[WestIndianArchie]

"it seems you need a little bit more effort then just a convo and few drinks to pull them in the sack. "

When I read or hear a statement like this, I really have to consider the source.

It's the sort of statement a game denialist would say.

But if a "made man" says it, I wonder what they mean

WIA

[456]

Cop-out for "damn, my value isn't as readily apparent as it [is elsewhere | used to be] to these [type of] girls..."

Maybe he recently moved?
Maybe he's at a particularly "academic" event?
Maybe he's older and having ever-more trouble relating to millennials?

Could beg a tautology calling his "made" status into question. Actually it reminds me of the "Advanced Game" thread

[OregonToSoCal]

It's a prime example of 'it's not what you say but how you say it'. A 'simple convo' can speak volumes if said properly. Like the others have said this is garden variety game denial.

[WestIndianArchie]

@456, it was said in a travel datasheet.

With limited language skills scenario, it might be a fair statement.

But I haven't traveled and banged enough to know.

WIA

[kaotic]

Sure it might take a few drinks and a convo, but I think an important question is:

Have you really CONNECTED with the female ? Did you entice her ?

It also really depends on the scenario like 456 mentioned.

Since this was mentioned in a travel data sheet, you won't be doing much talking compare to body/sign language if you're in a different country with it's own language and culture.

Take for example Atlantic in SA - low verbal communication, high hand/ey/body/sign communication and he pulled some insanely hot chicas.

Sometimes a girl is an easy 1, 2, 3 lay up, drinks convos bang. In other cases it might take something else or a "push" to seal the deal.

[Capitán Peligroso]

Quote:

"it seems you need a little bit more effort then just a convo and few drinks to pull them in the sack. "

This is a classic case of pronoun trouble. It isn't "it seems you need a little bit more effort then just a convo and few drinks to pull them in the sack." It is "it seems I need a little bit more effort then just a convo and few drinks to pull them in the sack."

Changes the whole dynamic of the thinking process entirely.

[Noir]

It means your game isn't on that tight level where it will work.

If your game is tight, you're not calibrating to the situation to identify what the fastest/most enjoyable way in to the sack would be.

A made man won't claim that it requires a bit more effort, he will provide an alternative on how to get in to the sack.