Quote: (08-17-2015 06:38 AM)Dantes Wrote:
Can men develop their Alpha self and masculinity as youngsters without playing competitive sports? Sure you can excel in academics, music, and art, but does it really give you the same masculine confidence? I venture to say no but I am curious on what others have to say.
I'll be blunt. This is sentimental nonsense.
Locker room bro-hood and the sharing of pizzas is pretty well irrelevant to vagina lubrication.
An alpha is a man whose exceptional behaviour attracts women.
Exceptional behaviour. He is an
exception.
If there were only five men in existence, the five men could not all be alphas. Only one could dominate. Only one could be the exception.
The captain of the team is the alpha of the team by default. For those who don't have the ability or inclination to be the captain, joining a team is a bad deal, unless this team comes with automatic prestige.
In the stone age, the ability to be "captain" was crucial to alpha status. Other males of the tribe laughed at his jokes and tried not to get murdered by him; women he didn't like were left over for the betas, the seconds in command. Odds were he had fucked them at some point, and nobody was ever fully certain who fathered whom. Occasionally they ganged together and murdered the chief, who was usually quite a bit older than them, and possibly even their father. Then the band of betas formed their own pecking order, and the strongest beta gradually became the new tyrant. The sons of the old tyrant mature. The cycle repeats.
A sports team, far from being some primeval institution, far from being some kind of model of society, is basically a stone age tribe with actual alpha-beta conflict surgically removed. It's a neutered tribe and not at all representative of real world conflict within a tribe, the struggle between alphas and betas.
As an expression of masculine instincts, it reflects the very limited period of time when betas worked together to murder their father-chief, or when one tribe attacked another and murdered its entire male population. Reality is not heartwarming or friendly.
Fittingly, team sports were unknown or ignored in societies with actual hierarchies.
Ancient Greece focussed on single combat, solo sports like discus throwing, sports with only one winner such as chariot racing, wrestling, etc.
Medieval Europe has its jousts, races, duels, not so much as a peep of football. All one on one.
Team sports are a revival of the primeval "beta band" or "murderous chode cluster" if you will. No wonder democratic societies love them so much. Everybody can win together...