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Girl wants to bring friend on first SA date...
#1

Girl wants to bring friend on first SA date...

I met a girl who lives 3 hours north from Seeking arrangement. Good looking 22 year old.

She's driving through my town tomorrow with her friend on the way to spring break and wants to meet.

It will be a daytime...afternoon date so I was thinking coffee.

She texted "I'll be with my friend is it okay if she comes?"

WTF?

I mean, I was hoping we could kind of discuss clandestinely the terms of our arrangement or at least have a good first date.

How would yall handle it?

How do I imply I'd rather just do this date with her without looking like a "dicK" as both of these girls aren't from here and they'll be on the road together?

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#2

Girl wants to bring friend on first SA date...

Perhaps being as sufficiently red pill friend to distract/entice the friend.
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#3

Girl wants to bring friend on first SA date...

I see a few options:

1. Fuck that and go radio silent. (You don't have much invested and nothing to lose)
2. Tell her that's not cool and explain why. (She might realize it's not cool OR you'll lose her)
3. Bring a solid wingman and game accordingly. (This might be the best option that works in your favor)
4. Threesome. (Go out with both girls and drink, if you have strong frame/game, bang both, it IS spring break afterall and it IS from Seeking Arrangement)
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#4

Girl wants to bring friend on first SA date...

No man. Treat it like any other shit test... these girls try to friendzone you out of the gate, you'll never get what you want from her if you let her do this. Just tell her that you want to hang out with her alone and get to know her, she can drop off her friend at some coffee shop or whatever. If she says no, then tell her that's fine and to let you know when she is available to meet solo and hang out.

Just say something like:

XXX, I'm not looking for a threesome at this point though I reserve the right to change my mind later. [Image: tongue.gif] If you can drop off your friend somewhere for a while, I'd love to hang out and get to know you; if not, have a great trip and shoot me a message when you're around next time.

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#5

Girl wants to bring friend on first SA date...

Text her and ask for pic of friend and if she and friend would be interested in an ongoing threesome arrangement with you providing benefits to both.

If she says no, tell her you will only meet with her because you wish to be discreet.

If she says yes, try to get them to a hotel room for a couple of hours.

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#6

Girl wants to bring friend on first SA date...

3 hours? No. The unspoken premise of the site is cash for pussy. Pussy better deliver itself.

Girls should be chasing you through SA. You're doing them a favor.

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#7

Girl wants to bring friend on first SA date...

Seeking arrangement?
2 chicks?
Traveling?

Out of my depth here.

WIA
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#8

Girl wants to bring friend on first SA date...

I love the bravado of asking for a threesome per kaotic and The Lizard, but I took the more pragmatic Lizard/ Mr. XY blend telling her I wanted to meet with just her and be discreet. She agreed.

On another note.....two other lizards I've hit up from SA also want to meet for lunch tomorrow as THEY ARE ON Their way to Spring Break ALSO.....yes, my town is kind of a conduit for the coastal areal

I agreed with one earlier and she said "I'll be there...I usually do a first date allowance of 200 does that work for you?"

No...that doesn't work for me. I'm thinking of saying 'look I'll buy you lunch and explain what I'm looking for'....which is someone to go out with, bang and treat a little nicer lifestyle from time to time as my payroll can take care of that no problemo. not to mention she's 19 and quite hot. sorority girl type.

But, that may be a wasted cause to even try to explain to a girl with this mindset as this is basically an escort mindset....

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Girl wants to bring friend on first SA date...

Quote: (03-06-2015 07:39 PM)robreke Wrote:  

I love the bravado of asking for a threesome per kaotic and The Lizard, but I took the more pragmatic Lizard/ Mr. XY blend telling her I wanted to meet with just her and be discreet. She agreed.

On another note.....two other lizards I've hit up from SA also want to meet for lunch tomorrow as THEY ARE ON Their way to Spring Break ALSO.....yes, my town is kind of a conduit for the coastal areal

I agreed with one earlier and she said "I'll be there...I usually do a first date allowance of 200 does that work for you?"

No...that doesn't work for me. I'm thinking of saying 'look I'll buy you lunch and explain what I'm looking for'....which is someone to go out with, bang and treat a little nicer lifestyle from time to time as my payroll can take care of that no problemo. not to mention she's 19 and quite hot. sorority girl type.

But, that may be a wasted cause to even try to explain to a girl with this mindset as this is basically an escort mindset....

Someone mentioned in the SA thread "do people buy cars without trying them first?" or something of the likes.

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#10

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Quote: (03-06-2015 07:39 PM)robreke Wrote:  

I love the bravado of asking for a threesome per kaotic and The Lizard, but I took the more pragmatic Lizard/ Mr. XY blend telling her I wanted to meet with just her and be discreet. She agreed.

On another note.....two other lizards I've hit up from SA also want to meet for lunch tomorrow as THEY ARE ON Their way to Spring Break ALSO.....yes, my town is kind of a conduit for the coastal areal

I agreed with one earlier and she said "I'll be there...I usually do a first date allowance of 200 does that work for you?"

No...that doesn't work for me. I'm thinking of saying 'look I'll buy you lunch and explain what I'm looking for'....which is someone to go out with, bang and treat a little nicer lifestyle from time to time as my payroll can take care of that no problemo. not to mention she's 19 and quite hot. sorority girl type.

But, that may be a wasted cause to even try to explain to a girl with this mindset as this is basically an escort mindset....

The fact that you are getting these issues suggests to me that you aren't quite getting it right in your communication from the start.

I think you must be coming across as betabux here instead of rich-fun-alpha.

If SA girls aren't chasing YOU, something is wrong with your SA game.

Frankly, the fact that you are taking these girls out for lunch at all is a mistake in my experience; you should be meeting them for drinks only, just like any other girl. Sure, in a nice place or whatever, but still only drinks.

If you're too keen to invest resources from the off, it's giving off the wrong vibe.

Are you planning on meeting two girls at the same time?
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Girl wants to bring friend on first SA date...

Quote: (03-06-2015 08:37 PM)CrashBangWallop Wrote:  

Quote: (03-06-2015 07:39 PM)robreke Wrote:  

I love the bravado of asking for a threesome per kaotic and The Lizard, but I took the more pragmatic Lizard/ Mr. XY blend telling her I wanted to meet with just her and be discreet. She agreed.

On another note.....two other lizards I've hit up from SA also want to meet for lunch tomorrow as THEY ARE ON Their way to Spring Break ALSO.....yes, my town is kind of a conduit for the coastal areal

I agreed with one earlier and she said "I'll be there...I usually do a first date allowance of 200 does that work for you?"

No...that doesn't work for me. I'm thinking of saying 'look I'll buy you lunch and explain what I'm looking for'....which is someone to go out with, bang and treat a little nicer lifestyle from time to time as my payroll can take care of that no problemo. not to mention she's 19 and quite hot. sorority girl type.

But, that may be a wasted cause to even try to explain to a girl with this mindset as this is basically an escort mindset....

The fact that you are getting these issues suggests to me that you aren't quite getting it right in your communication from the start.

I think you must be coming across as betabux here instead of rich-fun-alpha.

If SA girls aren't chasing YOU, something is wrong with your SA game.

Frankly, the fact that you are taking these girls out for lunch at all is a mistake in my experience; you should be meeting them for drinks only, just like any other girl. Sure, in a nice place or whatever, but still only drinks.

If you're too keen to invest resources from the off, it's giving off the wrong vibe.

Are you planning on meeting two girls at the same time?

Actually all these girls in question ARE chasing me....if you can call it that.

I had exchanged messages with them earlier in the week. Then, today...I had two of them message me that they wanted to meet me tomorrow.

The reason all are wanting to meet tomorrow is it's now spring break at a particular state college where these 2 girls go to school ( these two don't know each other...just happen to be on SA)

One of them hinted at allowance and one hasn't mentioned it. The one who hasn't mentioned it was the girl who wanted to bring her friend.

I told her 'no' to the friend thing and she agreed. So, I'm 'forced' to do daytime meetings tomorrow as these girls are driving down to the beach for spring break and they're just passing through my town tomorrow on the way.

But, they both texted me first today saying they'd be in town tomorrow on the way to spring break and want to meet.

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Quote: (03-06-2015 07:13 PM)Parlay44 Wrote:  

3 hours? No. The unspoken premise of the site is cash for pussy. Pussy better deliver itself.

Girls should be chasing you through SA. You're doing them a favor.

I'm not driving 3 hours to see her. She's driving 3 hours to see me....on her way to spring break.

She drives through my town. It is delivering itself.

And she messaged me this morning offering to meet. It's just later she threw in the friend bit.

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#13

Girl wants to bring friend on first SA date...

Quote: (03-06-2015 08:45 PM)robreke Wrote:  

Quote: (03-06-2015 08:37 PM)CrashBangWallop Wrote:  

Quote: (03-06-2015 07:39 PM)robreke Wrote:  

I love the bravado of asking for a threesome per kaotic and The Lizard, but I took the more pragmatic Lizard/ Mr. XY blend telling her I wanted to meet with just her and be discreet. She agreed.

On another note.....two other lizards I've hit up from SA also want to meet for lunch tomorrow as THEY ARE ON Their way to Spring Break ALSO.....yes, my town is kind of a conduit for the coastal areal

I agreed with one earlier and she said "I'll be there...I usually do a first date allowance of 200 does that work for you?"

No...that doesn't work for me. I'm thinking of saying 'look I'll buy you lunch and explain what I'm looking for'....which is someone to go out with, bang and treat a little nicer lifestyle from time to time as my payroll can take care of that no problemo. not to mention she's 19 and quite hot. sorority girl type.

But, that may be a wasted cause to even try to explain to a girl with this mindset as this is basically an escort mindset....

The fact that you are getting these issues suggests to me that you aren't quite getting it right in your communication from the start.

I think you must be coming across as betabux here instead of rich-fun-alpha.

If SA girls aren't chasing YOU, something is wrong with your SA game.

Frankly, the fact that you are taking these girls out for lunch at all is a mistake in my experience; you should be meeting them for drinks only, just like any other girl. Sure, in a nice place or whatever, but still only drinks.

If you're too keen to invest resources from the off, it's giving off the wrong vibe.

Are you planning on meeting two girls at the same time?

Actually all these girls in question ARE chasing me....if you can call it that.

I had exchanged messages with them earlier in the week. Then, today...I had two of them message me that they wanted to meet me tomorrow.

The reason all are wanting to meet tomorrow is it's now spring break at a particular state college where these 2 girls go to school ( these two don't know each other...just happen to be on SA)

One of them hinted at allowance and one hasn't mentioned it. The one who hasn't mentioned it was the girl who wanted to bring her friend.

I told her 'no' to the friend thing and she agreed. So, I'm 'forced' to do daytime meetings tomorrow as these girls are driving down to the beach for spring break and they're just passing through my town tomorrow on the way.

But, they both texted me first today saying they'd be in town tomorrow on the way to spring break and want to meet.

Well, all I would be thinking in this situation is:

How can I bang one of them? Today/tomorrow.

Are the logistics possible?

Will she drink any alcohol if she thinks she's driving?

Does she absolutely have to be anywhere that evening?

I'd be screening for all these answers before committing to anything.

Don't forget, in their eyes, you are a high value man. Flaking on them will actually increase your value in their eyes. So if the logistics aren't down, cancel.

As for allowance girl, I'd have not replied for a while then just texted her "lol" if we already had enough attraction built (she'd know she was just doing a hail mary shit test) or something along the lines of "be a good girl tomorrow and we will talk over drinks" if not, trying to regain frame of dominance.

Just be careful that you aren't just being lined up as a pocket money stop on the way to spring break.
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Quote: (03-06-2015 08:53 PM)CrashBangWallop Wrote:  

Quote: (03-06-2015 08:45 PM)robreke Wrote:  

Quote: (03-06-2015 08:37 PM)CrashBangWallop Wrote:  

Quote: (03-06-2015 07:39 PM)robreke Wrote:  

I love the bravado of asking for a threesome per kaotic and The Lizard, but I took the more pragmatic Lizard/ Mr. XY blend telling her I wanted to meet with just her and be discreet. She agreed.

On another note.....two other lizards I've hit up from SA also want to meet for lunch tomorrow as THEY ARE ON Their way to Spring Break ALSO.....yes, my town is kind of a conduit for the coastal areal

I agreed with one earlier and she said "I'll be there...I usually do a first date allowance of 200 does that work for you?"

No...that doesn't work for me. I'm thinking of saying 'look I'll buy you lunch and explain what I'm looking for'....which is someone to go out with, bang and treat a little nicer lifestyle from time to time as my payroll can take care of that no problemo. not to mention she's 19 and quite hot. sorority girl type.

But, that may be a wasted cause to even try to explain to a girl with this mindset as this is basically an escort mindset....

The fact that you are getting these issues suggests to me that you aren't quite getting it right in your communication from the start.

I think you must be coming across as betabux here instead of rich-fun-alpha.

If SA girls aren't chasing YOU, something is wrong with your SA game.

Frankly, the fact that you are taking these girls out for lunch at all is a mistake in my experience; you should be meeting them for drinks only, just like any other girl. Sure, in a nice place or whatever, but still only drinks.

If you're too keen to invest resources from the off, it's giving off the wrong vibe.

Are you planning on meeting two girls at the same time?

Actually all these girls in question ARE chasing me....if you can call it that.

I had exchanged messages with them earlier in the week. Then, today...I had two of them message me that they wanted to meet me tomorrow.

The reason all are wanting to meet tomorrow is it's now spring break at a particular state college where these 2 girls go to school ( these two don't know each other...just happen to be on SA)

One of them hinted at allowance and one hasn't mentioned it. The one who hasn't mentioned it was the girl who wanted to bring her friend.

I told her 'no' to the friend thing and she agreed. So, I'm 'forced' to do daytime meetings tomorrow as these girls are driving down to the beach for spring break and they're just passing through my town tomorrow on the way.

But, they both texted me first today saying they'd be in town tomorrow on the way to spring break and want to meet.

Well, all I would be thinking in this situation is:

How can I bang one of them? Today/tomorrow.

Are the logistics possible?

Will she drink any alcohol if she thinks she's driving?

Does she absolutely have to be anywhere that evening?

I'd be screening for all these answers before committing to anything.

Don't forget, in their eyes, you are a high value man. Flaking on them will actually increase your value in their eyes. So if the logistics aren't down, cancel.

As for allowance girl, I'd have not replied for a while then just texted her "lol" if we already had enough attraction built (she'd know she was just doing a hail mary shit test) or something along the lines of "be a good girl tomorrow and we will talk over drinks" if not, trying to regain frame of dominance.

Just be careful that you aren't just being lined up as a pocket money stop on the way to spring break.

Solid advice.

As for the one girl who wanted to bring her friend to the date...Her friend WILL BE WITH Her....it's just that the friend is going to go shopping while I'm on the coffee date with the SA girl.

Therefore, the potential of getting a bang from a coffee date when her friend is down the strip mall way dress shopping....is highly unlikely. Also...if it matters this girl is a grade school teacher.

It seems she just wants to "meet" me on the way to spring break to determine if we would be a good match.

I was hoping I could have a good date with this girl, hopefully get the kiss....and establish comfort/attraction for an eventual dating arrangement down the line when she returns from spring break.

Are you suggesting I refuse this date since the logistics and probability for a bang are kind of low and go for the date at a later time?

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Girl wants to bring friend on first SA date...

Quote: (03-06-2015 09:03 PM)robreke Wrote:  

Quote: (03-06-2015 08:53 PM)CrashBangWallop Wrote:  

Quote: (03-06-2015 08:45 PM)robreke Wrote:  

Quote: (03-06-2015 08:37 PM)CrashBangWallop Wrote:  

Quote: (03-06-2015 07:39 PM)robreke Wrote:  

I love the bravado of asking for a threesome per kaotic and The Lizard, but I took the more pragmatic Lizard/ Mr. XY blend telling her I wanted to meet with just her and be discreet. She agreed.

On another note.....two other lizards I've hit up from SA also want to meet for lunch tomorrow as THEY ARE ON Their way to Spring Break ALSO.....yes, my town is kind of a conduit for the coastal areal

I agreed with one earlier and she said "I'll be there...I usually do a first date allowance of 200 does that work for you?"

No...that doesn't work for me. I'm thinking of saying 'look I'll buy you lunch and explain what I'm looking for'....which is someone to go out with, bang and treat a little nicer lifestyle from time to time as my payroll can take care of that no problemo. not to mention she's 19 and quite hot. sorority girl type.

But, that may be a wasted cause to even try to explain to a girl with this mindset as this is basically an escort mindset....

The fact that you are getting these issues suggests to me that you aren't quite getting it right in your communication from the start.

I think you must be coming across as betabux here instead of rich-fun-alpha.

If SA girls aren't chasing YOU, something is wrong with your SA game.

Frankly, the fact that you are taking these girls out for lunch at all is a mistake in my experience; you should be meeting them for drinks only, just like any other girl. Sure, in a nice place or whatever, but still only drinks.

If you're too keen to invest resources from the off, it's giving off the wrong vibe.

Are you planning on meeting two girls at the same time?

Actually all these girls in question ARE chasing me....if you can call it that.

I had exchanged messages with them earlier in the week. Then, today...I had two of them message me that they wanted to meet me tomorrow.

The reason all are wanting to meet tomorrow is it's now spring break at a particular state college where these 2 girls go to school ( these two don't know each other...just happen to be on SA)

One of them hinted at allowance and one hasn't mentioned it. The one who hasn't mentioned it was the girl who wanted to bring her friend.

I told her 'no' to the friend thing and she agreed. So, I'm 'forced' to do daytime meetings tomorrow as these girls are driving down to the beach for spring break and they're just passing through my town tomorrow on the way.

But, they both texted me first today saying they'd be in town tomorrow on the way to spring break and want to meet.

Well, all I would be thinking in this situation is:

How can I bang one of them? Today/tomorrow.

Are the logistics possible?

Will she drink any alcohol if she thinks she's driving?

Does she absolutely have to be anywhere that evening?

I'd be screening for all these answers before committing to anything.

Don't forget, in their eyes, you are a high value man. Flaking on them will actually increase your value in their eyes. So if the logistics aren't down, cancel.

As for allowance girl, I'd have not replied for a while then just texted her "lol" if we already had enough attraction built (she'd know she was just doing a hail mary shit test) or something along the lines of "be a good girl tomorrow and we will talk over drinks" if not, trying to regain frame of dominance.

Just be careful that you aren't just being lined up as a pocket money stop on the way to spring break.

Solid advice.

As for the one girl who wanted to bring her friend to the date...Her friend WILL BE WITH Her....it's just that the friend is going to go shopping while I'm on the coffee date with the SA girl.

Therefore, the potential of getting a bang from a coffee date when her friend is down the strip mall way dress shopping....is highly unlikely. Also...if it matters this girl is a grade school teacher.

It seems she just wants to "meet" me on the way to spring break to determine if we would be a good match.

I was hoping I could have a good date with this girl, hopefully get the kiss....and establish comfort/attraction for an eventual dating arrangement down the line when she returns from spring break.

Are you suggesting I refuse this date since the logistics and probability for a bang are kind of low and go for the date at a later time?

If I was in your shoes, yeah, I'd cancel with some DHV but whimsy reason; one that's not so serious that you HAD to cancel but that is preferable to you.

I don't know a lot about spring break culture, but is it normal for adults, i.e. school teachers to be doing this stuff? You may well have a party girl on your hands and we all know what happens when you don't fuck them on the first date...they vanish.

The thing is, no matter how massive an impression you make tomorrow over coffee, these girls are going to meet a tonne of guys over the next week/few days/whatever. They'll probably end up banging a guy or two. You'll be forgotten about, most likely...no matter how tight your game. Re-engaging will be a whole lot harder.

I'd be thinking...well she's driven down here once now, so theres no reason why she can't do it again in a couple of weeks or whatever.

Also, you need to stop using the term arrangement. I think it's clouding your thought process.

There should be no "dating arrangement". These girls are just like any others. The whole point of SA game is just getting them in front of you, essentially. Once that happens, treat them like any other girl.

In fact, treat them worse. Promise this works [Image: biggrin.gif]
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Girl wants to bring friend on first SA date...

Quote: (03-06-2015 09:13 PM)CrashBangWallop Wrote:  

Quote: (03-06-2015 09:03 PM)robreke Wrote:  

Quote: (03-06-2015 08:53 PM)CrashBangWallop Wrote:  

Quote: (03-06-2015 08:45 PM)robreke Wrote:  

Quote: (03-06-2015 08:37 PM)CrashBangWallop Wrote:  

The fact that you are getting these issues suggests to me that you aren't quite getting it right in your communication from the start.

I think you must be coming across as betabux here instead of rich-fun-alpha.

If SA girls aren't chasing YOU, something is wrong with your SA game.

Frankly, the fact that you are taking these girls out for lunch at all is a mistake in my experience; you should be meeting them for drinks only, just like any other girl. Sure, in a nice place or whatever, but still only drinks.

If you're too keen to invest resources from the off, it's giving off the wrong vibe.

Are you planning on meeting two girls at the same time?

Actually all these girls in question ARE chasing me....if you can call it that.

I had exchanged messages with them earlier in the week. Then, today...I had two of them message me that they wanted to meet me tomorrow.

The reason all are wanting to meet tomorrow is it's now spring break at a particular state college where these 2 girls go to school ( these two don't know each other...just happen to be on SA)

One of them hinted at allowance and one hasn't mentioned it. The one who hasn't mentioned it was the girl who wanted to bring her friend.

I told her 'no' to the friend thing and she agreed. So, I'm 'forced' to do daytime meetings tomorrow as these girls are driving down to the beach for spring break and they're just passing through my town tomorrow on the way.

But, they both texted me first today saying they'd be in town tomorrow on the way to spring break and want to meet.

Well, all I would be thinking in this situation is:

How can I bang one of them? Today/tomorrow.

Are the logistics possible?

Will she drink any alcohol if she thinks she's driving?

Does she absolutely have to be anywhere that evening?

I'd be screening for all these answers before committing to anything.

Don't forget, in their eyes, you are a high value man. Flaking on them will actually increase your value in their eyes. So if the logistics aren't down, cancel.

As for allowance girl, I'd have not replied for a while then just texted her "lol" if we already had enough attraction built (she'd know she was just doing a hail mary shit test) or something along the lines of "be a good girl tomorrow and we will talk over drinks" if not, trying to regain frame of dominance.

Just be careful that you aren't just being lined up as a pocket money stop on the way to spring break.

Solid advice.

As for the one girl who wanted to bring her friend to the date...Her friend WILL BE WITH Her....it's just that the friend is going to go shopping while I'm on the coffee date with the SA girl.

Therefore, the potential of getting a bang from a coffee date when her friend is down the strip mall way dress shopping....is highly unlikely. Also...if it matters this girl is a grade school teacher.

It seems she just wants to "meet" me on the way to spring break to determine if we would be a good match.

I was hoping I could have a good date with this girl, hopefully get the kiss....and establish comfort/attraction for an eventual dating arrangement down the line when she returns from spring break.

Are you suggesting I refuse this date since the logistics and probability for a bang are kind of low and go for the date at a later time?

If I was in your shoes, yeah, I'd cancel with some DHV but whimsy reason; one that's not so serious that you HAD to cancel but that is preferable to you.

I don't know a lot about spring break culture, but is it normal for adults, i.e. school teachers to be doing this stuff? You may well have a party girl on your hands and we all know what happens when you don't fuck them on the first date...they vanish.

The thing is, no matter how massive an impression you make tomorrow over coffee, these girls are going to meet a tonne of guys over the next week/few days/whatever. They'll probably end up banging a guy or two. You'll be forgotten about, most likely...no matter how tight your game. Re-engaging will be a whole lot harder.

I'd be thinking...well she's driven down here once now, so theres no reason why she can't do it again in a couple of weeks or whatever.

Also, you need to stop using the term arrangement. I think it's clouding your thought process.

There should be no "dating arrangement". These girls are just like any others. The whole point of SA game is just getting them in front of you, essentially. Once that happens, treat them like any other girl.

In fact, treat them worse. Promise this works [Image: biggrin.gif]

Interesting assessment. If I follow your suggestion, I'd be going from having a date, a sure opportunity to meet with her, to canceling and hoping I could get another one after her spring break.

Your rationale is that spring break will cloudy/muddle her memory/warm fuzzies she gets from me on this first date which will make any second date highly unlikely.

I admit, I would find it hard to cancel a definite date ( tomorrow) with a young hottie.

I'll think this over....

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#17

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You met her on Seeking Arrangement - that is telling.

It's possible to turn those girls around get them to suck your dick for little investment (little as in drinks). But her text tells you that it has not happened yet.

She drives off to Spring Break to suck some stranger's dick there with a girlfriend of hers. That should tell you a story.

She budgeted 3 hours to see a potential prospect which is fine.

I don't think it's a shit-test, since she likely drives from farther away to see you. I would go for the date, since she does the work here anyway. You either manage to create some attraction and bang her next date or you say - fuck it - run some Game and give them 100$ each for a 3-some if you see that you cannot seal the deal within 3 hours.

I do not advocate for P4P here, but it's hard to pull off the bang with the parameters you described.
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#18

Girl wants to bring friend on first SA date...

A couple of points.

1. There is an SA thread.
2. SA is not for "newbies".
3. You'd not accept to bring a "friend" for a regular date nor should you here.
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#19

Girl wants to bring friend on first SA date...

delete

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#20

Girl wants to bring friend on first SA date...

Quote: (03-07-2015 05:24 AM)Zelcorpion Wrote:  

You met her on Seeking Arrangement - that is telling.

It's possible to turn those girls around get them to suck your dick for little investment (little as in drinks). But her text tells you that it has not happened yet.

She drives off to Spring Break to suck some stranger's dick there with a girlfriend of hers. That should tell you a story.

She budgeted 3 hours to see a potential prospect which is fine.

I don't think it's a shit-test, since she likely drives from farther away to see you. I would go for the date, since she does the work here anyway. You either manage to create some attraction and bang her next date or you say - fuck it - run some Game and give them 100$ each for a 3-some if you see that you cannot seal the deal within 3 hours.

I do not advocate for P4P here, but it's hard to pull off the bang with the parameters you described.

maybe she threw in the "my friend will be with me do you mind if she comes" as a subtle covert way of saying: "We're down for a threesome" .....and I missed it:

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Of course, then they could just be fairly conservative girls, which this part of the country is known for...or at least not wild (as in wanting threesomes) and she just wants to meet me for a "date"

The only way to know for sure is to meet her on the date and feel it out. That would be a gamble because, like Carlos said, you always go for the same night (day in this case) bang.

I still have a few hours to figure it out....

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#21

Girl wants to bring friend on first SA date...

Quote: (03-07-2015 09:14 AM)robreke Wrote:  

maybe she threw in the "my friend will be with me do you mind if she comes" as a subtle covert way of saying: "We're down for a threesome" .....and I missed it:

[Image: mindblown.gif]

Of course, then they could just be fairly conservative girls, which this part of the country is known for...or at least not wild (as in wanting threesomes) and she just wants to meet me for a "date"

The only way to know for sure is to meet her on the date and feel it out. That would be a gamble because, like Carlos said, you always go for the same night (day in this case) bang.

I still have a few hours to figure it out....

The other guys already pointed out the obvious flaws in the story:

- going on Spring break to fuck - she will forget you most likely
- she is on Seeking Arrangement - that means she is willing to fuck for money or get a sponsor
- there is a massive time constraint

+ a 3-some might be possible if you can build attraction in a very short time
+ worst case you need to pay them to fuck them

Otherwise I agree with most guys here that chances for a bang are very low, a date after spring break even lower. Yeah - you could run a long-game, but you would have to leave one hell of an impression with her friend tagging along, which makes escalation almost impossible unless you include the friend too.
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#22

Girl wants to bring friend on first SA date...

The chances of a SA girl bringing along a friend to have a threesome on a first meet is zero.

These bitches aren't ever going to take the chance of you preferring her friend and essentially cock blocking and $$$ blocking themselves at the same time.

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P.S. why did you delete your last post? I thought it was interesting.
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#23

Girl wants to bring friend on first SA date...

Either you can:

1 - fuck her before all the frat bros run a train on her during spring break and know she wants your money to spend it on her/them.

2 - fuck her after all the frat bros ran a train on her during spring break and she wants money to pay her bills.

Either way, she's getting fucked at Spring Break for free.

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#24

Girl wants to bring friend on first SA date...

Quote: (03-07-2015 11:07 AM)Cattle Rustler Wrote:  

Either you can:

1 - fuck her before all the frat bros run a train on her during spring break and know she wants your money to spend it on her/them.

2 - fuck her after all the frat bros ran a train on her during spring break and she wants money to pay her bills.

Either way, she's getting fucked at Spring Break for free.

I punted her until post spring break. She said meeting then would be "perfect"

Hopefully she won't ride too big of a train.

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#25

Girl wants to bring friend on first SA date...

I'm late to the thread and see you already made the call. It sounds like the door is still open to meet and bang so that is positive. My initial thoughts were this is a girl who is on SA and headed to spring break even though she isn't in college. That sounds like a girl who is up for anything if you provide the right vibe and environment. Since spring break goes on for a month you may get another scenario just like this. If it does come up again I would say push it as far as you can. Girls go on spring break to cut loose and have some stories to tell. You can be the guy they meet on their way who was charming and fun and had a few drinks with, and things just happened. Spring break starts the minute they leave their driveway.

Speaking of spring break, anyone have any good stories? Specifically stories of banging college girls at spring break locations long after you have graduated college.
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