Well, while fort the most part I tend to agree with what seems to be the general consensus of my fellow forumites regarding this article, there is ONE issue it raised that actually kinda struck close to home to me; the whole "men's feelings" issue.
I've been accused of being too sentimental for a guy in the past, yet I almost never talk about my feelings. But that's not because of some unwritten rule of the guy code of conduct, it's because, well... when I tried to speak about my feelings in the past, nobody really cared. I'm serious, nobody gave the slightest bit of a damn how I felt, ever. Not my parents, not my friends, not even the various shrinks my mother kept shuffling me through in the hopes they'd talk my problems away. These people were paid to listen to me, yet all they did was give me the standard "man up" response, albeit in a more delicate way than most other people.
The reason men don't talk about their feelings is that they know that if they do, they will, at best, be ignored, and at worst, mocked for it. And yes, I agree it's pretty unreasonable for society to expect men to carry themselves as cold, emotionless automatons on their day-to-day life, but that's what it expects nonetheless.
I've been accused of being too sentimental for a guy in the past, yet I almost never talk about my feelings. But that's not because of some unwritten rule of the guy code of conduct, it's because, well... when I tried to speak about my feelings in the past, nobody really cared. I'm serious, nobody gave the slightest bit of a damn how I felt, ever. Not my parents, not my friends, not even the various shrinks my mother kept shuffling me through in the hopes they'd talk my problems away. These people were paid to listen to me, yet all they did was give me the standard "man up" response, albeit in a more delicate way than most other people.
The reason men don't talk about their feelings is that they know that if they do, they will, at best, be ignored, and at worst, mocked for it. And yes, I agree it's pretty unreasonable for society to expect men to carry themselves as cold, emotionless automatons on their day-to-day life, but that's what it expects nonetheless.