[kaotic]

Ghosting to me meant killing someone or ejecting from a party. (I always hated saying goodbye to everyone)

Ghosting/Flaking will always be constant, regardless of dating apps or in person. Women are irrational creatures, they want to avoid drama yet crave it, they say they're interested but are afraid of getting rejected. Yes they're cowards, and they call us that ? Hah !

You can only do so much to avoid flakes but it will always happen, charge it to the game.

[MMX2010]

(07-01-2015 10:00 AM)General Stalin Wrote:  

Damn I typed "dismissive avoidance" and couldn't find a damned thing.

The more specialized the search, the more restrictive it is.

If you type "avoidant" into the RVF search bar, matched to AnonymousBosch, a lot of threads will appear. Then, when you click on them, use the Find box in your web browser to highlight "avoidant".

[FireStarter]

24.2% for women sounds extremely low. So does 16.7% for men.
How many men here have not done this? You start sleeping with a chick. You know you don't want any sort of relationship with her. But she starts to get clingy. Wanting to see you more and more. She doesn't take hints that you're not going to have a relationship with her. Some girls don't even listen to direct statements.

At one stage you'd get a call or text from her and think "yes, I'm getting laid tonight".
Now when you see her name come up on your phone you're thinking, "Fuck, how do I get rid of this chick?"

At this stage you start letting her calls go to your answering machine, you ignore her texts and just fade away from her life.

I'm guilty of doing this and I'm thinking anyone on this forum who has not done this is in the minority.

[Tim in real life]

I'm actually laughing in mockery of so-called ghosts, especially when the very act of ghosting itself means they're wasting away their biological imperatives.

Women dry up like raisins.
Men age like wine.

[Simeon_Strangelight]

(07-01-2015 10:10 PM)FireStarter Wrote:  

24.2% for women sounds extremely low. So does 16.7% for men.
How many men here have not done this? You start sleeping with a chick. You know you don't want any sort of relationship with her. But she starts to get clingy. Wanting to see you more and more. She doesn't take hints that you're not going to have a relationship with her. Some girls don't even listen to direct statements.

16.7% sounds accurate for men - especially young men - those are the Alphas and the better looking/ more savvy Betas.

24.2% - just like with notch counts, you have to double it at least. 50-70% of young women look like a correct number.

If you discount the fatties, then close to 90% of non-fat uglies have probably done it.

[Dr. Howard]

(07-02-2015 02:43 AM)Zelcorpion Wrote:  

(07-01-2015 10:10 PM)FireStarter Wrote:  

24.2% for women sounds extremely low. So does 16.7% for men.
How many men here have not done this? You start sleeping with a chick. You know you don't want any sort of relationship with her. But she starts to get clingy. Wanting to see you more and more. She doesn't take hints that you're not going to have a relationship with her. Some girls don't even listen to direct statements.

16.7% sounds accurate for men - especially young men - those are the Alphas and the better looking/ more savvy Betas.

24.2% - just like with notch counts, you have to double it at least. 50-70% of young women look like a correct number.

If you discount the fatties, then close to 90% of non-fat uglies have probably done it.

I agree completely. A buddy of mine had two contrasting examples the other day, I was chuckling at how textbook flake and non-flake they were.

Girl #1 looked good in her pictures, but turned out to be a master SIF. My buddy was like "its a shame, she's got a really pretty face...like she could have been a model, but now only a plus size model"...this girl made sure she showed up for the date, despite puking her guts out with illness.

Girl #2 looked about 22, hot with her big fake tits hanging out in her online pictures. She was entitled "where are you taking me for drinks?" and of course flaked because the date was liked up 5 days in advance. I was like "dude, sluts like that are only reliable about 2-4 hours out like at 6pm you have to text them "Going out for drinks, meet me at X bar at Y time" for them to show up at 10pm.

[churros]

Got ghosted by a girl I took out the other night. Things went great, but I only got as far as the make-out, then took her home. Objectively, I did nothing wrong, as far as I can tell. This happen to you guys often?

[kaotic]

(08-18-2016 05:53 PM)churros Wrote:  

Got ghosted by a girl I took out the other night. Things went great, but I only got as far as the make-out, then took her home. Objectively, I did nothing wrong, as far as I can tell. This happen to you guys often?

So many things could've gone wrong on your date, or maybe the date was perfect but she's irrational and ghosted.

You have to give us a lot of details about her and how the date went before we can make judgement.

[robreke]

(06-30-2015 10:49 PM)Vitriol Wrote:  

Ms. Eberstadt wrote in an email from Germany....."I was not emotionally available."

Womanese for "I was not attracted to him / he didn't give me the tingles"

[churros]

(08-18-2016 06:07 PM)kaotic Wrote:  

(08-18-2016 05:53 PM)churros Wrote:  

Got ghosted by a girl I took out the other night. Things went great, but I only got as far as the make-out, then took her home. Objectively, I did nothing wrong, as far as I can tell. This happen to you guys often?

So many things could've gone wrong on your date, or maybe the date was perfect but she's irrational and ghosted.

You have to give us a lot of details about her and how the date went before we can make judgement.

Dude I put it here, because I didn't know this thread was in the EE lounge.

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