Hey guys,
So I met this girl at a birthday party a while ago, chatted with her on facebook, got her number and she says she's down to meet up for drinks. The thing is I'm concentrating on working now and I haven't been on a first date in over a year and a half since I've had a girlfriend.
So normally in this situation I'd try super hard to game this girl and get her in bed. However I really don't want too much of a conscious effort to do everything perfect to get the lay. I rather just go for it and see what comes out of it, not really playing many games or whatever.
Is this ok? Or am I just being lazy? I think a plus to this is that I won't leak needy game since I'm not caring too much but at the same time I might a mistake similar to asking for the first date on a Friday or Saturday night.
What do you guys think? This is an Argentinian girl in her early 30s so that should make it easier....
So I met this girl at a birthday party a while ago, chatted with her on facebook, got her number and she says she's down to meet up for drinks. The thing is I'm concentrating on working now and I haven't been on a first date in over a year and a half since I've had a girlfriend.
So normally in this situation I'd try super hard to game this girl and get her in bed. However I really don't want too much of a conscious effort to do everything perfect to get the lay. I rather just go for it and see what comes out of it, not really playing many games or whatever.
Is this ok? Or am I just being lazy? I think a plus to this is that I won't leak needy game since I'm not caring too much but at the same time I might a mistake similar to asking for the first date on a Friday or Saturday night.
What do you guys think? This is an Argentinian girl in her early 30s so that should make it easier....