[sir_seducer]

you got the number she talked with you with good interest...but now second time she doesnt respond you..she does not return your call your message.

what is the good strategy beside just quiting and deleting her number?

[Excelsior]

(05-09-2011 11:59 AM)sir_seducer Wrote:  

you got the number she talked with you with good interest...but now second time she doesnt respond you..she does not return your call your message.

what is the good strategy beside just quiting and deleting her number?

Short of just cutting her off of your list(which I think is the best plan)?

Simply back off and play it cool. Keep her number if you want, but don't initiate contact until she shows some interest. If she does not do this within a reasonable time frame (give it a week or two), your best bet then is to quit and delete.

If that interest you say you heard in your earlier talks with her was genuine, she will re-initiate with you and you'll be able to continue gaming her. Play it cool until that happens, and be ready to move on if it does not.

[Tony Snow25]

I would say just move on. I don't think there are any other ways to go about this. Any other forms of trying to contact her are going to come across as needy. No need to delete the number just try to find other girls there are plenty. If she calls back cool and if she doesn't who cares.

[Chad Daring]

I'd first ask when did you contact her in relation to when you got her number?

Regardless of that though, if you get colded on like that just move on. Dont give a shit, only other thing that could happen is she eventually does hit you up later on.

[FretDancer]

OP I can't tell you how many times I've had really great 1st time interactions with several girls, It made me feel really good about it and while doing so, and I could tell (or so I thought) that she was enjoying it too.

...Only to find out that she never called/texted back or she just flaked and flaked.

Best advice: just move on.

[sir_seducer]

ok i read in the ladyguide that if she doesnt response...then your last option is to send her a decleration text or email...which will end up you with her with your dignity or she might contact you....the text is something like this ''it was disapointed that you did not response me..however,since we had a great time and thought we could be good together ..i am giving you one more last chance..i wll call you at night..''

if she picks up..great...if she doesnt...roll back the cards and pack your bags.

what u say.

[Jack_007]

Super wuss

[Excelsior]

(05-11-2011 01:49 AM)sir_seducer Wrote:  

ok i read in the ladyguide that if she doesnt response...then your last option is to send her a decleration text or email...which will end up you with her with your dignity or she might contact you....the text is something like this ''it was disapointed that you did not response me..however,since we had a great time and thought we could be good together ..i am giving you one more last chance..i wll call you at night..''

if she picks up..great...if she doesnt...roll back the cards and pack your bags.

what u say.

I say that you're far too invested in a girl who has shown next to no investment in you.

Do not send that text. Leave it alone.

[theIVth]

Just move on.

Guys meet girls all the time where initially everything is great and then nothing comes of it.

When I get a girls number or whatever, I automatically assume that she probably will flake out or just disappear. If she doesnt, cool. But if she does, im not blindsided by it because thats just shit that girls do.

Dont get too invested in a chick until she does something to show that she is REALLY down for you.

[FretDancer]

(05-11-2011 08:35 AM)theIVth Wrote:  

Dont get too invested in a chick until she does something to show that she is REALLY down for you.

Nailed it.

[Screwston]

(05-10-2011 11:24 PM)FretDancer Wrote:  

OP I can't tell you how many times I've had really great 1st time interactions with several girls, It made me feel really good about it and while doing so, and I could tell (or so I thought) that she was enjoying it too.

...Only to find out that she never called/texted back or she just flaked and flaked.

Best advice: just move on.

Shit always happens to me. Its annoying as hell but there's plenty of bitches out there


Seducer don't send that text!!

[Willy Wonka]

It's possible to occasionally bring cold leads around... but its rare, so best to just move on.

I don't delete numbers out my phone much, unless I really just can't remember who the person is. I'll occasionally flip through and text some random chicks I haven't talked to/heard from in a while...

You sound too invested in the outcome though, best to just move on.

[hypesession]

I save old prospects and send mass texts sometimes. I've revived some from doing that.

But right off the bat, it doesn't matter, who cares, just gotta get over it.

[pitt]

I thought according to your own advice, you would clearly understand that she is not interested..well not interested anymore.

[vagabond]

(07-01-2011 04:46 AM)pitt Wrote:  

I thought according to your own advice, you would clearly understand that she is not interested..well not interested anymore.

as the other posters said, Don't send that text. Go out and get your mind off of her. If you're still thinking about her in a week I'd say you could send one text to try to restart things. If she doesn't respond that, forget about it.

[solo]

This is classic flaking isn't it? Plenty of good advise, my input will be semi-repetitive. I think that what one should do is start approaching other girls directly after getting a number from the first girl (as opposed to waiting on her to respond first). That way you have already moved on regardless of the first girls' response or non-response. At least this is what I'll be doing next time.