[Celtic]

Well, I'm planning a trip out of the country and looking forward to meeting some foreign women- and one thing I was thinking about- how much personal info do you usually give them?

When I've done this before I've always been honest about who I was when they asked questions, same as with girls in the US. I'd give them my real name, answer honestly when they asked where I worked, used my real e-mail.

But I've been wondering if this is a good idea- women from poorer countries might be looking for something to gain. It might be too easy for them to contact me later and pretend to be pregnant or something. So I was thinking maybe it would be a good idea next time to get a fake e-mail, use a fake last name, and start being a lot more stingy about how much of my life back home I reveal.

I know you guys are pros at this so I'd be interested to know how you all handle this! Are you all usually forthcoming with the women you meet when traveling or do you think it's better not to give them anything they could use to find you later?

[Vacancier Permanent]

Celtic,
Here are some basic rules that I abide by religiously! I Strongly suggest you do the same.

Rule # 1: always use a fake name with girls. Always!
Rule #1.1: Never give your real name to girls you just met.
Rule # 1.2: Never give any info about where you work, your real FB.
Rule # 1.3: in today's, world, I believe it's a necessity to have 2 FB accounts. One for family and close friends, no more than say 50 people on it. And another with your fake name for girls you meet, both locally and internationally.
Rule #2: have a fake FB, Skype, and even phone number to go with that fake name.
Rule #3: don't put any info on said fake FB account about where you work, which schools you went to, which places you tran, play ball etc...
Rule #4: don't add any of your non red pill traveling buddies on this fake FB account. Only girls and guys you meet along your travels should be on this account. No one from your work or family.

In the dating game, unfortunately, honesty is not the best policy. For your own sake. Especially of you have assets and a couple of nickels to rub. Heck, even if you're broke, it can protect you against some of these piranhas who will try to trap you by getting knocked up on purpose and without you knowing about it. Or worst, have you put as the daddy of her bastard kid from a random ONS that even she doesn't remember which guy it was.

Better be safe than sorry boys! Be careful out there! Especially if you play in the Anglosphere!

[Satoshi]

I'm honest about everything mostly because I cannot be bothered with the hassle of seeing up fake facebook and all. Also try to date only good girl and if I'm unsure about one girl I wouldn't add her to my facebook. If I were to knock a girl up I would of course take responsibility for my own child. I keep my facebook privacy settings to the top though, no one can see my friends and think like that.

[Seamus]

I don't go as far as VP, but I definitely agree that honesty is not the best policy. I don't tell out and out lies, since it would be too confusing to keep track of, instead I just give out partial truths.

For example, I give out my real first name, but never my last. I tell them my real profession, but never where I work. Stuff like that.

Facebook is trickier, since a ton of foreign girls ask for it, and it can really stall things if you don't give it out. It's also nice to view more pics of them if they're an online girl, obviously. I don't have two accounts, but my real account doesn't have my last name, has the highest security settings, and doesn't have any info about my education, etc.

This has all worked out well for me so far, and has shielded me from a few crazies.

Edit: It also depends on what you're looking for of course. If you're in the country for two weeks, fake everything might make sense. If you're there for two months and want a mini-relationship, lying all the time might be counterproductive

[MY DETROIT PLAYAS]

I am of the same mind as VP; keep in mind a lot of these women you meet internationally and abroad are also putting their best foot forward as well

Many aren't even looking for Mr Right, especially if you are just in town for a short time.

No. These women are looking for Mr. Right Now

Don't block your blessings

[WanderingSoul]

I do exactly the same as Satoshi. I live my life normally. I'm also not pulling super shady girls from shady nightclubs (usually lol) so I don't hide anything. I do keep Facebook locked down though and don't add random girls, for the most part. I also keep it locked down so I can regulate what drunk, stupid shit my friends back home decide to post up at 3AM like the degenerates that they are lol.

[Laner]

If I am playing a girl she only gets enough information to keep her in the game. I have never lost out by not giving her the information she wants. Never.

If I play that girl and like her, then I will start dropping bits and pieces when I want/need to. No big deal. I am not a blubbering idiot, and it would take a woman at least a dozen dates to get a lock on what I do, who I do it with, and where I do it. Thats long enough to make solid character judgements about a woman.

When I travel abroad the same rules apply, only now the women are less likely to feel the need to stalk me. I will add them on something like WhatsApp or WeChat or Line to keep communication open for future rendezvous.

Facebook? I am not searchable and if they do find me there is nothing on it other than some dirtbiking and skiing photos to appease the creep factor. If they friend me, I decide then what to do. Often I message them with "I dont accept friend requests from women I do not know well, I have had drama in the past".

I have used FB while lying in bed with a girl to show her photos. Everything has to be on my terms, when I feel its appropriate. Some younger girls think this is weird but I just tell them that I leave the attention whoring to the 20yo's. It generally only makes them more curious, which is never a bad thing.

Dont be secretive. Just set the rules and only deviate on your terms.

[Noir]

There is a difference between honesty and discretion.

Use the mystery to your advantage; the beauty of travelling is that you can create a new identity for yourself.

If you are already cool, just show glimpses.

[Edgemell]

I have 2 FB accounts, just the way VP has stated... Other than that, I do tell them my real profession - it is, after all, quite an attractive field of work.

I do give out my real name, and my real number. I am a married man, so the two FB profiles is kind of mandatory, but my main rule that I never break is that I tell I am married among the first pieces of info I give out about myself. I prefer that to cost me a lay over getting months of headache afterwards...

Haven't regretted it, yet . I know it is risky, but, in years I seem to have developed the instinct about choosing who to play with, and how, so I have managed to stay out of any kind of trouble...

Just hoping, I don't learn things the hard way...

[mindanao]

(02-25-2015 07:57 AM)Seamus Wrote:  

I don't go as far as VP, but I definitely agree that honesty is not the best policy. I don't tell out and out lies, since it would be too confusing to keep track of, instead I just give out partial truths.

For example, I give out my real first name, but never my last. I tell them my real profession, but never where I work. Stuff like that.

Facebook is trickier, since a ton of foreign girls ask for it, and it can really stall things if you don't give it out. It's also nice to view more pics of them if they're an online girl, obviously. I don't have two accounts, but my real account doesn't have my last name, has the highest security settings, and doesn't have any info about my education, etc.

This has all worked out well for me so far, and has shielded me from a few crazies.

Edit: It also depends on what you're looking for of course. If you're in the country for two weeks, fake everything might make sense. If you're there for two months and want a mini-relationship, lying all the time might be counterproductive

I used to be uneasy about adding to facebook lots of girls. When I was living in the philippines, I started to loose this uneasiness because I found out ways to keep things secure. I hid my friends list. I disabled commenting on my wall and I limited the posts I put up to limit the number of likes exposing friends to other friends I added. They gossiped too much in that country. I don't know if they gossip as much in Brazil but I will keep the same security measures for when I go to Brazil next year.