I've been on vacation for a few days on a tropical island.
The first day here I met a girl and we really hit it off, spent some time together, had some beautiful moments, great sex.
I knew that last night would be the last time I saw her since I'm going back home this morning.
So last night I took her to the beach and we walked around, watched the short, wiry, dark-skinned Thai guys spin fire sticks and poi on a backdrop of twinkling lights in the hills and soft shooshing of the waves lapping up onto shore.
I was tired and had to wake up early, so at the end of our walk I told her I'm going home now.
She was expecting to come back to my room with me again and I could see her face go from a sweet smile to a look of being totally crushed.
And my heart just fucking broke as soon I saw that..
She quickly composed herself and exclaimed "I'm going home too."
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What would you career players have done in this situation?
On the one hand, I feel like I shouldn't have even messaged her to meet up last night if I knew I wasn't going to take her back to my room.
In effect, I accidentally broke up with her when I just meant to spend my last night with her.
What I usually do, and what would have been better perhaps, is to not have messaged her at all last night.
And the next time she messaged me, I would inform her that unfortunately, I'm back home already.
But that has an element of avoidance like "you don't have the guts to give a woman some closure and finality so she can move on with her life."
And yet from another angle, if any of you have read The Keylogger, chances are good she has a line of dick stretching around the corner ready to deploy on her command.
So...what's the best practice here fellas (if there is one)?
The first day here I met a girl and we really hit it off, spent some time together, had some beautiful moments, great sex.
I knew that last night would be the last time I saw her since I'm going back home this morning.
So last night I took her to the beach and we walked around, watched the short, wiry, dark-skinned Thai guys spin fire sticks and poi on a backdrop of twinkling lights in the hills and soft shooshing of the waves lapping up onto shore.
I was tired and had to wake up early, so at the end of our walk I told her I'm going home now.
She was expecting to come back to my room with me again and I could see her face go from a sweet smile to a look of being totally crushed.
And my heart just fucking broke as soon I saw that..
She quickly composed herself and exclaimed "I'm going home too."
***
What would you career players have done in this situation?
On the one hand, I feel like I shouldn't have even messaged her to meet up last night if I knew I wasn't going to take her back to my room.
In effect, I accidentally broke up with her when I just meant to spend my last night with her.
What I usually do, and what would have been better perhaps, is to not have messaged her at all last night.
And the next time she messaged me, I would inform her that unfortunately, I'm back home already.
But that has an element of avoidance like "you don't have the guts to give a woman some closure and finality so she can move on with her life."
And yet from another angle, if any of you have read The Keylogger, chances are good she has a line of dick stretching around the corner ready to deploy on her command.
So...what's the best practice here fellas (if there is one)?