I did a search on threads around this theme, but couldn't find anything with a more thorough discussion, so I thought about bringing it up with an account of what´s going on with me right now.
A while ago, at these weekly college parties I attend, I made out with this cute, 19 year old curly haired-redhead (real redheads are quite rare here in Brazil, giving her an exotic aura). I knew she was a virgin because I overheard her talking to this guy (beta) who was hitting on her about how she would only have sex with "someone special", a steady boyfriend, and that she was still a virgin, although many have tried to take her virginity.
I read that as a turnoff, but later on we did hook up and exchanged phone numbers, but I only did so because I wanted to make this other girl at the venue I was "dating" jealous. Nevertheless, some weeks later, redhead started looking for me, demonstrating interest and overall hitting on me. Meanwhile, I started to go out with the girl I was trying to make feel jealous, who turned out to be a major headache, being difficult and complicated, barely making out with me, while redhead virgin seemed more open.
Well, obviously, my intent is to bang BOTH, even though they sort of share the same social circle, even if somewhat distant.
Resuming: how should I proceed gaming and banging redhead virgin, while still being open to other girls, not closeting myself into a relationship?
A while ago, at these weekly college parties I attend, I made out with this cute, 19 year old curly haired-redhead (real redheads are quite rare here in Brazil, giving her an exotic aura). I knew she was a virgin because I overheard her talking to this guy (beta) who was hitting on her about how she would only have sex with "someone special", a steady boyfriend, and that she was still a virgin, although many have tried to take her virginity.
I read that as a turnoff, but later on we did hook up and exchanged phone numbers, but I only did so because I wanted to make this other girl at the venue I was "dating" jealous. Nevertheless, some weeks later, redhead started looking for me, demonstrating interest and overall hitting on me. Meanwhile, I started to go out with the girl I was trying to make feel jealous, who turned out to be a major headache, being difficult and complicated, barely making out with me, while redhead virgin seemed more open.
Well, obviously, my intent is to bang BOTH, even though they sort of share the same social circle, even if somewhat distant.
Resuming: how should I proceed gaming and banging redhead virgin, while still being open to other girls, not closeting myself into a relationship?