[arcterex]

Thanks to you all, I got the balls to talk to girls when I'm out. I met an account rep in the area for a few weeks. We're meeting up tonight for a comedy show, then I place to take her back to my place.

So, I got approaching but now I know fuck all what to do. I think my game should be reasonable at the comedy club; I've been there before, I know the bartender. Logistics are good- my place is right across the street.

After the club: what's the best way to suggest she come back to my place? (I was thinking - let's go over to my place for a nightcap)

Once I get her back, WTF should I do? (for background, she's in her 30s, a professional, big tits)

Thank from a Newb!

[Rawmeo]

Search for "tuthmosis first date recipe rooshvforum.network" and you will get a very good detailed recipe written by Tuthmosis that explains how to get a SNL using a bar near your place.

[Moto]

Make sure your place is presentable as you can make it- clean and ready to roll. Do you have anything interesting? Just find some pictures or something, lead the conversation to them at the club, make an off-hand comment "I've got some pics of ________ maybe I'll show ya sometime."

Then as your leaving, "spontaneously" invite her to come see them. It could be a song you want her to hear, a cocktail drink you want to make, a "painting" you made (even if it is stick figures drawn with crayon).

Once my cat had kittens. Do you think I ever had trouble convincing girls to come to my place during that time?

Sounds like she's a "get down to business" kind of woman. So get down to business. Read Tuth's date bang recipe, shouldn't be too hard to find. I'd suggest following that generally to start, until you find what works for you. It shouldn't be hard to find it in a search. Basically don't try to escalate too much physically until you're at your place. Of course, you need to have a romantic vibe. The key is to build sexual tension.


Then as soon as she's in your place, lock the door and pull out a bottle of lotion saying "It puts the lotion on its skin or else it gets the hose again."

Don't do that last part. Seriously. Hannibal game doesn't work that well on most girls.

Edit: someone submitted a response before me, also suggesting Tuth's recipe

[ksbms]

(07-21-2015 03:03 PM)arcterex Wrote:  

Thanks to you all, I got the balls to talk to girls when I'm out. I met an account rep in the area for a few weeks. We're meeting up tonight for a comedy show, then I place to take her back to my place.

So, I got approaching but now I know fuck all what to do. I think my game should be reasonable at the comedy club; I've been there before, I know the bartender. Logistics are good- my place is right across the street.

After the club: what's the best way to suggest she come back to my place? (I was thinking - let's go over to my place for a nightcap)

Once I get her back, WTF should I do? (for background, she's in her 30s, a professional, big tits)

Thank from a Newb!

Have sex with her? Sometimes it seems to me like some men got completely disconnected from their primal instincts. Our ancestors were quite capable (after all, humans are still kicking around) at going at it without the sophisticated game apparatus. It really isn't as hard as it seems, right?

I reckon, it's to a degree self-fulfilling prophecy - you begin to think it's tough, it becomes tough, and vice-versa.

On a more serious note - plenty of threads/posts describing step by step, what to do.

For example: New Recipe for Securing First-Date Bangs

Good luck.

[arcterex]

AWESOME; THANKS!!! I will definitely use that technique Moto of mentioning something interesting as a reason to come back w/me. And will check out Tuth's post!

[arcterex]

Haha, stood up- she went to see basketball game (she had mentioned this earlier that she was committed to that; but might be able to "break free") - could be BS but whatever.

Still I feel amazing about today. Had so many girls checking me out today; maybe cause I've been working on my looks- what I wear, my hair. It feeds on itself and then I had the confidence to talk this girl up. Haven't done anything like that for 2 years (due to a lot of things going on in my life including a serious medical issue). Butterflies in my stomach. But I thought I pulled it off really well. Girl's in town for another 2 weeks so we might hang out later. But if not, who cares? LOL. I guess I've absorbed the abundance mentality from this board. There's nothing stopping me from talking to 5 girls tomorrow. The main thing I got from this board was the attitudes; the inner game of just go out there, don't kills yourself if the approach doesn't work, think of yourself as relaxed and high value. It actually works.

Cool man. I feel "new"! Can't wait to get back out there and see what happens.

[Phoenix]

^ Report back when you've talked to 5 girls tomorrow. Fill the pipeline.

[not-a-pua]

This guy has the advice.

[Dalaran1991]

Bitches be flaking...

You will likely run into similar situations very soon so all the advice here will still apply.

What others said. I'd definitely suggest getting some alcohol involved whenever you have a girl at your place. You could even have a nice bottle of wine and say "hey I just got this excellent bottle, lets go try it at my place" whatever.

Getting her a bit tipsy makes it much easier. Roosh says even 50% easier.

Also dont skimp the most important part: yourself. Are you nervous? If so prepare yourself mentally, dont jerk off, no porn, hit the gym before going out.

I once SNL a freaking hot girl, so hot at the time I thought I need not bother, but the pull was fucking smooth. Yet when she was at my place I fucking got performance anxiety and it almost ruined the show. You dont want that, but it happened a lot to newbs.

[freshlife]

"You still keen to hang?"
"Come back and check out my ..." (something interesting at your place like movie collection, guitar, dog, music, artwork mentioned earlier that evening)
"Lets grab a drink at mine?"
"Come back to chill"
Or just say nothing and assume she is coming back with you. Be confident and relaxed and assume the sale.

Edit- Just saw the flake.

[mardan]

Either make sure she drinks a few and kino kino kino, or you must go somewhere else after the cc for kino.
If she's had fun laughing AT other people's jokes, not WITH you, and at your jokes, she might bail out.

[Beyond Borders]

(07-21-2015 03:03 PM)arcterex Wrote:  

Thanks to you all, I got the balls to talk to girls when I'm out. I met an account rep in the area for a few weeks. We're meeting up tonight for a comedy show, then I place to take her back to my place.

So, I got approaching but now I know fuck all what to do. I think my game should be reasonable at the comedy club; I've been there before, I know the bartender. Logistics are good- my place is right across the street.

After the club: what's the best way to suggest she come back to my place? (I was thinking - let's go over to my place for a nightcap)

Once I get her back, WTF should I do? (for background, she's in her 30s, a professional, big tits)

Thank from a Newb!

First....a comedy show is a real bad idea on a first date unless you're confident and already have game. Too much can go wrong. If you're at least a people person, you might be alright. EDIT: I saw she cancelled.

Second, read this (mentioned by another poster). Again and again.

http://www.rooshvforum.network/thread-8681.html

[robreke]

Hide rubbers within easy reach in all potential bang locations.

[Fitnesspm]

To get her back to your place you need something interesting. "Have you seen the new...." For me, it was Netflix (it just came to Australia) but it's now Plex. She will say "no I haven't" so you grab her hand and head straight back to your place.

Beforehand... while i'm out with her and move from the first location to the second, I ALWAYS grab her hand (first contact). If she pulls back, work on give and go (show attention/contact then go cold). I might even start talking to other women that are near me to show i'm a friendly person but also it get her jealous and build attraction. Once my attention is back on her, I start again with contact where she usually response allot better.

At the second location (bar), I will try to find somewhere to sit down next to each other so we can keep touching each other. I usually rub my hand lightly up and down her legs and arms a little (gets a woman so hot). From this point I make a move and kiss her. If she shuts you down, go back a couple steps and repeat "give and go."

Once you have the kiss completed, suggest something back at your place that is interesting (see first paragraph). I usually just put some music on and go for the kill on my couch then move her to my bedroom. If she isn't open for that, just repeat "second location." Look deep into her eyes and touch her body slowly. I never get around to putting Netflix or Plex on but in this case do so (put a movie on so you can turn the lights down more or even off). If you want to go for the kill again, tickle her and just fall on top of her while you are tickling her. If everything works out well, you will be unable to remember the first 10-15 minutes of the movie.

On this date bro, cause you don't know how to close, look at her as a "practise girl." You haven't learn the art of bedding a women yet so this way you won't feel bad if you fail your practise. From her background, she will be up for cock (professional women always are cause they are so lonely in their single apartments. they are all hoes).