Met a hot 26 year old Asian on Tinder...was pretty excited as I'm 41 and haven't been having as much luck lately with the young girls. Took her to watch the fireworks at a secret beach, she drank an entire bottle of wine, and I got the best BJ of my life (I think). She got drunk and emotional (nearly passed out after) and I had to drive her home without getting the bang. Was surprised to hear from her the next morning.
Shortly after, I take her to an expensive restaurant she asked to go to (after she changed plans from daytime beach hangout). Back to my place she was not into me at all. She started complaining about needing to move and doesn't have enough money for a deposit. She asked if I would give her $300 to help her. This nearly left me speechless and I was not sure I wanted to go for the notch anymore. But I figured I'd fuck with her and promise the money when I get back in town after this weekend. She still was not seeming like she wanted to fuck but eventually we did and it was pretty great. Got another BJ afterwards just to see if she would...also great.
I guess my question is what would you guys do in that type of situation and how exactly do I deal with her expecting to get paid next time she thinks we are to hang out. My feeling was I'd just ghost her and eventually block her or even call her out on being a pro or whatever when we were supposed to be dating/hooking up/etc...I'd also love to nail this chick again but I'm thinking just be happy with the freebies I already got and next her.
Shortly after, I take her to an expensive restaurant she asked to go to (after she changed plans from daytime beach hangout). Back to my place she was not into me at all. She started complaining about needing to move and doesn't have enough money for a deposit. She asked if I would give her $300 to help her. This nearly left me speechless and I was not sure I wanted to go for the notch anymore. But I figured I'd fuck with her and promise the money when I get back in town after this weekend. She still was not seeming like she wanted to fuck but eventually we did and it was pretty great. Got another BJ afterwards just to see if she would...also great.
I guess my question is what would you guys do in that type of situation and how exactly do I deal with her expecting to get paid next time she thinks we are to hang out. My feeling was I'd just ghost her and eventually block her or even call her out on being a pro or whatever when we were supposed to be dating/hooking up/etc...I'd also love to nail this chick again but I'm thinking just be happy with the freebies I already got and next her.