Quick back story: ( a little TLDR)
This relates to this girl....but the subject matter could be used for any girl that a man may have "spooked" and is considering repair/trying to reinitiate:
A girl....9 in my book. Her body is probably over 9. Perfect athletic brunette. Well toned legs.....amazing ass.....taut stomach.....medium sized firm breasts....white girl....mid 20s. One of the hottest in my mid sized city or I'd just completely forget about her but run into her from time to time.
When I was just getting serious about game about this time last year, I would see her time to time at Starbucks while I was on my laptop.
I made eye contact with her one day and she was pleasantly taken aback. We'd see each other. I'd position myself so I was there when I thought she'd be ( perhaps she started to sense stalkerishness)....though at the beginning she would offer lingering eye contact and some smiles.
I first approached and talked to her a few weeks later when she was in line for coffee from behind. She offered a little conversation but not totally open.
See her from time to time after that and she'd offer a 'hey"
Then, I "bumped" into her again a few weeks later at starbucks. She was short and clipped in her responses when I approached. She did say 'you don't seem like you're from around here" On her way out, I asked her for her number and she said she was seeing someone. I said ' well, tell you what, I'll get it and can text you in 3 mos...if you're still with him God bless...but if not...let's grab coffee" She actually thought about it and said 'I tell you what, I se you from time to time here...if something changes I can let you know.' ( I should have accepted this, but because I was still too pushy and rough around the edges, I said(lamely) 'well,we could just be friends' ....the whole time she was like walking out but I kept throwing out these offers ( I was still a little pushy and new at game ) She looks at me like " you're a persistent mug!" Then kind of just walked off exasperated.
A few mos later I run into her at a grocery but ignore her. I catch her out of the corner of my eye kind of peeping around the corner to confirm it was indeed me. She was there with her mom. As I was checking out....she walks away from her register and walks past but avoids eye contact.
Saw her today in line at a health food store. I get the sense when she sees me, she tenses up....like she's expecting me to approach....since I was so persistent the first time. I never do because of her body language. I mean Damn.... I know I was persistent but I didn't think I freaked her out this bad...unless I'm reading it wrong. I've seen her a couple times with a totally androgymous beta , wimpy looking hipster dude who's about her height ( I'm pretty tall ) Not saying the guy isn't a some kind of player ( probably not )....and not tooting my own horn....but I'm certainly more attractive than him. I perceive it as a comfort situation with her.
Bottom line is she's uber hot....at one time had some attraction for me...and I apparently blew it, when I was in the beginnings of game and not as "nuanced" as I am now.
She seems to be "spooked" by me. I can see her go into eye contact avoid mode when she sense me in the same coffee shop, etc. You'd think I raped her mother and killed her family.
I've thought of approaching and being real light about it. Maybe if she would be hesitant /avoidant to talk ( which I sense she would be ) to be empathetic and offer something like "hey, I didn't mean to be offputting when we first spoke. I know I can come across a little strong sometimes, etc." It's either that or just go on totally ignoring her like I have been. It's just , she is literally one of the hottest girls I've ever seen, especially in my area, and I was wondering if one more try was worth it.
I am banging other girls....but this girls quality is really high. Higher than most around here. And unlike other girls in their mid 20s in my area....she's still unmarried.
Can a recovery be made if a girl has been or is CURRENTLY "spooked" of you? If so....what are methods?
This relates to this girl....but the subject matter could be used for any girl that a man may have "spooked" and is considering repair/trying to reinitiate:
A girl....9 in my book. Her body is probably over 9. Perfect athletic brunette. Well toned legs.....amazing ass.....taut stomach.....medium sized firm breasts....white girl....mid 20s. One of the hottest in my mid sized city or I'd just completely forget about her but run into her from time to time.
When I was just getting serious about game about this time last year, I would see her time to time at Starbucks while I was on my laptop.
I made eye contact with her one day and she was pleasantly taken aback. We'd see each other. I'd position myself so I was there when I thought she'd be ( perhaps she started to sense stalkerishness)....though at the beginning she would offer lingering eye contact and some smiles.
I first approached and talked to her a few weeks later when she was in line for coffee from behind. She offered a little conversation but not totally open.
See her from time to time after that and she'd offer a 'hey"
Then, I "bumped" into her again a few weeks later at starbucks. She was short and clipped in her responses when I approached. She did say 'you don't seem like you're from around here" On her way out, I asked her for her number and she said she was seeing someone. I said ' well, tell you what, I'll get it and can text you in 3 mos...if you're still with him God bless...but if not...let's grab coffee" She actually thought about it and said 'I tell you what, I se you from time to time here...if something changes I can let you know.' ( I should have accepted this, but because I was still too pushy and rough around the edges, I said(lamely) 'well,we could just be friends' ....the whole time she was like walking out but I kept throwing out these offers ( I was still a little pushy and new at game ) She looks at me like " you're a persistent mug!" Then kind of just walked off exasperated.
A few mos later I run into her at a grocery but ignore her. I catch her out of the corner of my eye kind of peeping around the corner to confirm it was indeed me. She was there with her mom. As I was checking out....she walks away from her register and walks past but avoids eye contact.
Saw her today in line at a health food store. I get the sense when she sees me, she tenses up....like she's expecting me to approach....since I was so persistent the first time. I never do because of her body language. I mean Damn.... I know I was persistent but I didn't think I freaked her out this bad...unless I'm reading it wrong. I've seen her a couple times with a totally androgymous beta , wimpy looking hipster dude who's about her height ( I'm pretty tall ) Not saying the guy isn't a some kind of player ( probably not )....and not tooting my own horn....but I'm certainly more attractive than him. I perceive it as a comfort situation with her.
Bottom line is she's uber hot....at one time had some attraction for me...and I apparently blew it, when I was in the beginnings of game and not as "nuanced" as I am now.
She seems to be "spooked" by me. I can see her go into eye contact avoid mode when she sense me in the same coffee shop, etc. You'd think I raped her mother and killed her family.
I've thought of approaching and being real light about it. Maybe if she would be hesitant /avoidant to talk ( which I sense she would be ) to be empathetic and offer something like "hey, I didn't mean to be offputting when we first spoke. I know I can come across a little strong sometimes, etc." It's either that or just go on totally ignoring her like I have been. It's just , she is literally one of the hottest girls I've ever seen, especially in my area, and I was wondering if one more try was worth it.
I am banging other girls....but this girls quality is really high. Higher than most around here. And unlike other girls in their mid 20s in my area....she's still unmarried.
Can a recovery be made if a girl has been or is CURRENTLY "spooked" of you? If so....what are methods?
- One planet orbiting a star. Billions of stars in the galaxy. Billions of galaxies in the universe. Approach.
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