and her affections are still as purchasable as any dumb 20 year old's.

The ultimate issue is that Derek fucked up by marrying her in the first place, though considering how things have gone between them I suspect he knows that.

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We’d gotten hitched when I was in my mid-20s. Things were great at first, but they started to fall apart almost as soon as our kids arrived.

I'm betting she got fat and wrinkly and stretch marks. There's only so much you can do about the last two (though they sound fairly well off so cosmetic surgery may have been an option) but you can at least be in good shape.

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Derek is only 48, but he might as well be in his 70s — he’s always tired and unmotivated. We have sex about once a week, though it’s hardly passionate. I never orgasm and just go through the motions.

Hmm, so he's not excited about having sex with an old, overweight woman who goes through the motions? Who could have guessed?

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So, the day after Mother’s Day, I set up a profile on the cheaters’ website Ashley Madison.

How interesting that at no point does she say she *talked* to her husband about not feeling fulfilled. At no point does she do any self inspection to see what she could be doing better sexually, or maybe if SHE is the reason that he's so bored during sex. Nope. She's not getting what she wants, and he's not reading her mind, therefore she is justified in cheating. I just noticed the end of the article's URL says: "A Miserable Mother's Day made me cheat on my husband"

Notice that it isn't, "A Miserable Mother's Day made me step my game up to become a better, sexier wife" or "A Miserable Mother's Day made me talk to my husband and seek couple's counseling".

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I’d had a bit to drink and was feeling flirtatious, so I wrote how I was a voluptuous brunette looking to have an affair.

Yeah, she got fat.

Are there comments on this article? For whatever reason my work computers block a lot of comment sections. Please tell me they are ripping her apart, I need something to have hope for.

[Darius]

(05-06-2015 03:06 AM)Hotwheels Wrote:  

marketing

I think you nailed it.

Native advertising.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Native_advertising

For those unfamiliar with the term.

[porscheguy]

Problem number 1.

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I never orgasm and just go through the motions.

And problem number 1.

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I still wasn’t able to orgasm — in fact, I never have.

A woman who can't have an orgasm from normal sex has issues far beyond anything I'm willing to deal with.

[eljeffster]

She wanted jewelry or flowers from her husband. . . for Mother's day.


Female holidays (meaning man is expected to buy shit)

1. Her birthday
2. Christmas
3. New Years
4. Valentine's Day
5. Wedding day anniversary (x2 if you did a civil marriage and then did a "real" marriage)
6. Mother's Day
7. Any shit she makes up (anniversary of first date etc.)

Male
1. Your birthday (you get a blowjob)
2. . . . . that is fucking it. Father's day doesn't count. You get breakfast in bed and then you have a "day" with your kids.

[Rush87]

While this likely happens, that was 100% written by an Ashley Madison employee for the sole purpose of advertising the 'adventure' that their site can provide to the intended target market.

[Repo]

Old ass thread. But yeah theyve been outed for tons of fake women profiles. Waste of time and money

[kosko]

(05-06-2015 01:07 PM)porscheguy Wrote:  

Problem number 1.

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I never orgasm and just go through the motions.

And problem number 1.

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I still wasn’t able to orgasm — in fact, I never have.

A woman who can't have an orgasm from normal sex has issues far beyond anything I'm willing to deal with.

Most women don't orgasm during sex....

Why do you think a whole hamster industry exists to teach them "how to".

Old school studies were stacked up on the subject but feminists have thrown all of them out since they were chiefly done by men back in the day. Men would use rigorous testing while femenists use bogus soft interviews to make women say what they don't want to.

It gets to the point women fall over themselves when you even just get them close to it.

This is an easy way to screen for wand freaks. Aka women that masturbate to much. These women don't orgasm much from sex but have the sex drive of a Olympian. They figure out how to orgasm and sex with them becomes a soft power play. They are very vocal in bed in what spots to hit and when. They are crackheads for their orgasm but know deep down for them casual sex isn't a often (or good) occurance.

More times than not a women tells you she has orgasmed she is lying. You can physically tell if you know what to look for (sporadic change in voice tone, diaphragm changes, the breathing or eyes giving clues), plus the energy surge he gets after she squeezes out a nut.

This is why I like broads that squirt. It takes a deep understanding of her body to do it. And is a very easy physical clue to help you see the clear and potent changes to her when she orgasms.

[Hades]

I kind of doubt it, only because Ashley Madison is a pretty nifty scam, preying on horny men. They did the study and found that maybe ... 3% of users were actually women?

[Yatagan]

(06-17-2016 09:31 PM)Hades Wrote:  

I kind of doubt it, only because Ashley Madison is a pretty nifty scam, preying on horny men. They did the study and found that maybe ... 3% of users were actually women?

Not dunno the exact stats, but yes, a dude is more likely to find bigfoot on there than an actual woman based on what came out.

[Vaun]

(06-17-2016 08:19 PM)kosko Wrote:  

(05-06-2015 01:07 PM)porscheguy Wrote:  

Problem number 1.

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I never orgasm and just go through the motions.

And problem number 1.

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I still wasn’t able to orgasm — in fact, I never have.

A woman who can't have an orgasm from normal sex has issues far beyond anything I'm willing to deal with.

This is an easy way to screen for wand freaks. Aka women that masturbate to much. These women don't orgasm much from sex but have the sex drive of a Olympian. They figure out how to orgasm and sex with them becomes a soft power play. They are very vocal in bed in what spots to hit and when. They are crackheads for their orgasm but know deep down for them casual sex isn't a often (or good) occurance.

More times than not a women tells you she has orgasmed she is lying. You can physically tell if you know what to look for (sporadic change in voice tone, diaphragm changes, the breathing or eyes giving clues), plus the energy surge he gets after she squeezes out a nut.

This is why I like broads that squirt. It takes a deep understanding of her body to do it. And is a very easy physical clue to help you see the clear and potent changes to her when she orgasms.

If I am fucking a wand freak who has a "system" all mapped out for her orgasm, I break them out of this by mixing it up with some bdsm and other sex fun.

True about squirting. If they aren't squirting or gushing when they climax, its all a ruse. But in the end who cares anyway about her pleasure, especially if she is lying to herself that she is orgasming. Once you do find the squirter, and you are able to get her there repeatedly, there is nothing else like it. This is like 1 in 100. And usually non-American.

[Lucario]

Jim Jefferies did a good stand-up on it.
Sucks how he said that he caved into peer pressure and brought her a gift.

[EDantes]

Wonder what the reaction would be if it was a married man saying that if wifey won't give him BJs anymore, he should hit up the local club and get it on with some young college coeds?

I'm sure we could all guarantee that the reactions would be a lot different, not only from many of the women but plenty of 'white knights' as well, lol

Honestly though, what I do agree with is it takes two to tango regardless of the sex. A person can't realistically expect to get married and be indefinitely supported by the other partner if they're not pulling their own weight in keeping the marriage passionate; but likewise there's no excuse for cheating.

If one or the other isn't happy the should have the gut to just end the relationship, but of course that's wishful thinking. This was of course another case of another bored housewife wanting to have her cake and eat it too - wanting the steamy sex but afraid of losing her monthly paycheck.

[John Michael Kane]

The whole website was exposed to be a scam of female robot users, with virtually no real female membership. If a woman wants to cheat, she would prefer to do it within her social circle and doesn't need to pay a website to do so. There are enough horny, hungry men out there that if a committed woman wants to get some extra-marital sex, she certainly doesn't need to go online to do so. It is the wishful thinking simps that think they are going to get hot MILF's to hook up with who are delusional.

[Tim in real life]

Geez, people, this is fucking why Guinevere shaming works.

[Matsufubu]

I always thought that Mother's Day was for children to show appreciation to their mothers, not for husbands to buy more shiny shit for their wives that won't be appreciated. Plus, this is blatant marketing.

Anyone know how the hacking scandal affected Ashley Madison? I don't know how it's still functional.