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07-20-2015, 08:41 AM
Long storey short. Ex LTR girlfriend stole my personal journal. She gave clear intentions of her malicious intent to disclose my personal journal to however.
Unfortunately children born by me is involved, so disclosing the information could well affect those children and their families. Apart from my discomfort.
Do anyone please have a con-disclosure agreement for relationships to protect the information contained therein?
She most likely also took photos of the pages.
Any help would be much appreciated. I got a way to make her sign it and hand back the journal. But first would like the agreement signed and sorted.
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07-20-2015, 11:11 AM
Serious advice here.
If it means as much to you and the consequences of its revelation are of the magnitude you insinuate then:
Go and see a lawyer. Pronto.
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07-20-2015, 11:51 AM
Go see a lawyer as soon as possible in your jurisdiction.
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07-20-2015, 12:26 PM
Some relevant questions that come to mind:
Do you have a police report documenting the initial theft?
Let's say after you get the journal back, and she reveals the information (perhaps anonymously) despite promising not to, would you be able to make a credible denial e.g. "That's not my journal, not my handwriting, looks photoshopped, etc"
How damaging really is the information? You are concerned about some sort of negative assessment of you, but if you're a stand-up person in other ways you can argue, "Hey I made a mistake a long time ago and I've more than made up for it since" or something along those lines.
Can you put the truth out first and preempt her cuntish behavior? People will give you some sympathy because you're being hassled by a lunatic.
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07-25-2015, 02:07 AM
Yes, report the theft and see a lawyer asap. Not sure you can legally stop revelation of embarrassing personal details...but material injurious to children might have more merit.