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What made you start using game?
#26

What made you start using game?

My LTR of almost 4 years broke up with me because i beta-backslided heavily - classic.

Then i found heartiste, rooshv, rollo and this forum. I got ephiphany about game and life.

One year forward - i got a few notches and my first ONS. Now i'm approaching like there is no tommorow.
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#27

What made you start using game?

I didn't learn about game until i had a BPD in my life. I was a typical relationship type guy until i figured out what a bad deal marriage is for a man in the US. Game saved me from a crazy bitch !
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#28

What made you start using game?

I'm a geezer. I get it. So many things weren't around when I was in my 20's. I didn't have a cell phone until I was 24. Internet? 25 or 26. I'm sure that this is inconceivable for some of you. The resources simply weren't available. Men were forced to develop their own game. Figure out what worked for them, and what didn't.

Now? There are resources EVERYWHERE. I can click a link from my living room and have access to strategies, processes and systems that have proven results for interacting with women not only in my neighborhood, but anywhere in the world. That is powerful. I can come here and discover things that younger men are doing to produce more results. I'm of the mindset that if you aren't growing, you're dying. Getting around young, dynamic, forward thinking guys who are on the front end of game every night, in the proverbial "trenches", and learning from their successes and failures creates many more opportunities.

This may sound slightly contrary to conventional wisdom, but I don't see my approach style as "game". When I stopped trying to "game" women, and became convinced that everything that I was doing and saying was part of a strategy to negotiate a woman back to my bedroom, my results went up tenfold. It is where I felt like I hit my stride. When it became less about "Let's see what happens" and all about "Go make it happen, whatever it takes.", my mindset changed. Even when my number was zero, after breaking up with an LTR, or returning from working overseas, I had an attitude of abundance because I knew that in one day I would have results whether it be a number, or a lay.

Having traveled all over the world, what works in one location may not work in another location. Alaska, for example. Want to hone your skills? Go there. But, another talk for another time. Having a resource like this allows me to study up on what I need to do to effectively operate in foreign lands. Become a chameleon. Change colors to fit in with local population. Where I am in my life, a simple overlooked or unknowing mis-step can make the difference between success and failure. It is best to have my toolbox well equipped prior to entire new territory vs. trying to adapt and improvise on the ground. Simply it'll yield more results.

That is why we are all here; To get around like minded men using proven processes within a system to develop our own strategy for improving our results with women, whatever our individual goals are.
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#29

What made you start using game?

Similar to ginatingles, slid back to beta the last couple years of my marriage. My ex was/is BPD. And I'd been out of the game for over ten years. I wasn't so much full beta as much as I was not alpha. Took a lot of crap "for the sake of the marriage".

Started hitting Tinder, had a few matches, nothing spectacular. Drinks or dinner usually ended with "I had fun". Most seemed to want a relationship. I wasn't ready for one of those again.
(Looking back now, at least half I could have succeeded in smashing).

Fast forward to a couple months later, when I started realizing the red pill.

One morning I'm waiting to get into an auction/estate sale. I'm a bit of a watch nut, and this auction advertised a LOT of watches. Rolexes, Tag Heuers, Movados, etc. It's 'first come, first serve'. Doors open at 9:00, the number system is in effect. I'm the eighth person.

While I'm waiting, my phone pings that I have a Tinder match. 21, about 30 miles away, about a 5 or 6. We start chatting and move to text. The conversation has plenty of sexual overtones, and I find out she's looking for a sugar daddy. She needs a purse, bracelets, a $200 make up kit... and a watch. Gucci, Kors, something along those lines.

I'm not into the sugar daddy thing, but I'm bored waiting in the auction line. And what the heck, if I can find a watch. I figure I'll have some fun while I wait.

Me: "I'll pick you out a nice watch, and what do I get in return ?"
Her: "You pick me up a watch like I want, and I'll blow your mind and your dick."

Got in the door to the estate sale, found a Submariner style Invicta for myself for $40. And I spot a "worn once or twice" Kors, still looked brand new, with the box... for $20. Heck, I'm gonna spend that $20 anyway for a couple of drinks on a 'date'.

Ok. Let's see if this girl is full of it or not. I snap a pic of the watch in the box and send it. She loves it, says I picked well, and texts me her address. Met her an hour later in her dorm room, showed her the watch (she didn't even bother to see if it was real or fake lol), and got some of the best head and tightest v I ever had. Spanking, hair pulling, burying her face in the mattress, this chick was lovin' it all. And loved the nut butter on her skin. Stayed for about five hours, multiple times that day.

All that for a watch... that only cost me $20.

Then another red pill moment about a week later.

Tinder match, 38, about a 6, 60 miles away. And all I had to do was spring for the hotel room and bring the fedora from one of my pics.

Got the fedora, got the hotel, got the knock at the door, talked a little bit about ourselves and that we both have kids... and ten minutes later got the bang. No gifts, no dinner, no drinks, no promises, just smashing. She stayed the night and well into the morning. I've met up with her since, both hotels and her place.

Was always real adamant about my wearing protection, until one night she said something about not wanting any more kids (age, career, etc.), and I commented that I didn't either, that's why I had the surgery done.

"Oh my god why didn't you say anything ? I hate condoms." And got to a whole new level with her when I went raw.

This was just game through an online 'hookup' app. I can only imagine what else is in store as I continue to polish up my day and night game.

I look forward to that, as well as helping the forum when and where I can.

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A 5 in your bed is worth more than a 9 in your head.
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#30

What made you start using game?

I used to buy girls dinner, then shoot for the second date bang.
While this would work, it seemed a little too much effort for a hit or miss.
A friend of mine showed me Youtube video's of guys like Vitaly approaching girls in broad day; I couldn't believe it was that easy (granted not being as outlandish).
We made it a point to approach random girls, and occasionally, it worked, but the conversations were brief and I only got call backs half of the time, and dates even less.
I eventually moved to another city and didn't have much to do yet, or any buddies to head out with.
This was the push I needed- this is what got me out of my comfort zone.
I continued working out, found out about juicing on danger and play, and this lead to me finding Roosh.
I read all the early posts to the most recent. I felt I needed to step things up in a major way.
I was approaching, reading, lifting, and started online game (which I'd never thought to utilize).
Saving money to travel places I've never seen before.
After that, I saw changes and took risks. Failed miserably and won fantastically too.
Now I can't remember the last time I bought a girl anything other than a coffee or a bottle of wine to share.
Thanks Roosh.
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