[Gmac]

One big takeaway is that if the idea of marriage doesn't scare you for a large number of reasons, you better re-think everything. This type of stuff should be mandatory reading material for young guys.

[Simeon_Strangelight]

The article created a ripple effect and a similar one was written on the popular Foxnews site:


http://www.foxnews.com/opinion/2015/05/0...marry.html

Quote:

Why men won't marry you

As recently one blogger pointed out - there is only one winner of feminism:

   

http://alphagameplan.blogspot.fr/2015/05...overy.html

Guys around here can count themselves as one of the few winners. Some of don't even like that society that much knowing the consequences, but on the other hand when you can still fuck 19 year old hotties in your 40s without financial sugar incentives, well that is still one of the perks of feminism.

We can also create stable bonds with women if we want to being able to more adequately steer the windy waters - that is why a sizable portion of the 'sphere does not even want to waste time on professing the ills of society - life is good enough living (Christian McQueen, Goldmund, G-Manifesto etc.).

And I cannot really blame them - like Vikings we sail free and take women as our spoils, losing interest in them when they become older. Personally I like a stable bond and children once in life, but I don't fret sleep if that LTR falls apart. I am happy as a Viking sailing from village-lass to village-girl.

[Akula]

^^^^I hear ya Zelcorp and think technically you are correct.

But I have to ask myself "what have we (i.e. Alphas & gamers) really won?"

The quality of western women has gone dramatically down, they are fatter, snarkier, less-respectful, lack morals, don't want a man or even children, lost their femininity and charm, yadda yadda yadda. Big picture that sucks for me really, even if it forced me to finally figure out how to get laid more and can do more of it.

Part of the reason I'm out of the US and in EE is just to deal with nicer, better "real" women who respect men somewhat and are more of a pleasure to be with and bang as opposed to the faux-women we have back home.

Alphas were going to always get their fair share of tang no matter what, and one could argue that the bigger supply of fit, attractive & datable ladies 30-40 years ago far outweighed the easiness of the reduced pool of bangable women (albeit with a higher slut factor) in the Anglosphere these days. (I'm thinking about that statement so don't hold me to it but I think it's largely true). Sure the one-night stands and slutty girls are more abundant than ever in the US now, but I have to ask is that really a win for the alpha dude who was getting women anyway? If anything I think it's just created more player guys who aren't true alphas (like me ) who just can use game to have a nice sex life and also pursue my other important interests. But after awhile it creates a wasteland for guys who do end up wanting to eventually have kids with a woman, even if they plan on playing around at some point.

[Simeon_Strangelight]

(05-16-2015 03:48 AM)Akula Wrote:  

..But after awhile it creates a wasteland for guys who do end up wanting to eventually have kids with a woman, even if they plan on playing around at some point.

You can do that without much difficulty. Female nature craves those bonds and you can have woman and children. I would not recommend marriage, but even that helps. For Alphas the tables have turned so far that women are willing to accept you fuck others or have threesomes so long as they are with you.

FSU countries are extreme examples of that - sure - there is a lack of men altogether, but you meet those couples in FSU and EE, where the Alpha has a wife/mother of his children and has in addition affairs or concubines. I have been told by a few Russian women living in the West, that they would accept such an arrangement when living in Russia. One said: "There are so many hot young women and so few successful Alphas - you have to let him do his thing. As long as he comes back to you it's fine."

The problem is that for the average guy it sucks more or he has to pair off with a woman who has less of a SMV than him.

Life is good - enjoy it. Humanity will survive this phase sooner or later. No need to fret about it.