[dontuan]

Hey guys,

So I've been using some game techniques on dates and it works pretty great if you want to fast track the personal and sexual part of seduction (which is the good part anyway). It's more efficient because its structured and playing by the rules bonds you closer with her. I wanted to know what other tricks some of you guys have up their sleve. Here are the ones I know:

- The Secrets Game

It's like truth or dare and works like gangbusters to get both of you to break down your walls. Here are the Rules:

#1 Tell the truth!
#2 Don't repeat a question
#3 The girl is the one who starts the game

* You can assume things from her questions, like if she is naughty or not.

- The Cube (Classic, and everyone knows this one)

- Fuck, Marry, Kill

You both take turns picking out people in a crowd in which you would fuck, marry or kill. It can be pretty funny at times and tells you a bit about the other person.

Anyone have any good games they have used effectively with girls? Lets do this!

[Beau]

I like the femme fatale test at the Chateau where you ask the girl which female archetype she thinks she is. The four being the golddigger, the waif, the ingenue, and the Amazon.

It's simple and unique and gives you a chance to DHV while eliciting a DHV from her. Also, you can have a lot of fun with their responses and reasoning (or lack thereof).

[RockHard]

Your link is fucked up: http://heartiste.wordpress.com/2014/10/1...e-routine/

Damn, that Chateau post is good. Along with the original stories (linked in the post). Cube was always too long and required too much bullshit for me to pull off. Fuck, marry, kill... I don't know. Never struck it with me. Cold reading her femme fatale archetype? Basically cold reading what she's like in the sack without actually talking about sex. That's good stuff.

And the best part is that it's true.

[Fortis]

Alcohol makes a girl get to know your penis better.

[CleanSlate]

I'm interested in this thread... I need something to give my dates a little more zing! Spice things up a bit. I'll try the secrets game, and the femme fatale archetypes thingy. I don't know about the fuck marry kill one, doesn't feel right.

[WanderingSoul]

Just the tip.

[Vincent Chase]

I've used fuck, marry, kill (or shag, marry, avoid in the UK) to good effect. After a round of drinks it does work to loosen her up a little bit and you're setting the frame of you and her are in your own little conspiracy together.

[Fortis]

I feel like playing "games" like that just comes across weird. You have to have very high energy to make it seem congruent. Why not just work on asking good questions that really get her to open up and invest in you?

[game_ethic]

The Strawberry Game. From Bang:

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To introduce the game, say, “Hey there is this fun game I know that is going to tell me things about you.” She’ll be curious. Then go ahead and start: “Okay imagine yourself in a field. It’s a Spring day and you are in a cute Spring outfit, and you are walking through on this really nice day. Birds are circling around you and it just feels comfortable. Off in the distance you see a strawberry field, a sea of green and red, and since you like strawberries, you start walking up to this field. You walk for what seems like a long time and finally you get to the field. How high is this fence around the strawberry field?” If she isn’t sure say, “How high is it in your mind- there doesn’t have to be a fence if you don’t see one.” Continue: “So you go inside this strawberry field and walk down the rows of strawberries. You notice they are big, juicy, and ripe. I mean, these are the best strawberries you’ve ever seen in your life. How many do you pick and eat right there?” The last question: “Alright so you ate the strawberries and are very satisfied. You are walking out of the strawberry field but then the farmer stops you. He accuses you of eating his strawberries without asking. What do you say to him?”

The strawberry game reveals her views on sex because Strawberries represent pleasure and passion to women. There’s a good chance she will figure that out before you are done. The height of her fence represents her barrier to something pleasurable- in other words, her vagina. An answer you want to hear is, “I don’t see a fence.” I don’t believe in Astrology or psychic power but if a girl tells you her fence is higher than four feet (waist high) she has sexual issues that you may have already identified before administering the the test. You are going to finesse the first question analysis because if her fence is low you don’t want to imply that she is a slut. Say, “The height of your fence represents your barrier to intimacy. A lower fence means you do not delay intimacy with a guy you really like, while a higher fence means you consciously postpone intimacy, for whatever reason- maybe you were hurt many times.” Intimacy here means sex, but let her think it means whatever she wants it to mean.

The second question represents her sexual appetite or her desire for sexual variety. Each strawberry is a single sex act with a man. If she gives an answer like, “As many as I can eat,” then she is impulsive girl who had her share of good times with men. Say, “The number of strawberries represents your sexual appetite. A low number means you are generally satisfied with men while a high number means yo are currently satisfied and your sex life is not what you imagined it would be.” Since a majority of girls give a high number, I like telling her the bad news that she is not sexually satisfied because she will be staring at me- the solution.

Tell her the third answer represents what she says after sex. Most girls say “I’m sorry,” or “Thank you, they were delicious.”

I've personally used it before and it has worked wonders.

[godofwar]

two truths and a lie.

have her go first. then tell all lies on your turn - and slowly let her figure it out.

[Pride male]

Asking who she would save from drowning if she met two people drowning. For example some famous actor and the Dalai Lama.

[MrXY]

I like Marry, Fuck, Kill but OP you're playing it wrong- you don't let the girl choose the three guys, you choose them for her. The whole idea is to force her to make decisions so you can see what she's really like. I once found out a girl was bi when I threw a hot girl in the mix and she picked her to fuck. MFK is for later in the date or a second date when she's had a few drinks, don't pull it out too early.

[dontuan]

(03-15-2015 12:42 PM)Fortis Wrote:  

I feel like playing "games" like that just comes across weird. You have to have very high energy to make it seem congruent. Why not just work on asking good questions that really get her to open up and invest in you?

I have used some of these games to good effect to lubricate the interaction. The thing is to not be too deliberate about the games. You should just try and connect with her normally and if she's not really opening up or the things hit a lull and energy dips, proposing games to play can liven things up.

The thing about games is that it imposes a structure that guides you and her toward opening up and learning deeper things about her and its fun. I've done it many times. Also, girls like playing games. Just have them in your pocket for emergencies or whenever you need it is what I suggest.

[Irish]

I'm not too big a fan of over-elaborate games such as the cube etc as it just seems a little strange that I would be coming out with that sort of chat. But it's more the image I portray as well dressed, career type mid30s guy. A bit like how back in the day I would see newbies who were young good looking law or finance career types incongruently running around with a deck of cards on a night out trying to copy Mystery.

Instead I just use leading questions such as:

"if you could be anywhere in the world right now, where would you want to be and why" - good one for doing future projections together plus if you're well travelled it's a great excuse to DHV about places you have been.

"when was the last time you had sex?" - bit risky but if it's going well it's great to quickly turn things sexual and escalate verbally (useful if you are unable to escalate physically. Say for example you end up to be sitting opposite eachother at a table)

"apart from me, who do you consider to be the most attractive man in the room and why?" - as well as a playful tease, good to get an insight into what she's looking for in a guy. Then you can segue into asking "ok what guy would you date and which would you fuck". Similar to fuck, marry, kill but I find sounds less like a schoolground game. Then based on her answers I use this to demonstrate my understanding of the female mind and her dualistic mating strategy. ie she sees the 'fuck' dude as the one that gives her tingles for the alpha seed, while the 'date' dude is more a logical choice but sees as the provider.

[ShooterMikgavin]

Hide the salami

[dontuan]

(03-17-2015 03:54 AM)Irish Wrote:  

I'm not too big a fan of over-elaborate games such as the cube etc as it just seems a little strange that I would be coming out with that sort of chat. But it's more the image I portray as well dressed, career type mid30s guy. A bit like how back in the day I would see newbies who were young good looking law or finance career types incongruently running around with a deck of cards on a night out trying to copy Mystery.

Instead I just use leading questions such as:

"if you could be anywhere in the world right now, where would you want to be and why" - good one for doing future projections together plus if you're well travelled it's a great excuse to DHV about places you have been.

"when was the last time you had sex?" - bit risky but if it's going well it's great to quickly turn things sexual and escalate verbally (useful if you are unable to escalate physically. Say for example you end up to be sitting opposite eachother at a table)

"apart from me, who do you consider to be the most attractive man in the room and why?" - as well as a playful tease, good to get an insight into what she's looking for in a guy. Then you can segue into asking "ok what guy would you date and which would you fuck". Similar to fuck, marry, kill but I find sounds less like a schoolground game. Then based on her answers I use this to demonstrate my understanding of the female mind and her dualistic mating strategy. ie she sees the 'fuck' dude as the one that gives her tingles for the alpha seed, while the 'date' dude is more a logical choice but sees as the provider.

Leading questions is pretty good one. The 36 questions to fall in love study resurfaced last month and was popular. I don't like all the questions so I would pick a few that I think are the best and modify and ask it in a way I find most interesting.

http://36questionsinlove.com/

For example, instead of "If you could change anything about the way you were raised, what would it be?" I would ask if you can change any trait about yourself what would it be?

Anyone else have some good questions that work well on a date?

[General Mayhem]

I break most of the traditional rules of game when getting to know a girl.

I never set out to get to know a girl but somehow they end up telling me anyway. It's been like that my entire life. Most of the time the girl is the one asking me questions and putting the majority of the effort into the conversation.

Here's the closest thing to a "game" I have ever played. After I watched the entire Californication series for the second or third time I decided to do an experiment with Hank Moody game.

I went over to this chick's house to hang out while she decorated christmas cookies one night.

I picked a girl that I had been fucking and made her my Karen and proceeded to tell the other chick the story of the entire relationship. This girl started sticking in her observations and telling me about her life and her family and shit, way more than I ever wanted to know about her. I don't remember asking her a single question.

Like Hank, a few hours later I was fucking the shit out of her despite having just told her this long ass story about my relationship with another girl.

Maybe there was something to that. Maybe she just wanted to fuck me. I don't know.

[baristabanger]

I second the strawberry game, used it plenty of times on low key coffee dates, but I've added my own little playful twist to it. Before going through the bit, I tell the girl to hold my hand. If she objects, I say while looking her dead in the eye, "It's all part of the show" or something like that. Go through the strawberry bit, then when I'm done I say, "So, want to know what all this means?" Of course she bites, but then I just say, "It's all bullshit, just wanted to hold your hand." I'll go into the details of the game afterwards, but it usually gets a nice reaction.

[dontuan]

Hey guys, there's one more that I stumbled upon that happens to be pretty cool. In chinese culture, they have the concept of face reading. Where certain facial features denote certain personality traits. It's kind of like palm reading but sexier because you're getting how someone looks. You can tell her positive traits about her face that can bring more depth to getting to know one another. Here's a brief guide:

http://www.askmen.com/money/how_to_150/159_how_to.html

[BlurredSevens]

Eliciting values is gold.

It's very powerful, use it wisely: